11/28/2024
27 days…..
In the world of horsemanship, the journey of building trust is often overlooked in favor of quick fixes. It took me 27 days to successfully place a halter on my horse, a seemingly simple task that holds profound significance in the grand scheme of our relationship. During this time, I focused on gentle interactions, touching him all over, leading him at liberty, and introducing him to brushes and objects that initially frightened him. This approach has been about fostering engagement and connection rather than rushing the process.
While some may argue that using a halter and drag line from the beginning would have been easier, this method lacks the essential element of trust. Rushing into leading a horse without establishing a bond can lead to fear and resistance. A horse that is not comfortable with its handler may resort to escape behaviors, potentially causing harm to itself or others. It is crucial to recognize that without trust, the relationship remains superficial, and the horse may become aggressive or panicked due to inadequate handling. This is where mustangs get a bad rep.
I urge fellow equestrians to rethink their approach. Stop labeling horses as reactive or snorty; instead, embrace patience and develop horsemanship skills that prioritize the horse's emotional well-being. This journey is not a race, and the goal should not be measured by what can be accomplished in 30 days. The true measure of success lies in building a realationship where the horse feels safe and willing to engage. Foundation matters, and it is time to redefine our priorities in horsemanship.