11/25/2025
Doesn’t look like much, but let me tell you a story.
Meet Lucy. Lucy would like to interact with people she meets - but she’s fearful and unsure. Very conflicted. Are these friends, foes or?
She expresses her trepidation by barking, growling and threatening strangers that come into her home, then eventually getting close to them but… blowing up again any time they move.
Sometimes, she doesn’t even trust her owners. No fault of theirs. She came to them this way when they adopted her.
Who knows what breed she is or what her background looks like.
Most people will assume abuse.
Probably not. More likely just genetic predisposition and a lack of socialization, exaggerated by her movements being restricted.
Bluff - precursor to fight, instead of flight because… no choice.
The living room and the leash only provide so much freedom to run.
So what do we do to help her?
Well, first thing is we set a 15’ boundary for her, and yes, we used a prong collar to make that boundary very clear and meaningful. Also, incredibly simple to implement and for Lucy to understand.
Then we started walking together as a pack. Yes - that’s right I said the P word - pack. That thing a lot of folks say is debunked because they think the concept of “pack leader” makes people abuse their dogs.
But we’re using the pack concept differently here.
Dad is making ME part of the pack by traveling together.
As usual, I don’t have any good “before” video, because I’m always focused on the client, not my own need for marketing materials.
Take my word for it - Lucy was very unhappy with me when I came into he house and reactive toward me when we met for this walk.
After a little while though, I was just there. Part of the pack, traveling together as a pack of dogs would do…
Lucy even gave me a sniff a couple of times toward the end.
She still didn’t want even a glance of eye contact from me, but she did approach 4-5 times when I stood perfectly still and let her be curious.
Good news is - she will play with her owners at times, and we’re building on that concept, along with building a solid walk without reactivity.
Lucy’s owners are on a long road toward getting her socialized, so they can have guests without crating her.
Kudos to them for investing in Lucy’s future.
If you’re going to “rescue” a dog, you need to be committed to helping them cope with whatever demons landed them in rescue to begin with.
Sometimes, there are none, and sometimes there are a lot.
Maybe someday I’ll get to play with Lucy myself.
I hope so.