08/13/2024
The amount of people I've had allow their dog to run up to mine through a fence and on a leash lately is unreasonable. Unless you ASK permission to allow your dog to approach another dog, you DO NOT do it (side note: I never recommend it given barrier/territorial aggression and the flight or fight response on a leash causes stress to your dog). This is one of the main drivers for reactivity because it builds frustration (or a bad incident happens) which can cause them to become reactive/defensive. I don't care if your dog is friendly, mine is too but this is no better than a stranger running up on you with zero context of their intentions, it could go either way & of it goes bad, then what?
Don't be scared to be an advocate for your dog, the only people you're going to p**s off are those who don't know or respect boundaries & while it might cause a bit of discomfort in the moment, it'll be worth it.