07/16/2023
As humans we tend to project our own thoughts and emotional attributes to our animals. While this is most often well meaning, it can be a disservice to them as we aren't seeing the entire picture as a whole.
We interpret certain facial expressions in our dogs as happy or smiling, when in reality they're under high levels of stress. They lack the complex ability we have to rationalize safe vs dangerous, so something we see as normal and non-threatening, they may see differently.
We also sometimes associate quality of life for animals (and each other) with bare minimum needs such as food, water and shelter, but it goes much farther beyond that. Learning to accurately read our dog's body language creates a two-way communication system, providing a higher quality of life. When an animal's (or even human's for that matter) needs aren't properly met, you will get behavior problems.
Stress-panting like in the picture of this graphic so often gets mistaken for a dog “smiling” and happy or just hot. But especially in combination with the other stress signals this dog is giving, they’re potentially experiencing high levels of stress and discomfort.
If there is only one thing we could do that would improve the wellbeing of the dogs in our lives, it would be to learn to read their body language.
Learning to read dog body language would give us so much helpful information to provide better care for our dog. For example, we would know when perhaps they are uncomfortable, scared, or overwhelmed and help them out and help them feel safe as best as we can. We would be able to meet their needs better.
If we put ourselves in our dogs’ shoes (or paws), imagine how we would feel if we were trying to communicate but end up just getting ignored, misunderstood, or punished. Our freezing out of fear being mistaken for “calm”, our “please stay away and don’t hurt me” being mistaken for wanting more interaction, etc. It would be so frustrating and exhausting, perhaps we would feel the need to escalate into more aggressive behaviours to try to be heard.
Many dogs unfortunately experience this a lot. Considering how much they listen to us (and they really do more than you think), it’s important that we listen to them too.
Our dogs communicate with us so much, it’s just not with words. When we learn to understand what their subtle and also obvious body language signals mean, we can then help them with what they need and provide them with better care.
A great place to start learning about dog body language is with Lili Chin’s !
ID: The background photo shows a black and tan dog with pointy ears with their ears back, eyes wide, face tense, commissures pulled back, and tongue sticking out. The text says “Prioritise learning dog body language.”