11/21/2025
Sometimes hell rings your bell twice in one week. Forced to make a decision to put a very beloved young companion through surgery or end their life, not having much time to make that decision, you rely on your inner angels and your trusted advisors. These are the hardest decisions a human makes regarding their companions.
I write this not to receive your very kind comments of support but as a public service announcement. Veterinary costs have sky rocketed as have the scientific measures vets can take to save your companion. Vets study hard, work hard and deserve to be paid for their skills. Get insurance for your pet the day you get them. Research insurance companies. Get the policy you can afford. It will give you options.
But prepare yourself for very tough decisions. As everyone who is committed to the best life possible for our horses, dogs , cats - we would bankrupt our lives to save them. But what you are seldom told is, just because you can take extreme and costly measures to save your devoted companion, it doesn’t mean you should. Sometimes the right decision is hell to make but it’s the right decision. If you mortgage the preverbial farm to save them in the moment, you are in fact setting them up for recurring pain and suffering.
Find your trusted advisors, ask them to keep you in line when those unbearably hard decisions need to be made and make that unbearably painful decision. Our companions give us unconditional love - even when we’re jerks. Their love is unconditional. But that doesn’t give us the right to keep them in our human world when they should be in a forever happy and playful world.