07/10/2025
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Let’s set something straight, and I will die on this hill:
YOUR RESCUE WAS MOST LIKELY NOT ABUSED BY A SIX FOOT BEARDED MAN WITH A HAT AND SUNGLASSES ON.
I’m hearing this story more and more. It’s one that me, and almost every dog trainer on this planet hate. Not because of what it stands for, but because it stops the journey in its tracks.
Dog training is a lot like writing a book. The moment your dog joins your life, the story begins. It reads about how much you love your dog, all your adventures, and about the training it took to get your dog to their most perfect self. Now imagine putting in a chapter about their past, which most of the time through rescue is unknown, and explaining how that affects the outcome of the story for the worst. The dog can never trust men again, and we accept that because of a made up ideology. (Again, it’s not true in every case - I’m depicting the 95% of dogs I meet with this criteria)
The moment we write that narrative in our brains, emotion overrides logic. We don’t push our dogs to be better. We don’t put them in situations that make them uncomfortable just to teach them that they CAN fight through it, and become better for it. We don’t do it because our emotion made that decision for them.
We should always empower our dogs to be better. To make better choices. To understand and become more acceptant of what’s expected. We lose that when we throw human emotions into the equation.
Dogs live in the moment. Make that moment matter. If you won’t, your dog will never get to that beautiful chapter with you. Let me tell you, that beautiful chapter is worth some discomfort and having to work through situations that they don’t always love. Don’t let your emotions take that beautiful moment away from you and your dog.
I promise, it will be worth it. Stop talking about the past, and work toward the future.