NC Therapeutic Riding Center - NCTRC

NC Therapeutic Riding Center - NCTRC NCTRC uses equine-assisted activities and therapies to empower children and adults with physical, emotional, mental and social challenges.
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08/29/2024

Just one day into the Paris Paralympics, this post showing up in my feed this morning feels like it was meant to be. This message is important.

A few years ago, I wrote, "If people become better human beings by spending time with my daughter, hey, more power to ‘em, but let me be clear ... It is not her job, nor her purpose in life, to make non-disabled people better humans. The idea that she was put on this earth for the benefit of others is just a whole lot of No.”

I sarcastically ended it with “Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.”

More recently, I shared a post from 2015 in which I talked about how, for years, I lamented the moments in which Brooke, in the language I’d have used then, “disconnected.” I wrote about how I felt rejected when she wandered off or seemingly disengaged, and how off base I now know that I was to have felt that way.

I added the commentary, "It wasn’t about me. I was doing that thing that my fellow nautistic* parents and I so often do … centering myself in a story in which I wasn’t even a minor character.”

Those two posts, though seemingly very different, were closely related, and they are, once again, relevant.

I say this next part just as I did then: gently, respectfully, and with the full understanding and acknowledgment that it’s 100% unintentional, because I did it too. And because sometimes, when I don’t realize that I’ve dropped my guard, I still do.

Declaring that our disabled children were sent here to teach us any manner of life lessons is centering ourselves in our children’s stories when they, like every other human being on the planet, deserve to be their own protagonists.

I ask you to imagine with me how it would feel if, as children, we heard our mom or dad or favorite teacher telling a friend or a colleague (or 350,000 people on the Internet) that our raison d’être - literally the entire reason for our existence - was to make *them* a better person.

That we were literally put on this earth to show them the error of their ways - to make them less selfish or more grateful, to make other students more understanding, more accepting. That OUR entire purpose, our entire lives, have nothing to do with US at all.

There is no doubt in my mind that Brooke makes me a better person. Both of my daughters do, and I hope I do the same for them. Heck, if we’re doing this right, then we’re all striving to be better together, right?

But the main characters in my daughters’ stories - both of them - are THEM. I’m just lucky as hell to have a front row seat.

*Nautistic is Brooke’s word for allistic, also meaning non-autistic. It is pronounced NOT-tistic.

{image is a photo of Katie and Brooke on Sconset Beach in 2012 when they were 11 and 9. Katie has her arm around Brooke and is kissing her on the forehead. I’m not sure what, if anything, it has to do with this post, but it also came up in my Memories this morning and I love it so I’m using this as an excuse to repost it. 😁}

05/15/2024

How cool for the NC Symphony to present this concert to the community!

"Family Fun 4 Everyone" Concert!
Includes sensory-friendly accommodations, plus Instrument Zoo!
Tickets are just $10 with a flexible return policy
FAMILY FUN 4 EVERYONE: SENSORY-FRIENDLY CONCERT
SAT, JUN 1, 2024 | 1PM
MEYMANDI CONCERT HALL, RALEIGH

This concert experience is welcoming to all families—including people with autism or other sensory sensitivities. At this one-hour, fun-filled performance, enjoy classical favorites. Come early to try out instruments at our Instrument Zoo and meet new friends!
Sensory-Friendly Accommodations for this performance include:
🎼Designated quiet space available throughout the concert—
🎼Social Story preparing audiences for the concert experience, provided ahead of concert day
🎼Patrons may leave and re-enter the concert hall during the performance—
🎼Accessible accommodations including wheelchair seating, ASL interpretation, Braille and large-print programs

Patrons are welcome and encouraged to move, clap, sing, and dance.
Tickets: https://www.ncsymphony.org/events/607/family-fun-4-everyone-sensory-friendly-concert/?spMailingID=11008115&spUserID=MjIwNzIzMTkzODcxS0&spJobID=1980271769&spReportId=MTk4MDI3MTc2OQS2




04/02/2024

Today, on World Autism Awareness Day, let’s celebrate the beautiful spectrum of neurodiversity.

Embracing differences fosters innovation and inclusivity, strengthening organizations and teams.

Let’s continue to advocate for acceptance, understanding, and support for individuals with autism and all forms of neurodiversity.

We can create a world where everyone’s unique strengths are celebrated and valued. 💙

Happy Birthday to our beloved Cody, who turns 32 today!! He is enjoying every moment of his retirement!
03/02/2024

Happy Birthday to our beloved Cody, who turns 32 today!! He is enjoying every moment of his retirement!

02/04/2024

Before my own special person, I didn’t know to “presume competence.”
What that means is when you see a person with disabilities, don’t assume you actually know anything about them.
My own special person is ten years old and can build shapes with nine sides, name a zillion countries, but can’t safely cross the street or stay home alone while I run an errand.
I’ve learned that disabilities are complex and interesting and quite honestly, often don’t make sense.
This morning at the airport, I spied a family that reminded me of my own.
No wheelchair for us but it was an outward signal that traveling was tricky.
I do understand tricky travel.
And so, I said hello.
Invited them for a cup of coffee and they graciously accepted.
After we found a spot and got settled, the young woman said something to her mother.
Though I listened carefully, I didn’t have her mother’s ear and so, she repeated her daughters’s words.
“She watches your videos,” she exclaimed.
Boy, I didn’t expect that.
Presume competence, I whispered to myself.
We spent a delightful hour together.
We talked cruises and travel and Amanda’s 30th birthday trip to Australia.
They shared tips with me regarding special needs trusts and social security for adults with disabilities.
In less than eight years, it will be my turn.
There was a time that the thought of that reduced me to a puddle.
But now?
It’s still scary to consider the future and all that will have to happen to ensure the care of Amos, but it’s not so heavy anymore.
You see, he is mine and I am his and he has innate value on this earth.
Perhaps more than I knew possible.
Like Amanda, he’s teaching the world that different is not less or bad, it’s just different.
Hard and beautiful and exasperating and funny all wrapped up in a not so neat package called life.
And so, we will continue to travel this earth and shrug off the hard and smile at strangers and will them to say hello rather than stare.
There’s room for all of us, I tell you.
Thanks, Amanda, for the gentle reminder and the shared laughter.

Xo,
Adrian (Amos’ Mom)

01/26/2024
11/22/2023

💕 Family comes in many forms.
Dottie, one of our beloved Sweet Petite , connected with the infant donkey {Rosie} we helped to provide sanctuary to this summer. While they do look similar and are of course the same type of animal, they are not biologically related. It would not have been abnormal for Dottie to tell us that she was *not* interested in being Rosie’s adoptive parent since she is not and was not pregnant herself. But after only a few hours, she surprised us all and fell naturally into a guardian role. She has spent the last few months teaching Rosie how to be a donkey and watching over her closely. This sweet pair can often be found grooming each other, even in the company of others.
As we enter the holiday season, it is important to take a moment to acknowledge that families come in many forms—all with different stories, experiences and circumstances. Holidays can be a joyful time, but they can also be challenging. We recognize that some might be feeling a sense of loss, going solo or navigating unique family dynamics this season.
Whether surrounded by relatives or creating one’s own chosen family, we celebrate the diverse tapestry of what “family” can look like—from donkeys to humans and every creature in between—and hope to cultivate a spirit of inclusivity. There's no one-size-fits-all, and the magic of the season is in embracing and supporting one another as best we can. 🌟

11/10/2023

East Carolina University is partnering with Special Olympics North Carolina to implement a Unified Youth "Sport for Social Change" Exchange program. The project will connect Youth Leaders with and without intellectual disabilities (ID) and adult mentors from the U.S., with y...

11/10/2023
09/25/2023

The October 2023 AAC Awareness sales graphic is here! I will be posting a screen reader-friendly version ASAP. Download a high-resolution PDF with clickable links to the US App Store and vendor websites here https://bit.ly/AACAwarenessSales23.

Please share! When sharing, please share the post, not just the image so everyone gets the up to date link.

UPDATE: PRC Minspeak Trainings on sale! https://www.facebook.com/100040303135638/posts/1026452352041526/?mibextid=cr9u03 Thank you for sharing our webinar sale. One webinar left in October at 50% off . “Teachers and Students Minspeaking Together in the Classroom” presented by Kelly Fonner, MS on Thursday, November 9, 2023, at 12:00 pm Eastern. Use this coupon code to save 50% off registration through October 31st: OCTWEB50 (The session was rescheduled in Nov but still qualifies for the October discount if purchased by the 31st).

HUGE thanks to my gifted and giving friend Angela Moorad of OMazing Kids, LLC. https://www.facebook.com/OMazingKidsAAC/ She worked behind the scenes to proof the graphic and help me with whatever was needed. Angela is a powerhouse in the worldwide AAC community. If you don't follow her yet, it's a good idea! Her OMazing Kids resources are spectacularly detailed and meticulously updated.

07/26/2023

“During this past preschool year, my son said to me a few times that he wished his friends understood his body.“

07/26/2023
Summer camp fun!
07/11/2023

Summer camp fun!

07/09/2023

Edit to add: If you're interested in supporting the Owen's family, a GoFundMe has been created: https://gofund.me/2f993f66

My heart is heavy today with the news of Karen Owen's passing. I hope we can continue her mission and honor her legacy as an advocate for giving kids meaningful communication access.

Karen recorded hundreds of videos of her family using PODD and learning literacy. Why did she do that? Because when she went looking for examples of how to support her own children, all she found was a small fragment of a video. She said she watched those few seconds over and over.

And so Karen created a pathway for others. She shared glimpses of her family and their communication habits -- and offered encouragement to other families and teams feeling overwhelmed by the journey to meaningful communication. You can still watch a catalog of these videos on YouTube at We Speak PODD.

To Karen's family - Adam, Madi, Siah, and Harper - we hold you in our hearts and pray for your comfort. Know that Karen made an impact on me and on the AAC community. And for that we are grateful.
___
We Speak PODD YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/

Karen's presentation at AAC in the Cloud in 2017: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97i50ouzoOc

And a quote from Karen's message to the Community in 2017:
"When we start believing these kids will play a meaningful role in society, and tell their own damn story - it changes everything."

07/08/2023

Horses have an incredible ability to interpret human emotions. In 2019, psychologists demonstrated that horses could recognize a human's mood from their facial expressions and differentiate between anger and happiness. Without training the horses, the psychologists showed 28 horses several pictures of unfamiliar faces, either angry or smiling. Then, they had the people from the images meet the horses, wearing neutral expressions.

In each case, the horses responded negatively to the people presented as angry and positively to those shown as happy. The findings show that horses can recognize and react to how people present themselves emotionally and respond accordingly.

When incorporated into mental health and personal growth services, horses can make real and positive impacts on our mental health and personal growth journeys due to their ability to recognize and react to human emotions, and help us look at ourselves in a new light.

Source: Trösch, Miléna, et al. “Horses Categorize Human Emotions Cross-Modally Based on Facial Expression and Non-Verbal Vocalizations.” Animals: An Open Access Journal from MDPI, MDPI, 24 Oct. 2019, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6912773/.

06/21/2023

Still looking for summer camp options? We still have a few slots left for campers ages 6-11 in July! www.nctrcriders.org/inclusive-summer-camp

NCTRC uses equine-assisted activities and therapies to empower children and adults with physical, em

06/14/2023

We need your help! We have been awarded funds for a new all-inclusive playground at City Park! Kids and adults of all abilities will be able to enjoy this new feature! To build the best playground possible, we need your input as to what features you would like included. Please take just a few minutes to complete the survey below. The deadline is Thursday, June 15!

https://forms.office.com/r/yCbjfNHATJ

Thank you for your input!

06/07/2023

Registration closes Friday!

Don’t miss this magical experience with Hannah the unicorn!

These girls are still doing great things as they go out into the world!
06/02/2023

These girls are still doing great things as they go out into the world!

Today we are honored to be able to share with you a truly incredible piece of slam poetry, written by 13 year old Abigail, and inspired by her twin sister Chelsea. We are so grateful to count these amazing girls as part of our NCTRC family, and can't wait to see more of their extraordinary accomplishments as they grow up!

Stares by Abigail

Stares

watch where you are going young lady

i'm sorry ma'am she is special needs

Stares

people can't even wave to a happy child

who only knows love

Stares

staring at an innocent child who doesn't know what's going on around her

Stares

she is too old to be in a stroller, stop staring and come ask

Re**rd

a word that gives me chills throughout my whole body

Stares

my sister goes to countless doctor visits trying to find a cure but my heart beats fast when the doctor comes

back in the room saying there is no cure for your sisters disease

Stares

walking around a store pushing my loving sister around

but when I look up all I can see are stares

Stares

who is that kid being too loud in public

i'm sorry sir my sister is special needs

Stares

only knowing love and huge hugs

my sister must have a good life but then I look up and all I can see are stares

05/19/2023

Frequently, we're told that it would be nice to have one place to get all the information needed on disability needs and supports for NC families. We found it! https://worktogethernc.com/ is a "one-stop" shop for many things your family may need. We Will Walk With You is excited to be a part of this group aiming for positive collective impact in our state! Check it out today😃

Happy 29th Birthday to Sammy!!!
03/31/2023

Happy 29th Birthday to Sammy!!!

Happy Birthday to Cody who turns 31 today! He is enjoying every minute of his retirement with Gracie and Buddy thanks to...
03/02/2023

Happy Birthday to Cody who turns 31 today! He is enjoying every minute of his retirement with Gracie and Buddy thanks to the Cole family!

02/16/2023

While the North Carolina Zoo is Sensory Friendly every day, we understand that it can still be overwhelming for some of our guests on busier days. On Quiet Days at the Zoo, we offer a more sensory-friendly experience and invite everyone looking to visit the Zoo on a less crowded day. We will not allow reservations for large groups or field trips on these Quiet Days. We will also turn off all loud music and messaging at our entrances and throughout the Zoo.

Sensory bags are free for check out from the Guest Services Office or at Kidzone, and designated quiet areas are available and marked throughout the Zoo. Quiet sensory play experiences will also be open 10 am – 2 pm in our Kidzone on these days. Our next Quiet Day is scheduled for March 7th!

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