It's Not the Dog, Marietta, GA (2025)

06/12/2025

𝐁𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐃𝐨𝐠𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤: 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐤 𝐨𝐫 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲?

According to a recent survey by Vetster:
71% of pet parents have made a major life change for their pet.
60% left a job due to a non–pet-friendly office.
70% would take a pay cut to bring their pet to work.
And 48% say pets boost their productivity.

Clearly, pets are more than companions—they’re a driving force behind career decisions and workplace culture.

But here’s the thing…

If you're bringing your dog to the office, it’s not just a cute perk. It’s a leadership responsibility.
Your dog must be well-trained, well-bonded, and responsive to you—not just for your sake, but for your colleagues, clients, and company culture.

Just like you'd never bring a disruptive guest to a meeting, your dog shouldn't be the reason for lost productivity or tension in the office.

When done right, dogs can enhance connection, reduce stress, and even spark friendships (the average pet-owning employee made 7 new work buddies!).
But when done carelessly, it can backfire fast.

So if you're pushing for a pet-friendly workplace, lead the way by modeling responsible, respectful pet ownership. Your team—and your dog—deserve nothing less.

02/05/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐎𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐃𝐨𝐠 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲

Did you know that February is Pet Responsibility Month? As a dog enthusiast and leadership coach, I can’t help but see the powerful connection between responsible pet ownership and personal growth.

Too often, people see responsibility as a burden—but what if I told you it’s actually your greatest power?

Every interaction with your dog is an opportunity to step up as a leader. When things go wrong—chewed-up shoes, accidents in the house, endless barking—you have two choices:
1. Blame the dog and feel powerless (victim mindset)
2. Take ownership, adjust your approach, and create a better outcome (leader/owner mindset)

This shift in thinking doesn’t just improve your relationship with your dog—it transforms how you handle challenges in every aspect of life.

In my latest article, I break down what true pet responsibility looks like and how embracing it can make you a more proactive, resilient, and capable leader—both at home and in the workplace.

📖 Read the full article here: https://vist.ly/3mu9g5c

🔄 If you know someone who’s recently adopted a dog, is struggling with their pet, or is thinking about rehoming their dog, please share this with them—they may need a fresh perspective.

💼 Business owners: Want to spark a meaningful conversation about responsibility in your team? Let’s connect and explore how these lessons apply to the workplace.

01/29/2025

As busy professionals juggling work and family, many of us also carry the worry of ensuring our parents are happy, healthy, and thriving in their golden years. If you’re a fellow Gen X or Millennial, you probably know exactly what I’m talking about—it’s always in the back of our minds.

That’s why I was fascinated to learn about the rise of pet-friendly senior communities! More and more senior living facilities are recognizing the powerful benefits that pets bring to older adults' lives. And it’s no surprise, considering the research:

🐾 Pets can help lower blood pressure and reduce stress.
🐾 They encourage physical activity and social interaction.
🐾 They even boost mood and cognitive function.

If you’ve ever worried that your parents might feel lonely or need more engagement, adopting a pet could be a life-changing conversation. And the best part? Shelters are full of wonderful animals, including older pets who are calmer and perfectly suited for seniors. From dogs and cats to rabbits and birds, there’s a pet for everyone.

Pets aren’t just for kids or young families—they bring companionship, joy, and a renewed sense of purpose to people of all ages. So, if you’re looking for a way to give your parents more joy (and yourself more peace of mind), why not explore this option together?

Have you ever considered this for your loved ones? I'd love to hear your thoughts!

11/27/2024

As we prepare for the hustle and bustle of Thanksgiving, it’s easy to focus on the food, guests, and festivities—but what about the quieter members of the family, like your dog?
This week, I’m sharing tips that blend leadership lessons with practical advice for a harmonious holiday.
From setting boundaries to modeling calmness, the way we care for our dogs can teach us powerful lessons about leading with intention, respect, and balance. Curious how Thanksgiving prep can inspire better leadership at work and home?
Check out my latest article!
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10/25/2024

Yesterday I read a social media post from a man looking to re-home his 8-year-old dog after she snapped at his daughter. I have full compassion for the dad and the child—no question about that. But there’s a bigger picture here that too many people overlook when situations like this happen.

When a dog makes a mistake, it’s often because WE made a mistake first.

Here's the reality: Dogs make mistakes because we haven't set them up for success. When they react—whether it's growling, barking, or even biting—it’s usually because we missed a step along the way. Maybe we weren’t paying attention to their signals, maybe we didn’t train them properly, or maybe we put them in a situation they weren’t ready for.

We need to stop blaming the dog and start asking ourselves, what did I miss? Taking responsibility doesn’t just impact the dog—it affects everyone around us. When we own up to our role in the problem, we create an environment where our dogs can learn, grow, and thrive. And isn’t that what we all want—for our dogs and ourselves?

The same goes for leadership in the workplace. When a team member fails or underperforms, it often traces back to how well they were led and supported. Leaders, like dog owners, have to take responsibility for the environment they create. If we’re not paying attention, not communicating clearly, or not providing the tools for success, we’re setting our teams (or our dogs) up to fail. Blaming the individual—whether it’s a dog or a team member—without reflecting on our own leadership misses the point.

And here’s the thing—when we react in the heat of the moment, we tend to make rash decisions. Whether it’s sending the dog to a shelter or firing someone without hearing their side of the story, those snap judgments often lead to regret. Taking a step back, gathering the facts, and understanding the full picture before making decisions is crucial. Giving both dogs and people the chance to explain or improve can make all the difference.

Taking responsibility has a ripple effect. When we own up to our part in the mistakes, we build trust, strengthen our teams, and create a culture where both people and dogs can grow and succeed. Leadership isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being accountable and creating the right environment for everyone to thrive.

10/24/2024

October is National Pit Bull Awareness Month, dedicated to shifting the narrative around pit bulls and giving these misunderstood dogs the chance they deserve. It’s not just about celebrating this loyal and loving breed—it’s about educating the public, changing minds, and saving lives.

Every year, hundreds of thousands of pit bulls are euthanized in shelters across the United States. That’s an overwhelming amount of innocent lives lost simply because of misconceptions and misinformation. When we say “pit bull,” we’re referring to a variety of breeds like the American Pit Bull Terrier, American Staffordshire Terrier, American Bulldog, and others.

Before I met my first pit bull, I was one of the many people who believed the myths. I had been a German Shepherd and Rottweiler fan, thinking pit bulls were aggressive and dangerous. It wasn’t until I crossed paths with Thelma (aka Baby Pow) in 2012 that my perspective changed.

Thelma was a smaller, 40-lb Staffie, full of energy and reactivity. The rescue group that saved her from a kill shelter claimed she was dog-aggressive, had a high prey drive, and was too rambunctious for a family with children. Three red X’s against her name—three strikes that made her adoption nearly impossible. But something drew me to her, and we began fostering her.

The journey wasn’t without challenges. There were people who wouldn’t step foot in my husband’s fitness studio because they were scared of her. But as they got to know her, Baby Pow changed minds and hearts. She wasn’t a monster—she was a dog who thrived under calm leadership and guidance. Nine months later, Thelma found her forever home with a family who gave her the life she deserved. It wasn’t lost on me that she was one of the lucky ones.

Pit bulls are loving, loyal dogs, but they need responsible owners—people who understand the importance of discipline, boundaries, and leadership. Not every dog is a fit for every person, and that’s okay. But if you are someone who values responsibility, awareness, and proactivity, a pit bull could be the perfect match for you. Once you’ve experienced the joy of owning a pit bull, there’s no going back.

Unfortunately, many pit bulls never get the chance to show the world how wonderful they truly are. The American shelter system is overwhelmed with these dogs, most of whom are perfectly good and sweet, just waiting for someone to give them a chance. Sadly, most won’t make it out alive. Why? Because we, as a society, have failed them. We perpetuate fear and misinformation while ignoring the responsibility that comes with dog ownership. On one hand, we claim to love our pets, but on the other, we discard them when things get tough. What does that say about us?

If you are considering adopting a dog and are a responsible, proactive person, consider a pit bull or a pit mix. They aren’t perfect—but neither are we. And in that imperfection lies the beauty of owning a dog that will teach you loyalty, resilience, and leadership.

10/23/2024

Did you know that having dogs in the office can significantly reduce stress levels and boost productivity?

According to a recent study by Mars Belgium, 6 out of 10 Belgian office workers experience less stress when dogs are present in the office. Moreover, 7 out of 10 employees who bring their dogs to work take breaks more often and feel more productive afterward.

By embracing dog-friendly policies, companies can create a more welcoming and inclusive work environment that not only benefits employees but also attracts and retains top talent.

So, why not make your workplace more paw-some? Here are some key tips to get you started:

- Create a pet-friendly policy that aligns with your corporate culture.
- Set clear rules for both dogs and employees.
- Introduce a pet ambassador to ensure rules are followed.
- Start small and gradually expand the initiative.
- Provide appropriate infrastructure like cleaning kits and dog-friendly spaces.

Join the trend and make your office a happier, healthier, and more productive place for everyone
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10/10/2024

The cooler temperatures in the Southeast make it the perfect time to get outside, take a walk, and reconnect with nature. If you've been wanting to get outdoors but don’t have a dog or prefer not to go solo, I have a suggestion for you!

Many animal shelters, like LifeLine Animal Project here in Atlanta, offer a program where you can "borrow" a dog for a day or even the weekend. It's a win-win: you get some company, and a shelter dog gets a much-needed break from kennel life. You might be surprised how rewarding it feels to give a dog some fresh air, new experiences, and a chance to relax.

Plus, while you're out and about, that dog gets exposure to potential adopters, increasing their chances of finding a forever home. Shelters across the country are overflowing, often having to make heartbreaking decisions due to lack of space, so even just one day can make a huge difference in a dog's life.

Reach out to your local shelters and ask if they offer a program like this. It’s a simple act of kindness that will warm your heart and brighten a dog's day.

10/02/2024

Last week was challenging for me. On Thursday, I said goodbye to my beloved Sunny. She had been with me for 7 years, 9 months, and 11 days. What began as fostering a dog at risk of euthanasia quickly turned into a deep bond and she became my own.

Sunny didn’t have an easy life before she came to us. When I first met her, she was estimated 7 years of age. She carried an arrowhead in her rib cage, had BBs lodged in her abdomen, was heartworm positive, and had a deformed front leg from an accident that didn't get proper care. Despite all this, she was a happy, spunky, and confident dog.

However, over the last two years, her physical health declined. Her eyes became lighter, and eventually, she lost her sight. This loss affected her confidence, and she stopped walking altogether. But it wasn't a burden; I adapted by using a chuck wagon for our walks. It allowed her to enjoy the outdoors with us while I got a great workout pulling her along. I even saw carrying her up and down the stairs as a way to keep myself fit.

Sunny was amazing and trusting. There were times when I asked her to give me a sign, and her response was always to try harder. But last week, she finally showed me that she was tired. The demanding barks for food ceased, and I felt a shift in her energy. It was time. I made the appointment with the vet, scheduling it a week out, which proved to be an emotional struggle.

On one hand, we cherished every moment together, reminiscing about our time and enjoying those last days. On the other hand, I felt a complex mix of anxiety, sadness, and guilt about deciding when to let her go, intertwined with a sense of relief knowing that her passing would ease the burden of her care after so many devoted years.

I take comfort in a thought from Penelope Smith, who said that the physical body can be thought of as old clothing we take off and leave behind as our spirit walks through death’s doorway. While I find solace in knowing Sunny is now free, I miss caring for her. I miss the unconscious routine of picking her up for walks, carrying her upstairs and downstairs, and organizing my life around her needs.

As I sense this grief, I’m reminded of the importance of appreciating my other two dogs who are still in my care. I cannot afford to get lost in my sorrow; doing so would mean missing the joy and love they bring into my life.

Through this journey with Sunny and my other dogs, I've learned to shift my relationship with death. The fear has been alleviated and my understanding of grief has transformed. Instead of being paralyzed by loss, I find comfort in the idea that love endures beyond the physical presence of those we cherish.

In the end, Sunny taught me about resilience, love, and the bittersweet nature of letting go. While the pain of her absence is profound, I carry her spirit with me, cherishing every moment we had and committing to honor that bond in the time I have left with her daughter Queeny.

10/01/2024

Dog Owners: Prepare for the Unexpected!

Have you ever faced a dog emergency or struggled with behavioral issues that caught you off guard? Whether it’s a health scare, aggression, or even just a simple nail trim gone wrong, these moments can be tough. But here’s the good news—you don’t have to face them alone!

Join our free Dog Owner Support Group this Wednesday, October 2nd at 11:30 am ET, where we’ll discuss practical steps to avoid these stressful situations before they happen. It’s the perfect space to ask questions, share stories, and celebrate accomplishments. No need to travel, it happens on Zoom.

➡️ Sign up now and let’s make sure you and your dog are prepared for anything life throws your way!
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09/27/2024

As a dog owner, you’ve likely encountered moments when things take a turn—whether it’s a health emergency, a sudden behavioral issue, or just an everyday struggle like nail trimming.
Last weekend, as I browsed a Facebook group called Pet Vet Corner, I came across stories that got me thinking about how easily these situations could have been avoided with a little preparation.

Here are three stories that stood out:
- A 140-pound female dog got sideswiped by a truck. Even after medical care, she growled at her family while they tried to help her.
- A couple argued about whether to put down their 10-year-old dog who had been dog- and people aggressive most of her entire life. The wife was done with the dog. The husband loves the dog but never addressed the aggressive behavior.
- A senior dog suffered from painfully long nails (the owner wrote, "longer than I care to admit"), but he was too sensitive about his paws to allow trimming.

These stories are heartbreaking because so many of these situations were preventable with early attention, training and desensitization. Many people wait too long to address behavioral issues, and then feel stuck, left with sedation or euthanasia as their only options.

Here are three things you can do now to avoid finding yourself in these situations:

1. Build Trust
Trust is like a savings account—you make small deposits every day, and over time, it builds up. Train your dog consistently to reinforce your leadership and provide them with security. Meet their needs through daily walks, rewarding good behavior, and calmly correcting unwanted actions.

2. Desensitization
Help your dog feel comfortable with touch, especially in sensitive areas. After a long walk, when your dog is tired, gently massage different parts of their body. Start small, and work up to touching their paws, belly, and even inside their mouth. If they show discomfort, relax, talk calmly, and proceed slowly, building their trust over time.

3. Muzzle Training
Muzzles can be lifesavers. They prevent accidents and make situations like nail trimming or vet visits easier for everyone. Teaching your dog to wear a muzzle doesn’t mean they’re aggressive—it’s about creating a safe and calm environment for handling. My own dog, Deno, used to hate having his nails trimmed, but after using a muzzle and gradually desensitizing him, we can now trim his nails while he snoozes.

The key is to be proactive—don’t wait until you’re faced with an emergency to find out your dog can’t be handled. Start building trust and working on these skills now, and your future self (and your dog) will thank you!

If you have questions or want support with these practices, join our next Dog Owner Support Group on Wednesday, October 2nd at 11:30 am ET. It’s a great space to share ideas, ask questions, and learn how to create a harmonious life with your dog. Register at https://vist.ly/3mhg33a

Let’s work together to keep our dogs and ourselves happier, healthier, and better prepared!
Please share this post with friends and dog owners you know who complain about one or two issues about their dogs and need support to make improvements.

09/20/2024

Training your dog can be a rewarding experience that strengthens your bond and helps create a well-behaved companion. Whether you’re a new dog owner or looking to refine your pup’s skills, these essential tips can make all the difference:

1. Consistency is Key: Dogs thrive on routine and clear expectations. Establish consistent commands and routines to help your dog learn effectively. Consistent training sessions also build a sense of security and understanding.

2. Positive Reinforcement Works Wonders: Use treats, praise, and playtime as rewards for good behavior. Positive reinforcement motivates your dog to repeat desired actions and strengthens your bond. Avoid negative reinforcement, which can create fear and anxiety.

3. Keep Training Sessions Short and Fun: Dogs have short attention spans, so keep training sessions brief (10-15 minutes) and engaging. Incorporate games and play to make learning enjoyable and prevent boredom.

4. Patience Pays Off: Training takes time and patience. Be prepared for setbacks and remember that progress might be gradual. Stay calm and encouraging, and your dog will respond positively.

5. Socialization is Crucial: Expose your dog to different environments, people, and other animals to help them develop good social skills. Proper socialization reduces fear and aggression and promotes a well-adjusted pet.

6. Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you’re facing challenges or specific behavioral issues, consider consulting a professional dog trainer. They can provide personalized guidance and techniques to address your dog’s unique needs.

Training your dog can lead to a happier, healthier, and more harmonious relationship. What are your favorite training tips or experiences? Share them with us below!

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