01/17/2025
So true!!
Imagine being dropped into a foreign country without a map, a guide, or even a clue about the local customs. It would give you giant anxiety and 'wtf am I supposed to do' feelings. At least for the vast majority of us.
That’s how your dog feels without structure. When you get a dog and just kinda go 'you can do whatever, wherever, whenever' dogs often also feel stress or uncertainty. They don’t just want leadership, they need it to thrive.
By providing consistent rules and calm guidance, you’re not being mean; you’re giving your dog the clarity they crave. Leadership, structure and boundaries doesn’t make your dog love you less.
It makes them love you more because they know you’ve got their back.