Heart Centered Horsemanship

Heart Centered Horsemanship Training for horses and humans that focuses on creating a trusting and harmonious relationship.
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Heart Centered Horsemanship is rooted in the intention to serve horses through supporting owners, horsemanship students and riders in creating partnerships that are enjoyable and mutually beneficial. Over 25 years of experience in training, teaching lessons, starting young horses, providing equine-assisted learning and therapeutic services, equine rehabilitation and working with rescues has given

me experience that can benefit anyone seeking a safe and happy partnership with their horse. I can help you:
-Feel safe with your horse through setting clear and effective boundaries
-Listen to the horse and gain trust
-Become a calming and grounding influence
-Release tension in the horse and facilitate relaxation and connection
-Guide and move your horse without pressure
-Teach your horse to stay light and soft in the bridle
-Ride in a way that develops the horse's core strength to prevent damage from riding

Heart Centered Horsemanship is an holistic approach that teaches people the skills needed to build a meaningful and joyful relationship with their horse. It incorporates the practice of yoga to help people use body, mind and breath in a mindful and intentional manner. It includes techniques from Masterson Method, Feldenkrais, myofascial release, massage, and other equine bodywork modalities to help release tension and relax the horse. Groundwork is based on moving the horse with the least amount of pressure until all movements can be done at-liberty. In-hand training with the bridle and riding are based on classical dressage to help the horse build core strength and carry a rider without damage to the body. Services offered include training and support for horse owners, riding and horsemanship lessons for all ages with school horses, clinics, and "yoga and horses" classes, and equine assisted learning and therapeutic services.

Co-creating is understanding that when you start out on a journey, you don't already know where you'll end up.
08/30/2024

Co-creating is understanding that when you start out on a journey, you don't already know where you'll end up.

Once upon a time there was a young Arabian mare who was left alone in a field. She was considered difficult, problematic...
08/28/2024

Once upon a time there was a young Arabian mare who was left alone in a field. She was considered difficult, problematic, even dangerous. I took her home with me, as I tend to do with unwanted horses, and fortunately she found a home at LaBelle Equestrian where she helps me teach people the lessons of the horse. One day I will write a book about this magical fairy unicorn princess. I will call it, The Legend of Zella 😊

I sometimes think about the language people use with their horses. Many riders assume the horse doesn’t want to “work,” ...
08/25/2024

I sometimes think about the language people use with their horses. Many riders assume the horse doesn’t want to “work,” that taking them to the arena is a burden or a chore for them. I want the horses in my care to enjoy our sessions. After all, healthy movement feels GREAT, even though it may take some motivation to get going.

Do you consider riding work or play for the horse?? And if you’re not sure maybe ask… is it fun for them? Does it feel good in their body? To me, those are the factors that are most important.

The art of riding can be a meditation, where mind and body are united, along with the horse, who will always respond to ...
08/23/2024

The art of riding can be a meditation, where mind and body are united, along with the horse, who will always respond to our self-mastery.

I am looking forward to a series of 5 MInd & Body Mastery classes for riders at starting mid-September. These will be on the mat, and will include some of my tried and true favorite ways to improve stability, intention and ease of movement, and effectiveness in communicating with horses. These classes will be available on Zoom as well as in person. Details coming soon!!

Over the years I've worked with many horses with problematic behaviors... bolting, aggression, spookiness, bucking, etc....
08/21/2024

Over the years I've worked with many horses with problematic behaviors... bolting, aggression, spookiness, bucking, etc. I feel like it isn't my job to "fix" these horses, it's my job to bring out their best side, which is under there somewhere, and help them be in that place all the time.

I was talking about this to my teen mental health group, who are also working on changing problematic behaviors. I explained how I pay close attention to triggers and accompanying behavior in horses. I go slowly, opening the space between trigger and reaction, introducing the possibility of choice and a different response. I hold a safe space and do what I can to help calm their nervous system. I go back to what we can do with a sense of ease and safety.

I've been working on applying this to my interactions with people as well. What can I do to bring out the best in others? Gotta say, it's a little harder with people than with horses.... but definitely a worthwhile experiment. 😊

When Kalah passed it broke my heart, but when I'm with Zella I can feel the same nurturing, maternal spirit. Maybe angel...
08/18/2024

When Kalah passed it broke my heart, but when I'm with Zella I can feel the same nurturing, maternal spirit.
Maybe angels never really die. Maybe they keep showing up in a new form.

Many trainers may impress you with the feats their horses achieve, but for me real success lies in the qualities of soft...
08/12/2024

Many trainers may impress you with the feats their horses achieve, but for me real success lies in the qualities of softness, attunement and unity between my students and the horses.

Though I still use the job title “horse trainer” when filling out forms, more and more I realize I am not interested in ...
08/07/2024

Though I still use the job title “horse trainer” when filling out forms, more and more I realize I am not interested in training horses at all. I am interested in how I can connect with them and communicate in their language. I am interested in what we can discover together when rhythm, lightness and harmony are the priorities.

I tell my students, it’s not about making the horse do anything, it’s about setting up clear parameters and giving the horse time to figure out how to organize around them. We don’t do pressure/release and we don’t do positive or negative reinforcement. We simply communicate clearly, and of course give them tons of love ❤️

LaBelle Equestrian

The horses in my lesson program are not perfect, and that’s okay. My students don’t ride perfect horses, but they are le...
08/02/2024

The horses in my lesson program are not perfect, and that’s okay. My students don’t ride perfect horses, but they are learning to make improvements in the ones that come our way.

“Every imperfection creates the opportunity for me to learn something that I can then grow from and put into practice. By practicing that which challenges me: practicing acceptance, practicing patience, practicing loving, practicing improvement; I will gain confidence until the skill I am practicing becomes second nature. Perfection, as we typically think about it, should be treated more as a way to focus our attention rather than a final accomplishment that we attain. To come to terms with this notion is to be able to view the imperfections of life as the perfect teaching tools and opportunities for our growth and betterment rather than a measure of our success.”

-Be Water, My Friend: The Teachings of Bruce Lee by Shannon Lee

07/24/2024

A friend is visiting from California and, though she’s been interested in my work for years, this was our first time working with horses together. She came along to Midnight's Promise Equine Rescue where I work with horses and volunteers each week. She was asking great questions, and it was so much fun to see those “a-ha” moments when things clicked! My ways can seem quite unusual at first, but I love seeing the responses when people realize how well it works 😊

Real leadership isn't about dominance and control, it's about creating a relationship in which the best interests of oth...
07/14/2024

Real leadership isn't about dominance and control, it's about creating a relationship in which the best interests of others guide our choices. Co-creating with another being doesn't involve using them for an ego-driven purpose, but developing a mutually beneficial relationship that improves the well-being of both parties.
The Heart Centered Horsemanship model is about creating a relationship in which the horses will willingly say "yes" to requests, and learning to communicate in their language so that we are clearly understood. This was the message for my good friend Yeddi Lino's camp for boys on their visit to LaBelle Equestrian. As usual, the horses teach these lessons so much better than I ever could.
Photos by LINO Visuals

I have learned a lot about Montessori schools after planning a retreat for Yadkin Path Montessori School at LaBelle Eque...
07/01/2024

I have learned a lot about Montessori schools after planning a retreat for Yadkin Path Montessori School at LaBelle Equestrian. It was so interesting to realize the similarities between my approach to working with horses and the principles of Montessori. Themes that we covered included the importance of holding safe space, co-regulation of the nervous system, making interactions enjoyable, communicating with energy rather than pressure, working through challenges/resistance without force, and the art of co-creating. Thanks to LINO Visuals for the photos! All participants agreed it was a great experience, somehow learning from a horse just hits different ❤️

Food for thought
06/24/2024

Food for thought

🐴 Aquí hay 15 hechos interesantes sobre el cerebro de un caballo:

1. El cerebro de un caballo es relativamente pequeño comparado con el tamaño de su cuerpo, y representa sólo alrededor del 0,1 % de su peso total.

2. A pesar de su pequeño tamaño, los caballos tienen cerebros muy complejos, con una corteza cerebral altamente desarrollada, la parte del cerebro responsable del pensamiento consciente, la toma de decisiones y la memoria.

3. Los caballos pueden aprender y recordar tareas complejas, como navegar por un curso de salto o realizar una rutina de doma, a través de un proceso llamado aprendizaje asociado.

4. Como los humanos, los caballos tienen un hemisferio izquierdo y un hemisferios derecho en el cerebro, cada uno con funciones especializadas. El hemisferio izquierdo es responsable del procesamiento de la información lógica y analítica, mientras que el hemisferio derecho está más involucrado en el procesamiento emocional y el pensamiento creativo.

5. Los caballos tienen una gran memoria y pueden recordar personas, lugares y experiencias concretas durante muchos años.

6. Los caballos pueden aprender por observación, y a menudo pueden adquirir nuevos comportamientos y habilidades simplemente observando a otros caballos o humanos.

7. Los caballos tienen un sentido del tacto muy sensible y pueden detectar incluso la más mínima presión o movimiento en su piel. Esto les ayuda a responder a las sutiles señales de tu motorista o guía.

8. Los caballos pueden procesar información visual muy rápida y precisa, permitiéndoles evitar posibles peligros y navegar por su medio ambiente con facilidad.

9. Los caballos son animales sociales y dependen de la comunicación no verbal para interactuar con otros caballos de su manada. Esta comunicación es facilitada por el cerebro del caballo, que puede interpretar cambios sutiles en el lenguaje corporal, expresiones faciales y vocalizaciones.

10. En última instancia, como todos los animales, los caballos tienen una personalidad única y rasgos individuales que se moldean por sus experiencias, genética y entorno, todo lo cual se refleja en su función cerebral y comportamiento.

11. Los caballos tienen un fuerte sentido del olfato y su bulbo olor, que procesa los olores, es relativamente grande comparado con otras partes de su cerebro.

12. El cerebro, que es responsable de coordinar el movimiento y el equilibrio, también es relativamente grande en caballos. Esto se debe a que los caballos deben ser capaces de moverse rápida y eficientemente para escapar de los depredadores o navegar por terrenos difíciles.

13. Los caballos tienen un umbral de dolor muy alto, que se cree que está relacionado con cómo sus cerebros procesan las señales de dolor. Aunque esto puede ser beneficioso en algunas situaciones, también puede significar que los caballos no muestran signos obvios de dolor, lo que hace más difícil para sus cuidadores detectar y tratar los problemas de salud subyacentes.

14. El hipocampo, una parte del cerebro involucrado en el aprendizaje y la memoria, está particularmente bien desarrollado en caballos. Esto les permite recordar no sólo experiencias concretas, sino también conceptos y patrones generales que pueden aplicar a nuevas situaciones.

15. Finalmente, los estudios han demostrado que los caballos, como otros animales, son capaces de experimentar emociones como el miedo, la felicidad y la ira. Se cree que estas emociones están mediadas por el sistema límbico, un grupo de estructuras cerebrales interconectadas que juegan un papel clave en la regulación del estado de ánimo y el comportamiento .

I could spend hundreds of hours teaching horses to give to pressure or perform for treats but I don’t. I teach people to...
06/18/2024

I could spend hundreds of hours teaching horses to give to pressure or perform for treats but I don’t. I teach people to use their movements and body language in a way the horse naturally understands. This leaves a lot of free time for play ❤️

Our lessons at horse camp include how to touch our horses in a way that feels good to them. I am so grateful for my teac...
06/15/2024

Our lessons at horse camp include how to touch our horses in a way that feels good to them. I am so grateful for my teacher Mary Debono who has taught me the art of feel and connection on a level I had never imagined. I do my best to pass these lessons to the next generation. They are learning to create relationships built on consent and partnership. I feel like once they learn the power of this approach they will never be tempted to use force and submission. I believe these lessons can impact every aspect of their lives for the better ❤️
LaBelle Equestrian

Having a good time this week at LaBelle Equestrian ! It is so much fun to witness the love and joy of these children, an...
06/14/2024

Having a good time this week at LaBelle Equestrian ! It is so much fun to witness the love and joy of these children, and the animals clearly love it too. My message is to treat the animals in a way that makes them enjoy being with people, to communicate with them in a way they naturally understand, and to hold a safe space for them and ourselves. These kids may be young but they are getting it ❤️😊

A leg yield lesson. When we embody the movement, the horses will follow.
06/12/2024

A leg yield lesson. When we embody the movement, the horses will follow.

I think of horsemanship and riding as a form of tandem yoga with a horse. When we are attuned with each other, we move a...
06/03/2024

I think of horsemanship and riding as a form of tandem yoga with a horse. When we are attuned with each other, we move as one. From the horses directly I have learned what they naturally understand through their felt sense. It isn’t about pressure, it’s about fluid connection.

I’m offering a last minute yoga for equestrians class on Saturday 2-5 pm at LaBelle Equestrian in Mt. Ulla, NC. Contact me here or at [email protected] for information.

I don’t compete much these days, but the kids want to show and it is a great experience for them so sometimes we go. It ...
06/03/2024

I don’t compete much these days, but the kids want to show and it is a great experience for them so sometimes we go. It is frustrating though. To do the hunters Zella has to wear a bit, which she never does at home. We also have to use a noseband, which I prefer to do without when riding with a bit so the jaw is able to move freely. It seems odd that we can’t ride in a bitless bridle or without a noseband, yet tying the nose down with a standing martingale is perfectly acceptable. It is also frustrating that we can’t show with hoof boots (not that Zella needs them but I do use them for other horses), while nailing a piece of metal to the foot is perfectly acceptable.

I was teaching at another farm recently and saw a horse being ridden with constant force on the bit for long periods of trot and canter with no walk or stretching, his tongue was hanging out of his mouth most of the time. It was hard to watch, but the trainer working with his rider seemed to think all was fine.

While I chose to walk away from traditional horsemanship years ago, it would be nice to take my students to shows that support the type of horsemanship we practice. Where are the ribbons for happy horses???

I’m not interested in making a horse do stuff, I would much rather figure out how to get them to say yes when I ask. Ben...
05/30/2024

I’m not interested in making a horse do stuff, I would much rather figure out how to get them to say yes when I ask.

Benny has been with me for 3 months. He is a big guy, and on the first day it was a challenge to lead him as he was accustomed to pulling. There is no meanness in this sweet soul, yet that didn’t mean he couldn’t over power me if he wanted to be somewhere else.

We spent the first week in the round pen, no lead line, working on connection and communication with the option of pulling unavailable. It didn’t take long before he figured out that he liked our sessions and he began to stay focused and soft even with a halter and rope. Then I worked on teaching him to stay supple and aligned under saddle. He learns quickly! Lately he has been making lots of friends and has become a crowd favorite for lessons ❤️🐴❤️

The more I integrate intentional touch into my work with horses, the more I wonder about all those years I rode without ...
05/25/2024

The more I integrate intentional touch into my work with horses, the more I wonder about all those years I rode without doing it. I use touch to feel what’s going on in my horse’s body, to release areas of tension and bracing, to encourage movement through all the parts, and to develop connected movement, which is integral to every part of groundwork and riding.

I had a dream last night that a parent took her child out of my lesson program because I was making her massage her own horse. Dreams are weird, not sure about the message of that one, but it did get me thinking. When I was a kid we didn’t even think about how we could prepare the horse for riding through gentle touch and movement, we just got on and went for it.

All of my young students start their lesson by grooming their horses without tying them up. During this time I encourage them to put their hands on their horses to ground and relax, adding other forms of touch besides just brushing. They learn to lift their horse’s legs in a way that releases tension in the shoulders and hindquarters. I explain that this is part of their groundwork and should be pleasurable for the horse. If the horse doesn’t want to be with them it isn’t a great idea to carry on with the riding lesson.

I have never actually had a parent complain that their child was learning these things and not just riding, that was just a dream, but if I ever did it would not change my process. I am so glad that these kids are learning a way of connecting with horses that it took me many years to figure out.

I love these pics from Golden Hour Portraits from our party at LaBelle Equestrian with Trinity Living Center, Salisbury ...
05/16/2024

I love these pics from Golden Hour Portraits from our party at LaBelle Equestrian with Trinity Living Center, Salisbury Academy first graders, and middle school students from North Hills Christian School. It was truly an occasion for all ages! Thank you to the volunteers who helped make this a fabulous day for everyone. It is an honor to share my love for these animals with others, and to witness how everyone benefits from the experience ❤❤❤

Sometimes I meet people who have an aversion to using a whip. It’s as though they assume it’s going to be used in a nefa...
05/04/2024

Sometimes I meet people who have an aversion to using a whip. It’s as though they assume it’s going to be used in a nefarious way. I prefer to call it a wand, which has a different connotation, one of powerful energy rather than punishment and pain.

The wand allows us to communicate more effectively, to extend our reach for more precision, to maintain boundaries and safe distance, to get our horses’ attention, and to transfer the energy of our request without resorting to more force.

I never want a horse to feel afraid of the wand, but rather use it as the power tool that it is as we refine communication with our horses.

I usually only post horse related content here, but I’ve gotta give a shout out to Earth Day Jam which is happening this...
04/18/2024

I usually only post horse related content here, but I’ve gotta give a shout out to Earth Day Jam which is happening this Saturday. As a co-founder of this event, it has been amazing to see it evolve and grow over the years. From the beginning, this festival has brought our community together in the most beautiful way. Many of us share a vision, and when we work together we are so much more powerful than when we are acting alone. The horses teach us this everyday. So grateful for our Earth Day Jam herd!! If you’re near Salisbury I hope you’ll come out on Saturday, looks like the weather is going to be perfect for this one!! 🌎🎶🎉💖

Took some students to a show at Thoroughbred Training Center (TTC)on Saturday and invited my youngest student, age 4, to...
04/17/2024

Took some students to a show at Thoroughbred Training Center (TTC)on Saturday and invited my youngest student, age 4, to come along and do the walk only classes. One handler was allowed so I walked in front but she did all the riding on her own.
This precious angel of a pony was once considered difficult to the point of dangerous. She was afraid of people, couldn’t be caught, and at one point was even abandoned. I am so grateful I was asked to take her, and that now she has a wonderful home at LaBelle Equestrian . We all love her so much, and one of her biggest fans is also one of her smallest 🦄💖

Sometimes I get asked for Crow updates, here he is this morning, seems to be living his best life with his buddy Merlin ...
04/15/2024

Sometimes I get asked for Crow updates, here he is this morning, seems to be living his best life with his buddy Merlin 😂 They are fortunate to have a lovely home on the property of a dear friend and neighbor who no longer has horses but loves to see them grazing outside her window. This morning my friend messaged that the horses were in the yard! Oops.
Yesterday I took them to for therapeutic horsemanship sessions, and Crow was amazing. People are so drawn to him, and he has learned to feel safe with people and connect with them in the most beautiful way ❤️ The wonderful thing about this work is that it does not involve any riding, perfect for Crow! I haven’t tried to ride him in months. Maybe I will again someday, but for now I simply appreciate his talents, his heart, and the fact that he chooses to stay with me when given the choice to run away. Like when I leave a stall door open in the morning when we leave and turn the horses out in the pasture in the evening without checking the barn doors 🤦‍♀️
When I pulled up this morning there they were in the front yard, they saw my car and walked quietly to the barn for breakfast. There was a time when Crow would’ve run for the hills, but he chooses to stay, and that is pretty huge.

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