02/20/2024
This becomes an issue periodically at the Dog Park. Please be aware it's not as simple as it seems. (And if your dog exhibits this behavior it's still your responsibility to address it, redirect, or take a break from the Park so others can be comfortable.)
HU***NG HOUNDS - It’s not always what it seems
Some dogs do and some dogs don’t, but if you have a dog that humps at the most inopportune times it can be downright embarrassing or annoying.
Other dogs, other people, visitors, toys, cushions, furniture, anything that can be mounted and clung to may be fair game.
As people, it’s natural to assume that this behaviour is of a sexual nature, that our dogs must be oversexed, sexually frustrated or the all-too-common incorrect belief that our dogs are just trying to be “dominant” or “the alpha”.
Hu***ng, like many other dog behaviours does not always have a simple reason. It can be a complex behaviour which is usually emotionally or socially based.
Looking at what may be triggering the behaviour should always be the first step before finding ways to change a behaviour.
The solutions will depend on the cause. It may be finding ways to reduce stress or anxiety levels, increasing mental stimulation, teaching calm behaviours to prevent over arousal, ensuring your dog is getting enough sleep, using management or in some cases a veterinary check up to rule out any medical causes.
When hu***ng is annoying another dog or person or causing frustration, discomfort or harm in any way, then obviously this behaviour needs to be immediately addressed, but sometimes we may need to ask ourselves – is it really something we need to stop our dogs from doing just because we see it as socially unacceptable?
Is it a harmless way of relieving stress or anxiety after a difficult day or a way to expend pent up energy that is not causing anyone harm?
Is a little hump now and then okay if it’s not causing any harm?
If we prevent this, correct it, or at worst punish this behaviour are we removing a harmless natural outlet and risking another unwanted behaviour taking its place?
Hu***ng is one of the most misunderstood behaviours.
Very often, behaviour is not about the way it looks, but the way we perceive it from our human perspective.