
06/29/2025
Thought about posting a picture this morning… Trust me, the world isn’t ready for that. 😣
You’re not supposed to go out with regrets, but here we are.
Emotions:
I’ve always worn my heart on my sleeve. The regret? Letting negativity take up so much space there. Since losing my parents and my brother Jimmy, I’ve learned to let joy and silliness rule. I wish I knew how to do that sooner. Even while working 7 days a week, 365 days a year, I loved it. Every pet’s door I walked through was met with love and laughter.
Lesson: Let joy rule you.
Smoking:
It’s not cool. It’s not sexy. It stinks, it’s expensive, and it literally did this to me. I haven’t had a drink since my mom died—clarity came and self-medicating left. I tried quitting smoking. Many times. Funny how a death sentence makes you quit instantly.
Lesson: Quit. Seriously. Quit now.
Relationships:
For too long, I could cut people out of my life without blinking. Defense mechanism or not, it was a mistake.
Lesson: Every relationship needs work. Period.
Career:
I started working at an animal hospital 3 days after giving birth to my oldest daughter. I loved that job. After that, 30 years of “okay” jobs… until at 49, I pursued pet sitting full time. It’s been the happiest I’ve ever been professionally.
Lesson: Follow your heart. Trust your gut. Do what brings you joy.
If you read this far… thank you. I hope something here resonates. 💜