07/08/2025
If You Love Butterflies, You Must Be Willing To Help The Caterpillars
Everyone loves butterflies. They are powdery flecks of rainbows. Floating reminders of wonder. Beautiful and practical, they can capture our attention for an interminable amount of time.
Caterpillars though…
Caterpillars rarely get the love that butterflies do. In fact, they often get the opposite. They might draw some curiosity but they will just as often elicit revilement. They can at times be almost as colorful as a butterfly, but they lack its grace. They are also often viewed as destructive. Butterflies pollinate but caterpillars eat and destroy.
Personally, I love caterpillars. No Tail once told me that it is not required for a caterpillar to turn into a butterfly in order for it to be beautiful.
Regardless of how you feel about caterpillars though, if you love butterflies, caterpillars are a necessity. If you want more butterflies, you have to be willing to help the caterpillars. You have to be willing to provide food for the caterpillars. You have to be willing to shelter the caterpillars. You have to be willing to pick a caterpillar up when it has fallen.
This applies to people as much as it does to butterflies and caterpillars. Almost everyone wants the "beautiful" people. The ones that we view as successful. The scientists, the engineers, the best-selling authors, the star athletes. The ones that are fun to look at it.
The caterpillars though…
The people that we don't like to touch. The ones that make us feel uncomfortable to look at. The ones that are struggling. When we see them in need, we tend to turn away. How many butterflies are lost every day because the person in need is not already beautiful enough to elicit our sympathy? Because they are too poor? Because they are too dirty? Because they don't look like us? Because they are too odd? Because they smell funny?
We never know what someone has the potential to become if they are just given the opportunity, but all we want are the butterflies.
"Let someone else deal with the caterpillars." Right?
"Let someone else love the rejected. " Right?
"Let someone else comfort the wayward and unwanted." Right?
No! That is not the way life works. WE are that someone. All of us.
If you want butterflies, feed the caterpillars.
If you want butterflies, shelter the caterpillars.
If you want butterflies, pick up the caterpillar that has fallen.
If you want butterflies, love the ones that others have rejected.
If you love butterflies, you must be willing to help the caterpillars.