11/14/2025
For the nurturers, the caregivers, the healers, the space holders…
Caring for others requires a lot of rather unglamorous effort. Horse people understand what it’s like to spend part of every day attending to another being.
At the moment I have 5 horses, all given to me. I never meant to have that many, but here we are. What is most important for them is that I hold a space where their needs are met. I make sure they have enough food and fresh water, their hooves are rasped frequently, they get movement and exercise, their wounds and discomforts are attended to, they have companions and a pasture to roam. They also help me in my career, which I hope is enjoyable to them, as they engage with students and clients in our various programs.
Many of the women I work with also hold nurturing spaces for others, a role that doesn’t take a day off. Sometimes the space holder needs someone to hold space for them.
If you could use a truly nurturing experience, and are interested in learning more about mindful horsemanship and how it intersects with equine assisted learning and therapy, consider joining me and Dr. Alita Buzel, author of Beyond Words: The Healing Power of Horses, at this February. If you book NOW you can get a private room at the rate of a shared room! This exquisite getaway will nourish your mind, body, and spirit, and what better way to tend to yourself so that you may hold a space for others ❤️