12/08/2025
Each of us in this industry has someone watching. Little eyes that want to know more, to mimmick, and to try what we do. Young people who love horses but say, "How can I do this? How do I make a living?"
There's a technical side to the answer of that question but there is a more important piece that I've been thinking about. What character traits and practices are professionals exemplifying that we should be admiring?
Grit.
Kindness.
Gratitude.
Patience.
Determination.
But most of all... QUALITY should be of our utmost priority and practice. And I think the ones that are watching should see their mentors and teachers producing quality work AND making a living AND also having a life!
Quality work isn't just the technicalities of what is produced, but how much try, effort, care, and creativity is put forth. It's communication in all aspects, tending to the facility, and more.
Running a business on pure quantity isn't sustainable. I am not creating a halter for sale or something like that... I want to live this life, love it, and inspire others. Being so busy that I could lose creativity in my work, neglect the other pieces of life that make it great, and forget the true mission is NOT a flex.
Here are some things I think professionals should be teaching through our work.
1. Be curious not judgemental. Y'all don't ask enough questions. In your head and in person. Have a strong desire to learn.
2. Yeah, we've all got different styles. But again- be curious not judgemental and don't jump straight to conclusions. You might be surprised when you hear anothers side. You will likely learn something really valuable.
3. A horse is not JUST dollar signs. The humans tethered to them are special. Relationships with your clients are very important. Each horse holds a piece of your heart... care about them.
4. Extreme busyness will limit your creativity and presence with each horse. A horse lives in the moment and they need you in the moment. Completing a task while simultaneously planning the next removes you from that moment. The moment the horse really needs you.
5. Neglecting your physical health is just going to lead to a quicker end to your physical ability. Eat some healthy food and sleep for goodness sake.
6. We know horses are energy readers... so let's learn how to be productive but to separate each part of our day and regulate our energy.
7. This life requires grit and sacrifice. There are going to be times where it is overwhelming. But what I want the next gen to know is that it doesn't have to be that way 24/7/365. You can make it how you want!
When you're choosing who to follow and admire, consider what kind of person they are and what they value. Not just their successes.
