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11/03/2024

Make No Excuses For Aggression

Before we break down the individual types of aggression more closely, give me one more week. Let’s look at excuses. When a client tells me the dog isn’t aggressive it’s just protective, I cringe. There is a very clear difference between aggression and protection.

Aggression : a forceful action or procedure (as an unprovoked attack) especially when intended to dominate or master.

Protection: the state of being kept from harm, loss, etc.: the state of being protected. Something that keeps a person or thing from being harmed, lost, etc.: something that protects someone or something.

Dogs that are taught rules, learn to obey ‘their people’ and are expected to behave will be protective without fail. You do not need to teach protection. Your family is his alpha or pack leader. A dog who knows these facts because of the nature of a canine and the loyalty I just mentioned will place himself in peril to protect his pack.

Aggressive dogs will growl at, snap at or bite anyone, even their own pack members, with little or no provocation. Here is a list of behaviors that are aggressive, even some subtle ones that should be corrected and stopped. And, if you are unsure how to do so, call a trainer. Note: there are no exceptions, excuses, or explanations for aggression. Do not try to rationalize any of these you recognize.

*Your dog growls, barks back, or snaps when told to drop anything.
*Your dog will not stop growling or barking and sit calmly when he meets someone.
*Your dog will not go into a DOWN position on your command. And, especially, if he growls or snaps when you try to enforce the command.
*Your dog places his chin on your lap and presses down.
*Your dog stands beside you and presses his side into you.
*Your dog jumps up at your lap and either wraps his front paws around your leg or pushes down on your lap with his paws.
*Your dog will not get off the bed, sofa, or anything on your command.
*Your dog turns and mouths a snap at you when you give him a leash correction on a walk or to stop wrong behavior.
*Your dog lunges at people, other animals, barking and snarling and will not stop when you tell him to.

That is an abbreviated list, but enough to make the point. PLEASE do not excuse aggression away by calling it protection. Owning a dog is a huge responsibility. Uncorrected aggression becomes dangerous and a major liability for you. Be honest with yourself about your dog’s behaviors.

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10/24/2024

Is Aggression Ever Good, Part Two

In last week’s column I shared six different types of aggression. There may be more, but these are the most recognized by dog professionals: Possessive/ territorial aggression, fear aggression, pain-induced aggression, misdirected aggression, dominant aggression, and submissive aggression. I do plan to break these down for you in future columns. But this week, I want to answer the main question’ “Is there ever a time aggressiveness is acceptable?

Webster’s Dictionary defines aggression this way: "1. a forceful action or procedure (such as an unprovoked attack) especially when intended to dominate or master . 2. The practice of making attacks or encroachments; especially : unprovoked violation by one country of the territorial integrity of another .3 : hostile, injurious, or destructive behavior or outlook especially when caused by frustration. Aggression is often the expression of pent-up rage."

When a client calls me about aggressive behavior in their dog, it amazes me how quick they are to give me all of the reasons the situation or the bite was really not the dog’s fault or that bad at all.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Rationalizing a dog’s bad behavior is dangerous. We can almost always explain why aggressive behavior happened. We can almost always fit the behavior into one of the afore-mentioned categories of canine aggression. But what I NEVER do is excuse canine aggression.

Your dog is a part of your family, or, in his mind, your pack. Your dog needs a master/alpha in his pack. Humans must always be the master of the dog. Protection of the pack is an instinct, and most dog owners appreciate that trait in their dogs. But protection and aggression are not the same thing.

When a dog behaves aggressively, even when it seems warranted, the dog is ignoring the pack rules and ‘taking things into his own hands.’ The short answer to the question is: NO, there is never a time that aggression is good. Do not explain or excuse canine aggression. Please.

Stay tuned the next few columns for a more in-depth breakdown of the types of aggression and also how to correct them.

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10/01/2024

Is Aggression Ever Good?

Q. Are there differences in how dogs show aggression and are there ever times aggression is acceptable?

A. Two good questions. I will answer them in two entries.

Most dogs really are ‘man’s best friend.’ However, we must not forget they are still dogs. They will react, think, and emote like dogs. Dog professionals agree there are different types of aggression, with different causes or triggers. At its most basic, canine aggression is caused by fear or insecurity. A well-exercised, well-trained, obedient dog is a secure dog.

Please note: aggressiveness will NOT go away on its own, and correcting the behavior takes TIME. Here’s a brief overview of the most commonly accepted manifestations of aggression.

POSSESSIVE/TERRITORIAL AGGRESSION is not the same as guarding the property. This dog selfishly guards toys, food, people, the yard, the car—pretty much anything—from other people or animals. The dog fears losing what it perceives is his.

FEAR AGGRESSION can be aimed at other animals, or people, or both. Something real or perceived has frightened the dog and he feels cornered. The bigger the fear, the more dangerous the situation. Please understand a frightened dog is as dangerous as a bully.

PAIN-INDUCED AGGRESSION is understandable. A dog in pain is likely to show aggression when someone tries to help. The dog fears you will create more pain. Which, may happen when treating the wound.

MISDIRECTED AGGRESSION happens when a human tries to step in the middle of a dog fight and end it. In the heat of the moment, one of the dogs may snap at and bite people interjecting themselves into the fight.

DOMINANT AGGRESSION is somewhat of a ‘bully mentality.’ This type of aggression is very dangerous because at the source is the fear of not being in charge or control. A dominant dog always want to be boss and when a person, other animal or situation threatens that the dog reacts with anger and aggression. As we all know bullies are insecure.

SUBMISSIVE AGGRESSION is the saddest because it is usually caused by a human. It’s also the most dangerous type of aggression. By nature, dogs understand rules and know to submit to the one in charge. Submissive dogs have learned the one in charge—human, canine, or environment—will cause pain. So, they trust no one, put themselves in a corner, and come out fighting.

Stay tuned, in the next few entries I will address this in more depth and share if aggression is ever acceptable.

P.S. If you have a question you'd like me to answer, feel free to put it in the comments.

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09/19/2024

Skepticism Debunked

In the past thirty-six years I’ve had many conversations about how exactly teaching a dog to ‘sit’ before he gets a treat will help him behave for company or come when he’s called.

Years ago, a family came to class with a rather wild four-month -old Siberian Husky puppy. She was cute, energetic, and dominant. The woman was distraught and hopeful class would help. The man doubted. He told me this class was the biggest waste of his money ever and that nothing was going to help that pup behave.

I began class telling them we were going to teach the dog to ‘sit’ and not get up even if we bounced a tennis ball. He shook his head. Then he crossed his arms and got this resolute look on his face. He said, “If you can make that dog sit in the middle of the room and not get up even when you go outside and walk the whole way around this building, I won’t ever complain again about how much I paid for class.”

I did and he didn’t.

As for my clients’ questions, they are right. Teaching a dog to sit for a treat does NOT teach him good manners or behavior. I actually am not a fan of treat training. I suggest giving treats whenever you wish and do make your dog sit before giving the treat. But do NOT give him a treat each time he sits. Obedience training not applied into everyday life is about as useful as a gas grill on your porch that has no propane.

It is not in teaching your dog the commands that he learns to behave, it is in applying them. He should always SIT when you give him a treat. But go much further than that. If the only commands your dog ever learned were ‘sit’ and ‘done’ you could have a well-mannered pet. (I feel you would be doing your dog’s intelligence and abilities a disservice if that was all you taught him.) But I digress. When you tell him to ‘sit’ he should do so immediately and not stop until you release him saying ‘okay you’re done.’ Once he understands the command, then apply it.

Make him ‘sit’: when company comes in, when company leaves, before he goes outside, before he comes inside, before he eats, while you eat, when he needs to calm down, to place him in a ‘timeout’ for punishment, at the veterinarian’s, at street corners, when you meet other people or dogs on walks, while you wipe muddy feet off, when he is right under your feet as you do housework, when he is begging, and so on.

And, that’s just the short list! Add a few more basic commands like down, heel, come, stay, stand, leave it, drop it, turn away, and back it up to his repertoire. Then you have a wealth of options to use in teaching your dog proper behavior. Those are only the basic obedience commands. Working dogs can easily learn 100-150 commands.

Give it a try. Teach your dog the commands, and use them in your regular routine with him. In the end you, like my client, will not complain again and your dog will be your best friend.

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09/08/2024

Clearing the Fog About the Breeds, conclusion

There are two more breed groups to look at in this series: the Toy Group and the Miscellaneous Group. These groups are the smallest in number, and frequently in size. But they are by no means any less important to the AKC.

There are twenty-one breeds in the Toy Group. Toy dogs are bred mainly for companionship. The AKC states that the main function of this group is to ‘embody sheer delight.’ Now, if you have ever seen an angry Chihuahua or stubborn Bichon, you might question that statement!

While these breeds are primarily for companionship, many are hunters or sporting dogs, some are hounds, and others herd. They are small dogs and make great pets. But do not let their size fool you. They are stubborn, assertive little animals and require exercise to challenge them physically, and training to challenge them mentally. They are small, and hardly dangerous, but if not taught the rules they can become what are commonly called, ‘ankle biters.’ And, ankle bites hurt.

The final AKC group is the Miscellaneous Class. The breeds eligible to participate in this group are not yet recognized as AKC purebreds. Some are recognized by the UKC. These breeds await approval into the AKC as a pure breed and, when they are approved, they move from this class into the appropriate group. Thus, within this class you see dogs of any of the official Groups. And, as with all breeds, the dogs’ behaviors will be a reflection of their intended purpose.

In order for a dog to move from the Miscellaneous Class to full recognition The AKC board of directors must be satisfied there is a substantial, sustained nationwide interest in the breed. There has to be a parent breed club, and continued, healthy, growth of the breed while in the Miscellaneous Class. While in this Class, dogs may compete in obedience trials, and some performance events. They are not eligible for Conformation Championship points until recognized as a full breed.

As I close this series, I want to reiterate that I am aware there are other breed organizations, mixed breed organizations, designer breed organizations. This series is based on the AKC recognized breed groups.

Whether you own a purebred, a mixed breed, or a designer breed, I encourage you to look at the behaviors common to the dog you have. It will help you understand how to insure your dog becomes your best friend ever.

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08/31/2024

Clearing the Fog About the Breeds, part three

I realize the American Kennel Club is not the only not-for-profit organization devoted to the advancement of purebred dogs. In this series, I use the AKC group delineations.
In 2009 the AKC reorganized the groups. Sporting, Non-Sporting, and Hound groups were each divided to better categorize the dogs.

Sporting Dogs originated to hunt game birds both on land and in water and has been divided into Pointers/ Setters group, and the Retrievers/ Spaniels group. There are a total of thirty different breeds in the two groups. They are bred to retrieve fowl on land, water, or both, to flush fowl out of the brush, or to find and point them out to their masters. These dogs love life and require much activity. They are intelligent and make great pets. Owners must be prepared to train and master them or their household may suffer the consequences of high-energy dogs.

Hound Dogs hunt by using sight or scent. The AKC divided the Hound Group into Sight Hounds and Scent Hounds. Without question, the ability of a hound dog to track things by scent is more highly developed than any other breed of dog. For that reason, they are used with great success in search and rescue situations. In general, each breed has a specific type of game it hunts. There are a total of 29 hound breeds. They also make great pets but need to run and use their abilities. If owners wish to make pets out of them, they must provide ample exercise and allow the scent and tracking instincts to be used.

Non-Sporting group was renamed in 2009. It was divided into Companion Dogs and Northern Dogs. There are twelve breeds in the Companion group. They were developed for the main purpose of being companions. What a grand reason to exist! They range in size from small to large, may have long hair, short hair, be shedders or not. Obviously, they make great pets. As with all breeds, training is still important, because being bred for companions does not take away their canine instincts.

Northern dog breeds are working dogs. They are bred to not only survive, but thrive in the most brutal, cold climates. They are used for drafting, pulling, rescue, cold-weather hunting, and many other outdoor tasks. They do not handle hot climates well. The tenacity that makes them do so well in cold weather also makes them stubborn dogs. They can make amazing pets as long as the owners provide mental challenges, much exercise, and become the Master while the dog is still a young puppy.

That leaves us with two more groups: Toy and Miscellaneous. We’ll look at them next week and a few final notes on the groups. Enjoy your best friends this week.

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08/23/2024

Clearing the Fog About Breeds, part two

Earlier this week, we looked at the AKC Terrier Group. Let’s look at the Herding and Working groups.
In the question the writer expressed fears of Pit Bulls, Rottweilers, Doberman Pinschers and German Shepherds. Rottweilers and Dobermans are in the Working Group. German Shepherds are Herding dogs.

The Herding Group has twenty-six different breeds varying in size from small Swedish Hallhunds to large Bouvier des Flandres. All dogs in this group were originally bred for herding of cattle, sheep, or goats. Some drive the herds, others lead, while still others round up and intimidate the herd. Herding dogs are highly intelligent, strong, alert, fast, energetic, and focused on their tasks.

The traits that make them great farm and herding dogs, make them loyal pets, and excellent guardians. Some Herding breeds, such as German Shepherds, are used for police and guard dog work. This is not because they are intrinsically aggressive. Aggressive dogs are rejected from police work. It is their intelligence, loyalty, and strength that gives them a propensity to make great police dogs.

The Working Group has twenty-eight recognized breeds. These breeds are typically large, strong, intelligent, intense, and loyal. They are bred to WORK. They are happiest when their skills are used.

For example, Doberman Pinschers are used frequently as watch dogs. Does that mean they should be feared? NO. They are trained for that because of their tenacity and intelligence. A properly raised Doberman will become a beloved pet, affectionate to all, and staunchly protective of its pack.

Rottweilers are not bullies. The breed originated for cattle herding and protection. They are large, strong dogs. Their intelligence rivals that of the Herding breeds. These dogs are comfortable in families and playing with children, as well as protecting and police work.

Because of their size and intelligence, all Working breeds are high maintenance dogs. Un-worked Working dogs will be unhappy. It insults their intelligence when owners ignore the work aspect and simply try to make them into cuddle babies—and yet they do love to cuddle. Owners willing to train them, exercise them, and challenge their minds, will have loyal, well-adjusted pets that will still cuddle.

Note: The Complete Dog Book by The American Kennel Club lists origins, descriptions, and training tips for all recognized AKC breeds. It is a valuable reference to learn about dog breeds.

Next we look at Sporting, Non-Sporting, and Hound dogs. (And, yes, we will get to mixed breeds too.)

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08/21/2024

Clearing the Fog About Breeds, Part One

A question I am frequently asked: “I am afraid of Dobermans, Pit Bulls, Rottweilers, and German Shepherds. Are my fears founded? If not, can you help me overcome them?”

I shall break my answer up into several posts as we look at the various different groups of dogs, mixes, and designer breeds. In the question the writer lists one from terrier group, two from the working group, and one from herding. So, let’s have a look at the terrier first.

There are twenty-seven breeds in the AKC Terriers Group. All terriers are tenacious, energetic, focused dogs. They originally were bred for some form of hunting, usually rodent, and also for baiting bulls and bear. The dogs are staunchly loyal and some are used for protection or guarding. They are high energy dogs and require much exercise and discipline.

Since you mentioned pit bulls, let’s start there. Pit Bull is really not an AKC breed. True Pit Bulls will not ever be pets. Why? Because a true pit bull is bred for one purpose: disgusting, illegal dog fighting in 12’ X12’ pits. Thus the name. Recently, the tendency is to place American Staffordshire terriers, Staffordshire Bull Terriers, Bull Terriers, Cane Corsas, American Bulldogs, and Presa Canarios all into one lump category and call them pit bulls. Then, we condemn the ‘breed’ instead of the humans who should really be condemned. Any of the ‘bull’ breeds are strong, stubborn, tactile, and loyal. They are protective of their humans and good judges of the character of strangers they meet.

Anyone who owns a terrier, any terrier, has a huge responsibility. They are wonderful pets and fun to own because of their energy. They can also be terrors if their owners do not take the role of leader seriously. Terriers are usually NOT lap dogs.

I wish I could teach you how to not fear these dogs, or maybe have what I would call a reasonable fear. EVERY dog has the potential to bite. And EVERY bite has the potential to be bad. In almost every case of dogs behaving badly there is an IRRESPONSIBLE HUMAN involved. Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer, states, “In the 70’s they blamed the Dobermans, in the 80’s they blamed German Shepherds, in the 90’s they blamed Rottweilers. Now they blame the Pit Bull. When will they blame the humans?”

People tend to expect retrievers to be good dogs and bull breeds to be mean. Stereotyping is a bad thing. Each dog, given bad circumstances, has the potential to be dangerous. Each dog, given the right circumstances, has the potential to be the best dog ever.

Come back next week for the next part of this series.

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08/09/2024

If you have never loved or lost a dog, t you might as well skip this post. I call them ambushes. The things that would appear to be little and to not effect, but in reality, they stop you cold and bring grief crashing into you. A week ago, I thought my Gracie was just battling some heat-related sickness. After spending an hour and a half at the veterinarian's office for many tests, x-rays, ultrasound, I found out she was dying, probably of cancer. As I go through this week I am being ambushed daily. One day the ambushes will decrease. For now I keep remining myself they are proof of the wonderful love between me and my Gracie-girl:

* A cardboard plate on the floor . . my first thought was I better pick it up because Gracie loves to chew on cardboard . . . and then I cried.
* Penny, the 14 year old dog following me EVERYWHERE not wanting to be alone.
*Penny, who never really paid attention to where Gracie was outside now standing just outside the door like she cannot go on an explore if Gracie is not outside too
* Calling Penny inside saying "Girls!" and remembering it is not just "Girl."
* Vacuuming the dog hair and realizing there will be no more masses of Gracie hair.
* Taking granddaughter home and her saying her usualy goodbyes as we go out the driveway."Bye bye Punny(penny), bye bye Vazzy(Son Eric's dog Vesi), Byebye Ceecee( Gracie) . . . That day Isolde didn't look for Gracie too much, but I know she will.
* Being able to walk around the house and not having to step over the bi Golden Retriever lying in the middle of everything.
* Actually missing the smell of wet dog after she went outside in this pouring rain.

And that's just a few. So, this week as I face my ambushes, I'm sure some of you can relate, and some of you may be experiencing your own ambushes. Loving dogs is a wonder, a joy, a part of life I wouldn't do without . . . but it means facing this part of it too.

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08/08/2024

To those who have contacted me about training . . . I will get with you this weekend. This week has felt like a long year as we lost our sweet Gracie girl on Sunday. She was only 9 1/2 years old. Retriever Cancer is so very tough. And our old dog, Penny, who is almost 14, is as lost without Gracie as we are.

07/06/2024

07/03/2024

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07/01/2024

Murphy’s Laws for Dog Owners

No matter how many years I train dogs or how many classes I teach, it always happens. A family comes to class all smiles because they can’t wait to show me how well their dog did all week. Guess what happens? Nothing. Dogs are creatures of habit and routine. They understand discipline and rules. They live for their masters and remain unerringly loyal to them. But, despite all of that, they can be unpredictable and frustrating, too.

Years ago, Edward Aloysious Murphy, Jr., an aerospace engineer, first coined the phrase ‘anything that can go wrong will go wrong.’ He referred to defense systems. And, throughout his life he thought all of the comical anecdotes on his ‘law’ were ridiculous. But, today I shall embrace the ridiculous and share my ideas on Murphy’s Dog Laws.

1. If you come to class eager to show off how well your dog can do the commands, she will do nothing.
2. If you come to class ready to ‘fire the trainer’ because your dog has become a total idiot all week, she will perform perfectly.
3. When you are off work and have plenty of time to spend outside with your dog, he will have no interest in being outside with you.
4. You can guarantee your dog will NOT come to you when: you are in PJ’s; you are already late for work; or you are all dressed up.
5. Your dog will ALWAYS come directly to you and jump on you when he is covered in mud.
6. The one person who doesn’t like dogs is the one your dog will bark at, jump on, and not leave alone.
7. You’ve been leaving him out of his crate daily for a while. Then, the one day you forget to put away the trash, or the bread, the scrap box, or fill-in-the-blank, is the day your dog should have been in his crate.
8, If there is one person your dog absolutely must behave around, landlord, relatives, police . . . you can bet that is who he won’t behave around.
9. Some days you want to give your dog away and swear you will never ever get another one, and those are the days they come and curl up beside you and make themselves invaluable.
10. When you come home and hear no enthusiastic greeting from inside the house, you can bet there’s a reason. And it’s not a good one.
11. If you are on the phone your dog will bark.
12. You can scoop the entire yard and, rest assured, the one pile you miss is the one you will step in. barefoot.
13. The quietest dog in the world will suddenly become a maniac barker the moment you finally get the grumpy baby to sleep.

I would love to hear from you all with your additions to the list! Stay tuned next week when we answer some more pertinent questions.

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06/19/2024

When Exercise Is NOT What Your Dog Needs

Several years ago, I was at the York Kennel Club Dog Show. It was the second weekend in July, and it was hot. All over the fairgrounds they had small kiddie pools with blocks of ice in them. They encouraged people to allow their dogs to lie in the icy cold water to cool off. At a dog show you’d expect responsible dog owners would attend. Ten minutes after I arrived, an announcement came over the fairground system for the owner of a specific car to go retrieve his dog from the car, it was in distress. This announcement happened three times. The final time they informed the owner they broke into the car, had the dog and he should come to the main desk to reclaim his dog and pay the fine. At a dog show no less!

Something tells me there are people who need this information. Dogs’ normal body temperature is 102.5F. Even on cool days they are hotter than we are. Panting is an efficient cooling mechanism in dogs. However, dogs get overheated faster than us, and they go from heat exhaustion to heat stroke quicker. Heat stroke is most often fatal for dogs.

Good rule of thumb for you: if it is hot enough all you want to do is find a pool or an air-conditioned house, keep your dog inside. Walks, runs, hard play, outside training should all be saved for early morning, after dark, or not at all on hot days. Swimming is the only acceptable exercise for them.

I know I repeat the importance of exercise in my columns. But never risk your dog’s life to get said exercise. PAVEMENT GETS HOT, DANGEROUSLY HOT. Even if the day is not oppressively hot, pavement, especially asphalt may be. For example, if the air temp is only 77F, the asphalt temp may be 125F (At 125F skin destruction may occur in mere minutes).At 87F, the asphalt temp can be as high as 143F. That’s hot.

Your dog’s pads are protective, but not against that kind of heat. If your dog is used to walking on gravel, cement or asphalt his pads probably are nicely calloused, which offers some more protection, but not enough. Do the ‘5-count test.’ Place the back your hand on the pavement. Hold it there and count to five. If it is too hot for you to keep your hand there comfortably, it is too hot for your dog’s feet. Walk on grass in the cool of the day instead. On hot days give your dog mental exercise. If you work her mind she will still be stimulated and not get too ‘rammie.’

Play fetch inside. Make her SIT before tossing her favorite toy. She must wait to run after it until you release her. In an air-conditioned house you can play this as long as you wish. Hide and seek is another good one. Place her in a SIT or DOWN and go to another room. Call for her to COME. When she finds you have her SIT in front of you and give her a piece of a treat. Again, you can place this as long as you wish and in the process you are working on the COME command.

When summer heat rises to the levels we’re seeing this week, keeping cool trumps exercise for your dog. Soon enough things will cool down and you will resume your daily walks and runs. In the meantime, the three most important things your dog needs are, INDOOR exercise, discipline, and affection!

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05/27/2024

When Things Go Boom

Last night I was sitting at my desk around 11:00 and someone nearby shot off some fireworks. My poor Penny is very afraid of fireworks. But she is now thirteen years old and mostly deaf, so she didn’t hear it. Phew, right?

That got me thinking that many people deal with this fear in their dogs throughout the summer. So, here are my thoughts. Thunderstorms, fireworks, civil war reenactments, gunshots, and firecrackers each have the ability to drive dogs into massive anxiety attacks. Here are some guidelines to help you and your dog cope with the things that go boom next week.

EXERCISE is always the best place to start. I understand when it is hot we must be conscientious about safely exercising our dogs. But a dog that hasn’t been sufficiently exercised will be more nervous and unsettled. Before the holidays when you anticipate fireworks, be sure to walk your dog in the morning or evening or both. Better yet, if it’s possible to get him to a lake where he can swim, do so.

KEEP YOUR DOG HOME. We love to take our dogs to the park as much as they love to go. Of course, your dog is family and you want him with you on the family picnic. However, if your family picnic involves going somewhere there will be fireworks, you might think again about taking him. He may be happier in his safe place at home.

DON’T MOLLY-CODDLE. This is a big thing. When your dog is anxious sit with him in his safe place whether it’s the floor, or the couch, or even under the table. Speak to him in with a calm soothing voice. Carry on a full one-sided conversation with him. Our dogs love it when we talk to them. Talk about the storm or the fireworks. Subject matter is not important. It’s using your ‘library voice’ in conversation that calms his anxiety. You could even read him the newspaper—well maybe not—that might agitate you! As long as your voice projects peace, he will respond to it.

Do not pick him up and/or cuddle him close to you and say over and over “It’s okay.” While this may seem like a good way to soothe him, it actually rewards him for being anxious. It shows him that being afraid and anxious is a good thing and cuddles will follow. We tell humans to face their fears, you dog pretty much needs to do the same.

Molly-coddling reinforces and usually increases the anxiety. The soft-spoken conversation with him will relax him. Praise him for relaxing. If another boom causes him more anxiety, follow the same procedure. And do not be tempted to use treats as your reward. This situation is all about using your voice to teach your dog he is safe.

See you next week.

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