01/13/2026
How can we make our animals happier? I don't know if you have noticed, but the dogs and occasional cats in my videos look happy. Key things: 1) give them choice in things 2) be aware of their body language and react appropriately to it 3) know what they like best and what they don't like. 4) ask for consent - for petting, for picking them up, for putting on stuff (collars, coats...) etc. 5) Maintain patterns - for feeding, for exercise, for training, for daily things ---these don't have to be exact, but stability, predictability is comforting and calming. 6) Add in some adventure/novelty/learning...new stuff for fun and interest.
How can we make our animals unhappy/grumpy/unwilling? Ignore the above happiness creators. Example: unfortunately many kids aren't taught how to approach animals and go running at them, grabbing for or immediately petting or trying to pick them up and then get rebuffed by the animal. If it's a dog, the dog gets reprimanded, if it's a cat...it has usually already run for it.
But here's the thing: if they want contact they will come to you and push into you or give happy face/easy wag invites. Then you can give about 3 seconds of pets and stop, and see if they ask you to continue. That's consent. Cats frequently like the person best who pets the least. Dogs vary widely in their desire to be petted by strangers and even by owners.
Do you have key things that make your animals happier?
Here's a short video of a couple of my dogs learning to do the trick - Crawl.
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