11/07/2024
Horses come to me from all different backgrounds, with unknown traumas, and training usually from a variety of places, and always unrecognized pain somewhere in their bodies. They come with resistances, evasions, defenses, often times having come to the conclusion that nobody will listen to them unless they scream as loudly as possible. Sometimes they are simply shut down and don't want to interact, aren't interested, will look everywhere but at me. It's an interesting thing to observe.
What I do notice, though, is that once they realize that a) I can show them how to be relaxed in any situation, and b) I listen to their small communications and they don't have to scream, the transformation is profound and remarkable. They become interested, they become confident, they communicate, they engage, and they start enjoying using their bodies. They come to me when I go to get them from the pasture. Sometimes they even try to help me put their halters on. 😂 It's inevitable and it's dramatic.
And yet, for some reason I'm always amazed and awed that it works, every single time. 🤷