Maude and the Bulldogs, LLC

Maude and the Bulldogs, LLC We provide structured boarding, daycare, and training for dogs and their owners. Check out our website for more details!
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If you haven’t heard these phrases during a training session yet, you likely will at some point! 🤣 We have 1-2 new clien...
08/22/2024

If you haven’t heard these phrases during a training session yet, you likely will at some point! 🤣

We have 1-2 new client spots left for September in person training, and 1-2 for October - see link below for more information, and message me with any questions!

https://www.maudeandthebulldogs.com/training

💕 I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

September Community Pack Walk registration is now open to the general public! Please review all slides before registerin...
08/18/2024

September Community Pack Walk registration is now open to the general public! Please review all slides before registering. (Registration is required.) Link is below and in bio! Spots are limited and first come/first served. Message with any questions!

https://forms.gle/p6Hyk5Se9DYnLSpJ8

❤️ Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on your goals? Message me! (We also have online training & consultation options.) I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

It’s easy to fall in love with idea of something, or someone, or someplace. It’s potential, what you wish or imagine it ...
08/15/2024

It’s easy to fall in love with idea of something, or someone, or someplace. It’s potential, what you wish or imagine it would be like. We create this picture in our minds and develop expectations based on that - and then our world comes crashing down when reality slaps us in the face, and the vast distance between our expectations and reality causes discomfort and distress.

It’s much more difficult to fall in love with that thing, that individual, that place - all that it is, right now, right here. Not what it could be, or what we wish it was.

The first step in training is to let go of the fantasy that we have created in our minds of what we thought our dog would be like, what we imagined dog ownership would be, how we wished our dog was - and embrace the dog we have, in all his imperfect glory. To love him not in the way that meets our needs or the way that capitalism tells us we should but rather in the way that he needs to be loved.

Once we grieve the loss of this doggy dream, we can adjust our expectations - and while the pain of that loss will never fully go away, we can move forward more effectively when our expectations more closely match reality, when the distance between the two shortens. Training is about helping our dogs live their best lives as the best versions of themselves, not by altering the core of who they are, but by peeling back the layers of impulsivity, reactivity, and anxiety that manifest as unstable states of mind and problem (sometimes dangerous) behaviors. Our dogs do grow and change to become more stable and emotionally regulated, so that they can show the world their most authentic, healthy selves.

So, fall in love with your dog. Not for what you wish he would be, but for all that he is, imperfections and all - and honor him by helping him to show up in the world as the best version of himself.

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We love how dog friendly Madison is!! This is a small sampling of places that allow dogs on patios (although some allow ...
07/29/2024

We love how dog friendly Madison is!! This is a small sampling of places that allow dogs on patios (although some allow dogs inside too!).

Drop your favorite dog friendly outing spot, in the comments!

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So excited about this!
07/23/2024

So excited about this!

Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Jen Bauman. We

August 2024 FREE Community Pack Walk - registration is live! Spots are limited; please note that MATB clients receive pr...
07/23/2024

August 2024 FREE Community Pack Walk - registration is live! Spots are limited; please note that MATB clients receive priority access. Thank you!!

Find the link in bio or below ⬇️
https://forms.gle/Yai4LicbAvh4hwKA9

I love “what kind of cheese/dog/care bear are you” quizzes. They’re fun and silly and a good conversation starter. They ...
07/19/2024

I love “what kind of cheese/dog/care bear are you” quizzes.

They’re fun and silly and a good conversation starter. They can also be insightful!

Similarly, I find that reflecting on what I have in common with my dogs (and why I sometimes get frustrated with certain behaviors) is helpful in my own journey - which helps OUR journey.

Let’s take Liam - he’s sweet and funny and gives 110% to whatever he wants to do. He’s also impatient, impulsive, and easily frustrated; so we’ve worked hard on finding healthy outlets for frustration, increasing resiliency and stress tolerance, and slowing down.

Or Ruby - she’s empathetic and kind, gets along with just about everybody but can be a bit of a doormat around other dogs, prefers to flee instead of fight, and lacks confidence. We’ve stopped putting her in situations that aren’t healthy for her, and we’ve worked on advocacy and confidence building over the years.

I’ve done a lot of those same things for myself, too, because as it turns out, I’m like both of my dogs (and their ✨ problems ✨) - I needed to slow down, engage in healthy coping mechanisms, make environmental choices that supported my well being, and build confidence.

It’s been a game changer in my growth and healing journey - and helped me become the best version of myself, not just for my dogs but also for me.

So the next time you feel frustrated by your dog’s behaviors, reflect on how it may be a mirror to yourself. (As my good friend says, our triggers are our teachers!) Perhaps the ways that we help them, can help us too.

Dog training will change you, if you let it. 🐾💕✨

keep it simple 💕❤️ Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on ...
07/14/2024

keep it simple 💕

❤️ Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on your goals? Message me! (We also have online training & consultation options.) I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

CONGRATULATIONS to our inaugural Patio Pup Class graduates!! Not only did we raise $350 for  with  but we also made incr...
07/08/2024

CONGRATULATIONS to our inaugural Patio Pup Class graduates!!

Not only did we raise $350 for with but we also made incredible progress on the place command - and tested our skills in the real world for our last session. As an added bonus, we made new friends and practiced neutrality around other dogs to enhance socialization skills!

I’m SO PROUD of each and every one of these humans and dogs. Thanks for supporting a great cause, working hard, and trying new things!

(We MAY do another class series in the fall - stay tuned to Instagram stories for details!)

This is going to ruin the tour. 🫣
06/24/2024

This is going to ruin the tour. 🫣

Independence Day is just around the corner - so be sure to start your fireworks preparations now! Chat with your vet abo...
06/23/2024

Independence Day is just around the corner - so be sure to start your fireworks preparations now! Chat with your vet about medication refills, work on desensitization (counter conditioning) to firework noises, and refresh crate skills over the next few weeks so that you are ready for July 4th sounds and stress. You’ve got this!

Need a customized action plan? Message me! I’m happy to help in person or online.

How to trim your dog’s nails at home using a dremel and place cot - a brief and general overview. I hope you find this u...
06/19/2024

How to trim your dog’s nails at home using a dremel and place cot - a brief and general overview.

I hope you find this useful!

✨ Obligatory reminder that all dogs are different and have varying needs + responses to training styles so please use the approach that works best for you and your dog - this is a generic template from which to start, not a prescription. ✨

For more information about our training services: https://www.maudeandthebulldogs.com/training

Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on your goals? Message me! (We also have online training and consultation options.) I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

Bark-Cue-Terie Board Workshop is THIS FRIDAY! We need 3 more folks to sign up to hold class. Use code YUMMY0621 for $15 ...
06/16/2024

Bark-Cue-Terie Board Workshop is THIS FRIDAY! We need 3 more folks to sign up to hold class.

Use code YUMMY0621 for $15 off your ticket:

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July 2024 FREE Community Pack Walk Registration is LIVE! Limited spots are available so please RSVP soon if you are inte...
06/16/2024

July 2024 FREE Community Pack Walk Registration is LIVE! Limited spots are available so please RSVP soon if you are interested in attending. Not sure if the pack walk is a good fit for you + your dog? Message me!

RSVP: https://forms.gle/8BFWm4CQBCo1haaR9

We don’t make mistakes; we have learning opportunities!When we are teaching a new behavior pattern, whether that’s addin...
06/14/2024

We don’t make mistakes; we have learning opportunities!

When we are teaching a new behavior pattern, whether that’s adding a behavior (e.g., sit) or taking one away (e.g., jumping on guests), mistakes are ESSENTIAL to learning. In order for Fido to understand what the desired behavior IS, he must also understand what it is NOT - which requires that he make mistakes and receives feedback from his handler (that the mistake is incorrect).

If your dog makes a mistake, stay neutral and calm, give feedback that you disagree with his incorrect choice, and reset to try again; then agree with the correct choice and reinforce with his favorite reward. The more reps of both incorrect and correct choices made, the more he figures out the behavioral pattern that will reap the most rewards.

Mistakes are learning opportunities!!

I hope you find this useful!

❤️ Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on your goals? Message me! (We also have online training and consultation options.) I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

Our second Patio Pup class session is coming up soon, and we’ll be discussing the Three D’s: distance, duration, and dis...
06/13/2024

Our second Patio Pup class session is coming up soon, and we’ll be discussing the Three D’s: distance, duration, and distractions. Our first class session focused on getting on and off the cot with permission and naming the place command - next, we will work on increasing both distance and duration before adding distractions (although, tbh, the class environment is already highly distracting!).

If you are working on place at home, here are some ideas for proofing your dog’s knowledge of and commitment to the command. You can also use these to help your dog make mistakes in a controlled environment so that you can give feedback on what place is NOT. Mistakes are important for learning!!

I recommend starting with distance (geographical space between dog on cot and handler) and duration (length of time dog is on cot before released) before adding distractions. And once you start adding distractions, begin with lower value or intensity (e.g., tossing toys) before building up to the tougher ones (e.g., ringing the doorbell).

I hope you find this useful!

❤️ Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on your goals? Message me! (We also have online training and consultation options.) I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

What a FUN first Patio Pup group class yesterday! 🤩Thank you to these cuties and their pawrents for attending and doing ...
06/09/2024

What a FUN first Patio Pup group class yesterday! 🤩

Thank you to these cuties and their pawrents for attending and doing a phenomenal job! I’m so excited for the next three class sessions. 🤗

(Extra big thank you to for hosting!)

❤️ Interested in customized coaching and empathetic teaching on your schedule, in your home, to work on your goals? Message me! Our in person private training sessions are filling up fast. (We also have online training and consultation options.) I can’t wait to meet you and your dog(s)!

06/06/2024

📣 NEW CLASS!! TICKETS LIVE NOW!

🐾 Calling All Dog Parents! 🐶🍪 Whether you are already part of the Community, or just looking to have a great time with a bunch of Dog People:

Celebrate your furry friend with our Dog Parent Cookie Decorating Class!

🐕 What to Expect:
🦴 Step-by-step guidance from Anna, Cookie Artist of Ellie Lou’s Bakery
🎾 Learn the tricks and techniques to creating cookies that showcase your love for your canine companion.
🐕‍🦺 All decorating supplies provided, just show up ready for a fun night out!
🍺 Excited to check out Delta Beer Lab!? Your first drink is included!!🙌

📅 Date: 7/12/2024
🕒 Time: 6:00-7:30 pm
📍 Location: Delta Beer Lab
167 E Badger Rd, Fitchburg, WI 53713

Tickets and more info on my website!
🔗 Link in bio🐾🍪❤️

Mental Health Awareness Month Mini Series (on how dog training has helped me heal, grow, and flourish): Part ThreeBounda...
06/02/2024

Mental Health Awareness Month Mini Series (on how dog training has helped me heal, grow, and flourish): Part Three

Boundaries gave me the ability to say “yes” to myself by saying “no” to others. I finally had the bandwidth to create change - and the first steps in change? Assessment, acceptance, and letting go.

For Liam, this meant being honest about what roles his genetics, the environment (myself included), and his emotions played. It meant accepting the things I could not change and being willing to change the things I could.

I could not change his crappy genetics or the past or that he’s a dog with big emotions.

I could:
- change how I communicated with him.
- enhance his biological fulfillment.
- honor his feelings while also guiding him towards healthy behaviors.
- give him the gift of choice.
- focus on play & joy.
- support him in finding nervous system and emotional regulation.
- cherish his goofiness.
- let go of my need for him to appear perfect.
- stop controlling his every decision.

And slowly, my letting go of the need to control and micromanage Liam in the pursuit of “perfection” - and instead, honor his feelings, joy, and imperfections - influenced me to let go of control and perfectionism in my own life.

And by letting go, I could allow myself to have big, beautiful emotions while guiding myself towards healthy outlets. I could trust myself to make good decisions, without over analyzing. I stopped focusing on “perfect” and began focusing on feeling good in my heart, mind, and body. I made decisions that aligned with my values and prioritized not only my needs but also my joy, and this created an environment in which I could emotionally self regulate without intellectualizing my feelings. I could stop scrambling to find worthiness and belonging through accolades and people pleasing in the pursuit of “perfect” and just LIVE.

I felt free, and I felt like me - for the first time in a long while. I’m so proud of the progress I’ve made and the life I lead.

… And I owe it all to a crusty little bulldog gremlin who changed my life. I’m so grateful for my Liam. ❤️

➡️ Dog training will change you, if you let it.

05/27/2024

‼️ SAVE THE DATE NOW!! 6PM on Friday, July 12th at .beer in Fitchburg, WI

🎟️ Tickets coming soon!!

❓Can you guess the theme? Follow for clues 😝 🙌

Potty Training Tips for the puppy pawrent ❤️🐾🐶
05/21/2024

Potty Training Tips for the puppy pawrent ❤️🐾🐶

Registration is live for the June 15 pack walk and  dog pawrent social hour (well behaved patio pups welcome)! All detai...
05/17/2024

Registration is live for the June 15 pack walk and dog pawrent social hour (well behaved patio pups welcome)!

All details are in the slides, and the registration link is in my bio. Limited spots are available so be sure to grab yours ASAP! Message me with any questions.

Mental Health Awareness Month Mini Series (on how dog training has helped me heal, grow, and flourish): Part Two We conc...
05/16/2024

Mental Health Awareness Month Mini Series (on how dog training has helped me heal, grow, and flourish): Part Two

We concluded Part One’s background and assessment with a cliffhanger: that I was aware of needing to make big changes within and for myself if Liam and I were going to be successful in our training journey. So I started with following the plan and implementing BOUNDARIES through ROUTINE and STRUCTURE.

At the beginning, Liam and I had virtually no boundaries, which created a codependency built on my indulging his every whim and desire. Liam made every decision in our lives and was overwhelmed, overly aroused, and emotionally dysregulated; I resented him and felt ashamed of us.

I had gone from a people pleaser to a dog pleaser, because I thought that the more I said yes to him, the happier he would be - and the more perfect of a dog mom I’d appear to be.

After our (jumpstart) board and train program, we followed a plan that included a structured, daily routine in which Liam made fewer decisions. He went from bowling through life without gutter guards to having them up.

With more structure and fewer canine-directed decisions that created clearly communicated boundaries (aka, my response to your actions), I said “no” more often than before.

“No” is necessary.
“No” is feedback.
“No” is clear (and clear is kind).
“No” is how to create space for “yes.”
“No” is love.

The more decisions that I made for us, the more that I said “no,” the more that I prioritized what we both needed over what he wanted - the more balanced our relationship grew. The more clear my communication became. The more I could say “yes” to adventure and fun and joy.

My ability to say “no” to Liam transformed into an ability to say “no” to humans. I stopped tying my worth to the amount that I gave to others. I prioritized the heath of the relationship over the whims of the individual. I was assertive in protecting my energy and stating my needs - I had boundaries in my personal life, for the first time ever. And those boundaries gave me the bandwidth to spend time and energy on myself.

Part Three: the work begins …

Anyone else have this in their wishlist? Tell me your thoughts in the poll and comments!
05/11/2024

Anyone else have this in their wishlist?

Tell me your thoughts in the poll and comments!

In this house we believe … (Idea from those cool yard signs I see around town - I don’t know the artist’s name!)
05/10/2024

In this house we believe …

(Idea from those cool yard signs I see around town - I don’t know the artist’s name!)

 x  Bark-Cue-Terie Board Workshop COMING SOON!! See below for details. 🐾Who: Dog Pawrents (humans only, no dogs as we ar...
05/07/2024

x Bark-Cue-Terie Board Workshop COMING SOON!! See below for details. 🐾

Who: Dog Pawrents (humans only, no dogs as we are indoors!)

What: Create a beautiful bark-cue-terie board for your pup from ethically sourced, single ingredient treats, delicious cookies, fruits, veggies, and more! You’ll go home with a large board (multiple servings!) and a downloadable cheat sheet as well as discount codes for treat suppliers.

You will also receive $5 off your first beverage. 🍷 Pre order (human) charcuterie from Tricky Foods to enjoy a snack while you create a beautiful board for your pup(s)!

When: June 21, 2024 (6-8pm)

Where: Tricky Foods (121 E Lakeside St, Madison, WI 53715)

Tickets: $65/person available at maudeandthebulldogs.com/merchandise-resources

Spots are limited so be sure to grab your ticket ASAP!

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month, so it seems like a good time to launch a mini series on how dog training has helpe...
05/06/2024

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, so it seems like a good time to launch a mini series on how dog training has helped me heal, grow, and flourish.

I hope that sharing my journey inspires and encourages others that recovery is possible, that through the dark shines light, and that the only way to heal is to keep going.

A brief background is important, so here’s the Cliff Notes version: I’ve battled major depressive disorder (MDD) my whole life - I was diagnosed before age 10. I consider myself to be in recovery, but it will always be a part of me.

Over the last three (!!) decades, I’ve worked really hard in and out of therapy to feel better and heal from the damage that MDD causes. Looking back, I realize that much of the work I did before Liam was surface level healing, riddled with holes and bandaid fixes and swapping one maladaptive coping mechanism for another.

The inner work that I needed to do to transform my mental health would only happen after I dedicated myself to transforming my relationship with Liam and creating change within and for myself, so that I could best help him live a safe and happy life.

Pre-dog training, interpersonal boundaries (especially people pleasing), perfectionism, and a lack of emotional regulation were the primary areas in which I greatly struggled - ones that kept me stuck in an endless search for worthiness and belonging.

And - for the first two years of our relationship, Liam was the dog who delighted in my inability to say “no.” Who was reactive and impulsive and wild. Who, despite my best efforts, was not just imperfect but dangerous to other dogs and humans. Our relationship was toxic & codependent, and although he learned new skills and a better mindset at his board and train program, the real work began when he came home.

Because it wasn’t until then that I realized how significant of a role I played in his behaviors. I couldn’t expect my reactive bulldog to regulate his emotions if I wasn’t doing the same. And I couldn’t fix our relationship without implementing boundaries. Nor could I journey with him while holding onto a perfectionist mindset.

Big changes were necessary.

(Part 2 soon!)

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