Whispering Winds Farm

Whispering Winds Farm Horses can teach us trust, unconditional love, healing, obedience and faith.

08/12/2024

This is why your turn does not come from pulling on the rein. Note the riders hand and leg position and hip angle in each sketch. Note the development of the horses muscles in each sketch. Note the shape of the horse in each sketch. A truly supple, truly bent horse is working through their entire body. It is OUR job as the rider to guide the horse to become soft, supple, and through in all movements.

Rider one is pulling the nose around, and trying to push the haunches in, with a following outside rein offering the horse no balance, and a hardly supportive inside leg to wrap around. This has created a rigid, stiff horse that will surely be back sore, weak in the hind end, with front end bulk in all the wrong places. This horse has every opportunity, and will likely be so uncomfortable that it will try every time, to run out of his right shoulder.

Rider two is pushing the horse from his inside leg to his outside rein. The outside rein is providing a balance point for the horse, allowing him to be both comfortable and willing to carry himself. Because the riders rein is supportive and blocking the shoulder, the horse can not blow out the shoulder, and can only become truly bent along the entire length of the spine.

In order to build the athlete you want, and to allow your horse the opportunity to have a long, successful, and most importantly SOUND career, it is important to understand how we ride, even in seemingly simple tasks such as the walk or trotting circles, is effecting each muscle in your horses body. Not all muscle is good muscle!

Lily and Gracelyn hosing off Diesel to cool him off after lesson this morning…🥵
08/02/2024

Lily and Gracelyn hosing off Diesel to cool him off after lesson this morning…🥵

08/01/2024

It is rewarding to instill in young people care and respect for the horse, and good riding skills. Children are far more receptive and empathetic than many adults, because they hadn’t been taught to ignore horses expressions to get something. It takes knowledge and experience to keep school horses soundness and mental well-being from being ridden by beginners. Keeping lessons good for both horse and rider is a job of creativity and constant adjustment. I believe it can be done, but the culture at large doesn’t typically make it profitable, as many parents struggle to want to pay for lessons on sound husbandry and good riding basics. The kids want to canter, by God!

I have some firm beliefs about good riding stables, and I realize the expense and strain and adjustment is an ever pressing reality, I stand by these beliefs:

-children should learn good riding fundamentals first, and not progress to trotting, cantering, jumping until they have a good understanding of a balanced seat and can demonstrate it

-children should learn care of and respect for the horse comes before their entertainment. Grooming, tacking, warming up and cooling down, quitting an activity or adjusting if the horse is stressed, learning groundwork, etc, should be a non negotiable

-children should learn to feel a balanced horse to the extent possible. A beginner horse should not simply be a lame horse that tolerates them, but one to teach them how to ride- children should not be set up for a future of kicking and pulling to get a horse to do something, but learn to feel how to direct a horse with their body, and to feel movement that is balanced, setting them up for a lifetime of being able to balance future horses.

- children should learn to read accurately equine expression and well-being. Children should not be taught to describe horses as lazy, stubborn, etc- these are taught by adults and children learn to adapt these views. The adults are responsible for setting the culture and views of horses and their handling.

Many riders struggle with normalizing tight, crooked, and unhappy horses because this is what they learn to ride on. The instructor is responsible for setting the culture of what their program entails, and I believe this means setting firm boundaries on what the purchasing client can expect, instead of catering to unreasonable demands to keep business. That is a whole can of worms in itself, but one worth opening.

Camp week! It has been amazing so far! So proud of all the kids and what they have accomplished in just a few days. Ever...
07/18/2024

Camp week! It has been amazing so far! So proud of all the kids and what they have accomplished in just a few days. Everyone is excited and ready to show their family what they have learned at the show tomorrow evening

My beautiful boy is tired this morning 🥰
07/10/2024

My beautiful boy is tired this morning 🥰

There are still some openings left!
06/29/2024

There are still some openings left!

06/28/2024
Good info!
06/19/2024

Good info!

Herdbound horses -

Herdbound horses are a common complaint- all over the country, horses are attached to a buddy or buddies, often to a level that can make them dangerous to take out alone, or sometimes even five feet away.
There are many opinions on different “fixes,” everything from running them ragged near their friend in frantic circles and resting them away from their friend, to a carrot on a stick or Hansel and Greek trail of treats on the path away from the friend. But the reality is, a herd structure is central to a horses survival, and companionship of other horses is part of their feeling of safety- no training can override the horses desire to be a horse witbout shutting them down

AND

The Herdbound horse is one who is not doing well!

In almost every clinic I’ve taught, the most Herdbound horse in the group is the one in roughest shape- tight back, sucked up flank, pain face, tight groin - the works. Horses that are in physical crisis are much more likely to feel vulnerable, stressed, and feel a strong pull toward comfort- which is another horse.

A horse who is not feeling well in their body, who is not feeling confident in their handler who is fighting against their body (it’s a hard truth because that usually isn’t the desire of the handler, but that is what’s happening), who is in a new and unsafe environment is going to seek out safety, and that pull is as strong as the tide.

What’s the fix for Herdbound issues?
Lifestyle fixes
Horses need a herd, they can’t live happily alone, I don’t care who has a horse that tolerates it, solitary confinement is not a way of life for a horse. They need a group, or at least one other friend at the bare minimum. But they are likely to be less secure with just one friend, and far more worried about leaving

Body fixes
Don’t just write off their body because you get routine Bodywork. Get their back moving, help their groin function without being spastic, create a functional body with a moving back and healthy gut so they can think and not be stuck in survival mode

Rider fixes
Make it so whenever you’re around, they feel safe and they feel secure. That means calm your own energy, learn how to guide, be aware of your environment, don’t nitpick, and make your body make their body feel stable and wonderful. Good riding is moving Bodywork- make it so when you sit on their back they are in better shape than out in the pasture - that is a tall order but I believe it’s entirely possible, and I see it happen all the time.

A Herdbound horse is a stressed out horse - the fix is in your hands entirely.

First camp of the summer was a success! We joined Phelps Pharm with the adventure and everything went so good. I was ver...
06/15/2024

First camp of the summer was a success! We joined Phelps Pharm with the adventure and everything went so good. I was very proud of all the riders, horses, and the teen counselors that helped to make it happen. Very happy with my horses that I took over there to participate in the adventure, they were so awesome! Please stay tuned for my camp dates coming up in July...big arena will be done and we will be ready to go!

Sometimes you just need the little one to get through a rough day 🥰 These two fit so well together..a mutual understandi...
06/03/2024

Sometimes you just need the little one to get through a rough day 🥰 These two fit so well together..a mutual understanding 💖

They sure do enjoy nap time 🥰
05/29/2024

They sure do enjoy nap time 🥰

05/19/2024

No I won’t tack your horse up for you.

My job is to teach you the things I know. I don’t know it all but when you buy a lesson, you buy a trainer’s time. You are buying the knowledge we have acquired through trial and error, years of lessons ourselves, sometimes generations of horseman, and literal blood- sweat- and tears.

In an era that entitlement seems at an all time high, I won’t tack the horse up for you. That’s not and will never be part of my program. Riding and doing it well is a foot note of what makes the “riding lesson.”

I have worked for people who wouldn’t touch a pitchfork and I’ve worked for people who would get off their Grand Prix horse and clean every stall in the barn.

Pay attention to how horses react to the people who care for them. Don’t forget why you started riding in the first place. Never take for granted learning something new every day.

Riding isn’t a convenience. It’s an experience.

"Dead Broke." Two very scary words. All too often these words are used to describe a "safe" horse...bomb proof. However ...
05/14/2024

"Dead Broke." Two very scary words.

All too often these words are used to describe a "safe" horse...bomb proof. However all too often, this is a horse that has been desensitized by fear. They are not quiet and safe, they are SHUT DOWN and on survival mode - not reacting because they are afraid to be punished - no matter how scared they are on the inside.

This is not a safe horse. This is, in fact, the most dangerous of horses. Because something will eventually scare them more than their "trainer" or they will finally have had enough - and absolutely explode.

Many of the horses that need rehabilitation are these types. And while they may seem worse before they get better, they CAN get better. They CAN learn to trust...
- It takes time & commitment
- It takes understanding & patience
- It takes love & compassion

It can be done.

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Morning nap time
05/11/2024

Morning nap time

Had a great day today giving everyone a bath!
05/06/2024

Had a great day today giving everyone a bath!

04/11/2024

Interested in something for your child to do this summer? Sign them up for riding lessons! We are open for lessons Tuesday through Saturday! Western and English lessons are available from beginner to advanced. We will have a Riding club for students only and summer camp dates to come! I have over 40 years of experience and teaching is my passion! Please contact me, Vickie 931-304-1921 or send message for more info.

08/09/2023

I get ghosted a lot when people receive lesson prices after asking for them. “That much?!? For an 8 year old!? That’s absurd!!!” I think the shock comes mainly from misunderstanding the nature of the business. There are many, many factors to consider when signing you or your child up for any type of lesson. In *most* instances, a participant in an activity is learning how to handle inanimate objects, preform a task solo, or work with a group of other individuals who are mainly self sustaining. However, riding lessons require two athletes and a coach that can simultaneously watch and critique both athletes, of two different species, while keeping the biomechanical and mental health of both in good working order.

When you pay a facility for lessons you are paying for (at minimum) the following:

1) Years and years of lesson expenses, where a trainer dedicated their time to becoming an expert in their field.
2) Continuing education or peer review. A trainer who is doing the BEST for their students and equines will either have accolades, be in consistent lessons, or will be showing in a discipline (and often all of the above). All of which cost time, money, and labor.
3) The facility. A mortgage or lease. The electric bill that covers fans/lights run in the barn, arena lights, structural insurance, etc.
4) Professional liability insurance. Don’t ask how much that costs in the equine world. It’ll hurt your feelings. 🥴
5) Bare minimum nutrition for the horses. Quality feed and hay—and y’all, that stuff ain’t cheap. Plus fresh water at all times.
6) Labor. Whether that be from the instructor tuning up horses, paying a trainer to ride lesson horses, or farm hands who muck stalls, mow the grass, feed the horses, etc.
7) Taxes—cause, well…Uncle Sam.
8.) An accountant to make sure you don’t genuinely screw your whole business up.
9) Fuel—yes…fuel is a BIG one. Fuel to drag pastures, to drag arena, to put hay out, to travel to the facility to teach or take lessons, fuel to run the water truck, fuel to go to PL Woodard Hardware to pick up parts for things that fall apart on a daily basis.
10) Maintenance. That fence, ain’t gunna fix itself. Let’s factor in the cost of insulators, wire, posts, etc. Did I mention you need labor to put those things up? And good labor to make sure the fencing is safe for the equines. Anyone can rig a fence, but horses can be bubble wrapped and still injure themselves.
11) Routine care. Twice a year the vet comes for vaccines. Every SIX WEEKS a farrier has to do a horse’s feet. Dental work should be done every 6 months to a year, depending on the horse. PEMF, Chiro, and body work are needed for some horses also. Oh! And don’t forget injections that cost several hundred dollars every 6 months to 2 years.
12) Ever had to go to the ER or Urgent care? Yeah, horses need those emergency bills paid too when they decide to impale themselves on something it shouldn’t even be possible to impale anything on.
13) Barn supplies and equipment: fly spray, grooming supplies, water buckets, water troughs, feed bins, hoses, zip ties, duct tape, light bulbs, brooms, mowers, tractors, weedeaters, bush hogs, tractor drags, golf cart/side by side to do chores on, a dependable truck and trailer for emergency vet visits, tires, oil changes, etc.
14) Helmets. Those need to be replaced every couple years.
15) The time someone spent marketing to even let you know there are lessons available.
16) TACK! GOOOOOOD Tack. Tack that won’t sore you up and teach you bad habits. Tack that won’t sore up your horse. Tack that won’t break in the middle of your ride. And the upkeep of that tack requires supplies like leather conditioner, brushes, rags, etc.
17) Oh! And let’s see….horses! Have y’all checked out the horse market recently? “Pick two: sound, cheap, broke.” If you can find a GOOD, SAFE, SOUND lesson horse, you’re paying a pretty penny to purchase it. You’re also paying a good penny to keep it broke and/or keep it maintained.
18) There’s so much more, but this is the general info that I can come up with off the top of my head without getting into the nitty gritty.

So if you see somewhere that’s charging the same price as ballet lessons for riding lessons, you probably need to walk away….And yes, your 8 year old should pay more for lessons than an 18 year old, because you need someone special, patient, and super detail oriented to work with the 8 year old. “They just want to ride. They don’t want to learn anything else. We don’t need to learn how to tack up or clean a saddle.” Well, put a quarter in the horse at the mall. These equines have a special job—to teach people how to safely interact with and communicate with their species. They are living, being creatures and riding facilities owe these horses welfare.

A lot of people have no idea what goes into it, but I hope this short list gives insight as to why it can be costly to go to a good facility for lessons.

And that’s all I got to say about that. 🤠

I am so proud of this horse right here! I got Bo a year ago and he was just a pet..not much training. We are still worki...
06/04/2023

I am so proud of this horse right here! I got Bo a year ago and he was just a pet..not much training. We are still working on some manners on the ground but he has come a long way and now teaching kids to ride! The student riding has improved a lot also!

Today was Bugsy's 24th Birthday. We have come a long way together in the past 20 years...this boy is my whole ♥️
05/31/2023

Today was Bugsy's 24th Birthday. We have come a long way together in the past 20 years...this boy is my whole ♥️

This is Bugsy aka "The Man". I have had Bugsy now for 20 years. He is one of a kind and we have traveled many roads and ...
03/14/2023

This is Bugsy aka "The Man". I have had Bugsy now for 20 years. He is one of a kind and we have traveled many roads and faced many obstacles over the years. I have learned so much from this horse. So glad I never gave up on him..he is not for a beginner rider but he can teach an intermediate to advanced rider all the way up to Level 1 dressage. He loves working on a drill team and he will give you his all!

This is Diesel. He is a Quarter Horse who we rescued from the rodeo. It took him a little while to trust and the only th...
03/14/2023

This is Diesel. He is a Quarter Horse who we rescued from the rodeo. It took him a little while to trust and the only thing he knew to do was take off and run the second you got on. It took a lot of patience and time but now he teaches beginners to advanced riders. He is also a great horse to connect with and learn about trust.

This is Whisper...the one I named the farm after. She is a 14 yr old Appaloosa/ Shire cross. I have had her since she wa...
03/14/2023

This is Whisper...the one I named the farm after. She is a 14 yr old Appaloosa/ Shire cross. I have had her since she was a year old. She is a very laid back ( should I say lazy) lesson horse. She is never in a hurry! A great horse for beginners or for someone that needs to work on some trust or fear issues.

Welcome to Whispering Winds Farm where God speaks to your heart through the horses soul. I have over 40 years in the hor...
03/14/2023

Welcome to Whispering Winds Farm where God speaks to your heart through the horses soul. I have over 40 years in the horse business and teach English and Western from beginners to advanced riders. If you have your own horse and need some fine tuning or maybe help with an issue you can bring your horse here for a lesson! Maybe you don't have an interest in riding and just want to have a connection with horses. They are great teachers to help with many issues like anxiety, fear, depression, loss and anger. So make time for the quiet moments...for God Whispers and the world is loud. For more info please message me or contact me at 931-304-1921.

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