Arrive Dog Training

Arrive Dog Training our goal is to teach owners how to communicate with their furry friends
with Real World Training

12/31/2025

The dog: so I just get better rewards when I guard from you? đŸ«Ą

If you’re struggling with resource guarding, we have a full step by step course on how to eliminate that behavior.

All courses can be found on solidk9academy.com

12/31/2025

E collar trained dogs actually have *more* freedom?? Blasphemy 😅😂

12/31/2025

With rare exception (true genetic anomalies), severe aggression, reactivity, separation anxiety, resource guarding, and chronic fear don’t just appear. They are practiced into existence.

This matters—whether your goal is to prevent these problems entirely or you’re already working to reverse them.

There are two main reasons these issues develop:

1. The early signs are subtle. Because most people don’t understand how serious behavior problems are built—and hope the behavior is a phase—they don’t treat those early moments as something that requires action.

2. Owners do notice the early warning signs and do understand where they can lead—but they don’t know how to address them correctly.

The critical takeaway: the worst behavior problems are built slowly, by humans. Your responsibility is to understand how that snowball forms—and how to stop it. Simple. Not easy.

Follow trainers who teach clear, logical, common-sense principles—and who consistently demonstrate results that reflect that logic.

TLDR: the bad stuff is created drip by drip by drip. It’s also reversed the exact same way.

12/28/2025

This stuff is so simple, and so obvious, and so common sense-based
 the problem is, we’ve allowed a bunch of status seeking, inexperienced, ideologically possessed bozos (pick one) to hijack the popular/accepted training narrative, and now what should be simple, obvious, and common sense is anything but.

Here’s the simple truth — truth that everyone knew up until 5 minutes ago — first you have to stop the unwanted behavior, and then, once space has been created by disrupting/pausing the typical emotional response/cycle, the dog can then develop a new feeling, and thus a new and far healthier response to the very same stimuli.

After several thousand dogs and close to 20 years of training experience, I can assure you that this simple training/behavior mod blueprint works
 over and over and over
 even with the most difficult dogs.

Sadly the dog training world — both trainers and owners — aren’t interested in simple and effective answers. And so dogs and owners will continue to struggle — not because the answers aren’t available, but because effective simplicity doesn’t capture the imagination or feed the excuses
 or sustain training modalities which depend on obfuscation to appear viable and legitimate.

11/05/2025

I know most of you are going to try some form of positive-only, force-free, rewards-based training
 first.

And many of you will try it first, second and third.

I get it. The marketing messaging plays on the loving, caring, only-want-what’s-best emotional space all of us dog owners find ourselves in.

You’re told it’ll be fun, your dog will be happy while learning, and it will build a solid and healthy relationship.

You’re also told doing anything that involves negative consequences will be unpleasant (for both of you), make your dog unhappy while learning and in general, and will create an unhealthy relationship based on fear and lack of trust.

Pretty compelling stuff.

But then you enroll your massive leash pulling, or explosively reactive, or resource guarding, or separation anxiety-consumed—or simply chaotic, bratty, jumping, barking, mouthing, and completely unreliable off-leash dog
 into one of these “magical” programs (or three), spend thousands of dollars, countless hours practicing, and the last stores of hope you have


Only to find that the problems you were so determined to solve, are either just as bad as when you started, or worse.

This is where countless owners give up. They believe they’ve exhausted all of the “proper”, “science-based”, “humane”, “quality” training options. And that only an uncaring monster would share negative consequences with their beloved companion. And so feeling sure they’ve tried all the “good stuff” they give up and accept that “That’s just who my dog is.”

Which is a terrible shame. Because we see these owners over and over. We’re usually the 3rd or 4th or even 5th trainer they’re trying. They often come in worried, unsure, and nervous about how their dogs will be trained and what the outcome—both behavior, emotional state, and relationship wise—will look like.

And then owners see their dogs who’ve they’ve struggled with, often for years, positively transform. The behavior issues that previously ruled their lives, and that they were told they’d simply have to accept have diminished tremendously, or have completely vanished. And their dogs—who they were told would be broken, or robotic, or just “sad”—are anything but.

They’re far more connected, polite, safe, enjoyable, and yes happy. They end up living bigger, better, fuller lives
 all because their owners chose to prioritize common sense over manipulated emotions; choosing to share a balanced life approach with them—using positive AND negative consequences—rather than falling for reality ignoring promises based on fantasy and appeals to emotion which simply don’t (and cannot) work.

We’ll see you one of these days
 hopefully.

www.thegooddogway.com
Bellingham, WA

09/17/2025

So many behaviors that get fancy, complex names/behaviors/causes ascribed to them, are simply the logical fallout of dogs not being given the proper boundaries and the self-awareness that comes from realizing that their least-best tendencies and choices won’t be tolerated.

Reactivity on walks, going bananas when guests arrive, guarding food/space/people/objects, separation anxiety, correcting humans for disapproved of trespasses
 are often dogs who simply don’t understand that there are rules and standards and that they will be held to them.

And so they just do whatever strikes their fancy, or their anxiety, or their fears. Which is the logical reaction to a leadership vacuum.

Strangely, before we’ve even start the “official” training and have yet to address any of the client’s list of behavior issues directly
 the majority of these problem behaviors “magically” disappear.

Of course this “magic” is simply the creation of clear and healthy social dynamics (humans lead, dogs follow), which causes dogs to become “self-aware”, meaning they realize their behaviors have consequences attached to them, and then, with this critical insight, these clever creatures miraculously start making all kinds of better, healthier decisions
 all on their own.

Simply because they were “inspired” to do so.

Something to think about if you’re struggling with your dog, or your kid. :)

08/30/2025

“A healthy fear?!?!?”

What kind of monstrous talk is this?

I don’t know, the kind that aligns with reality.

The kind that we all witness on a daily basis.

The kind that has formed all of us, and helped us safely navigate this challenging world.

All smart, child-focused, future-focused, and reality-aligning parents know this stuff to be profoundly simple, and profoundly effective
 and healthy.

But with our dogs we’re committed to only being a positive association , and avoiding anything that would create a healthy fear
 at any cost. Which means, whether you like it or not, you’re presenting yourself as a one dimensional doormat. And we all know what happens to doormats
 they get walked all over.

We’ve all watched this slow slide into coddling, babying, excuse making, consequence avoiding behavior, and it’s put us squarely where we are currently.

Let me be clear. You should absolutely be an immense positive association with your dog. But if you are unable to also occupy the space as a negative association, and are unable to cultivate a healthy fear — you can’t wonder why you’re struggling.

The answers are crystal clear and wildly obvious.

When you’re ready to become a multi-dimensional association — one who predicts the awesome stuff and the not so awesome stuff — life with your dog becomes something healthy, enjoyable, and a whole lot of fun.

But as long as you recoil at representing a healthy fear, which comes from your dog’s knowledge that you will share unsavory consequences for poor choices, prepare yourself to struggle, be frustrated, and even resentful.

Not because you don’t have a choice, but because you don’t like the choice.

08/09/2025

It’s not the big, obvious problem moments where your relationship with your dog is forged.

Unfortunately this continues to be the place where struggling owners look
 because it seems to make sense.

The big stuff is obvious. And it obviously points out issues in your dog’s behavior, and your relationship with them.

And while it’s true that these big moments DO reveal fractures in your relationship, what you almost certainly don’t realize is that these big moments didn’t suddenly materialize as the big, obvious problem you now perceive them as.

The big stuff, like everything in life, came from countless small moments that you perceived as innocuous and not requiring attention — and over countless repetitions of these “small moments” occurring you’ve told your dog who you are, who they are, and that the big stuff is absolutely up for grabs.

And thus you find yourself struggling with the obvious, truly challenging stuff, but it didn’t start here. It started with all the small stuff you deemed not important enough to give the proper attention and addressing to.

And so if you’re trying to repair your relationship and to get your dog’s behavior into a better space, the place to do so isn’t with the obvious and the overt. It’s with all the tiny moments you missed prior.

Which means, it’s time to start seeing any and all “small moments” as the truly critical, profound, transformative moments that they truly are. And if you’ll start going after these with vigor and determination — and proper firmness — you’ll finally be on the right track to right the ship and perhaps even get those big, ugly, quality-of-life destroying moments that are downstream from the small stuff
 into the positive, healthy space you dream of.

08/08/2025

Of all the ways that problem behaviors snowball into truly ugly stuff, this is the big one.

Most folks, when they see problem behavior like to believe that it’s gotta be abuse, or neglect, or actually training the dog to be a problem. And while those examples obviously occur, they are absolutely eclipsed by the far more common, and usually unrecognized big kahauna of the problem-behavior-creation-world.

Whether it’s jumping on people, nipping people, dragging you on walks, going bonkers at the door, barking at anything and everything out the window, pacing and melting down in the car, exploding at other dogs on walks, growling at strangers, fence fighting, resource guarding, nuisance barking/whining/destruction, pushy/bratty behavior, and even begging.

All this stuff is a byproduct of allowance.

All you have to do is simply allow it to occur, give it some time and the ability to be practiced, and you’re off and running down crazy dog lane.

Or, you take notice of behaviors you find undesirable and/or unhealthy, and you address them. You do so by applying proper
punishment consistently, and in no time, you’ll start to see the problem behavior lessen and lessen, until finally, if done right, it just up and disappears.

So next time you’re banging your head against the wall because of your dog’s frustrating and/or dangerous behavior, just remember, if you’re not doing anything to stop it, you’re absolutely complicit, and an active partner in training it.

07/07/2025

Are there other components?

Of course.

Play, affection, exercise. But these are all enjoyable and rewarding for the human — so you don’t need me or any other trainer to remind you to do this stuff. You’ll happily do it without anyone nagging you.

But, the other stuff? The rules, the structure, the accountability? Bleh.

This stuff is no fun. In fact, it’s often emotionally uncomfortable. And so it gets placed in the very back of the mind’s priority list.

Which means the dog’s needs get the usual out of balance treatment.

Our dogs get the play, affection, and exercise — aka, the soft, fun, sweet stuff, and little to none of the other stuff that balances them and your relationship out. Which means owners get the usual out of balance dog behavior, AND as a special bonus they get the usual out of balance relationship dynamics
 which only serves to exacerbate their dog’s behavior issues.

You see, it’s a double pronged undermining. You not only withhold the essential stuff that helps your dog share their best, you also teach your dog that you’re a doormat to be walked upon.

And I’m sure you can see where that all ends up. It ends up with you sitting on mine, or another trainer’s couch, terribly upset and overwhelmed by your dog’s unexplainable behavior, explaining how unpleasant and unbearable life has become.

Which leads me back to the reason you hear smart trainers always promoting the same tired old rules, structure, accountability stuff. Because it’s the same tired old stuff we see derailing dog after dog after dog. And we’re hoping that maybe just maybe, that this time perhaps another one of you will hear it, process it, and actually run with it. 🙏

07/07/2025

Be sure the one holding the leash is doing the training. 😉

07/06/2025

The dog training world isn’t short on nonsense. One of the major nonsensical assertions is that if you have to rely on tools then your dog isn’t trained.

The argument behind this should make anyone who actually knows dogs, and who’s honest, giggle. The argument posits that if you’ve trained your dog what to do, and reinforced what you trained patiently, consistently, and competently
 your dog will always listen and will simply do what it’s been taught.

Knowing = doing. Period.

Which means your dog will never find itself torn between what it knows it should do and what it would prefer to do. It will never break place and charge the front door when a guest arrives, because you’ve taught it to hold place no matter what. And your dog will never be off-leash and ignore your recall command when that bunny or enticing dog shows up, because you’ve taught your dog to come back no matter what. And your dog will definitely never blow up at that maniacal Chihuahua straining to get a piece of your best friend, because you’ve taught your dog to ignore naughty monsters on walks no matter what.

Hahahaha


Just like you and that speed limit. You’d never break that clearly explained and clearly understood law/rule. You’d never be in such a rush that it would damage your “knowing.” You’d never be enticed by the thrill of some extra speed that you’d “forget” the rules. And you’d never just truly innocently forget the speed limit and careen through a 25 zone at 45 because you were distracted by life. Nah.

We don’t use e-collars as a shortcut, quick-fix, or crutch — we use them because we don’t deny reality. We give our dogs the full credit of having conflicting motivations, desires, and brains that can simply get lost in the noise of the moment
 just like you.

Any sensible, honest, reality-aligned person knows all too well that knowing and doing are two very different things. Which is why we unapologetically use tools that help dogs (and owners) enjoy the greatest: quality of life, amount of freedom, and degree of safety.

Because everyone “forgets” occasionally. 😉

TLDR: “You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.” -AR

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