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Truth !Kara Stark McGrew
07/25/2024

Truth !
Kara Stark McGrew

A small stab in the heart is what you feel when you put up the day's riding list and you see riders sinking heavily in their shoulders when reading which horse they are assigned for the lesson. A small stab in the heart for that horse that for an hour will carry around a rider who has already decided that he does not like his horse. A small stab in the heart for the horse that did not choose the rider himself but still does his best, lesson after lesson.

Riding is a privilege and something you have chosen to do. If you chose to ride at a riding school, your instructor assumes that you actually want to learn how to ride. The instructor's highest wish is that you get good at it.

Often there is a plan and a thought as to why you are assigned to that exact horse. Before you mount up next time, ask yourself "what can this horse teach me today?" All horses have something to give, a feeling or a new tool in the box.

The art is actually in being able to get a lazy horse to move forward, to get an uncertain horse to gain confidence, a naughty horse to focus or a tense horse to be released. It takes work. If you think a horse is boring, it's more likely that you don't ride the horse as well as you think! It's not easy to be confronted with your own shortcomings, but it is in that very situation that you get the chance to truly grow as a rider.

The excuse that "it's not my kind of horse" is actually a really bad excuse. A good rider can ride any kind of horse. A good rider has trained many hours on different types of horses to become a good rider. A good rider can find and manage the gold nuggets in every horse.

If we absolutely want to ride, it is our duty to strive to do it as best as possible, even if it's only for fun. We owe it to every horse that carries us upon it's back.

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05/02/2024

Love hearing this statement today
β€˜You don’t learn by speaking with people who share your beliefs β€˜

Kara Stark McGrew
05/02/2024

Kara Stark McGrew

Heidi Chote explains what it means for a horse to be "in front of the leg."

Kara Stark McGrew
03/15/2024

Kara Stark McGrew

You’ll relax, feel your horse, know what aids you need and clearly communicate for a prompt, willing response.

02/27/2024

Today I want to talk about the problem with being really good at taking care of horses:

You will have to decide when their life ends.

Not always - once in a blue moon a horse will do you the favor of tipping over quietly and instantly. I've seen it happen. It happened to our Perry last year, who was about 30 years old, and laid down and left the world in excellent weight with a shiny coat, sounder than the day he arrived, and no apparent issue that would have prompted a call to the vet.

But most of the time, when you're good enough at taking care of horses that your horses live to be 25+, you will have to make the call. Not only is this a big responsibility, but it's so hard for some people that animal control is kept busy every day with situations like horse owners who cannot accept reality and call the vet for a horse who can no longer get up on his own, or hasn't even tried for days. While you probably would make a better choice if you're here on my page - my content does tend to attract horsepeople who think mostly with their heads - I think we can all understand the emotions that make someone think, well, let's just call the fire department for help getting him up. Look, he's eating, he wants to live!

(Wanting to live does not = not wanting to die by starvation. They are two different things, even for human beings.)

Since we're mostly a senior horse sanctuary at this point, I'm going to share the guidelines we use here and maybe they will help someone else. There are other rescues with different standards, and we align with that more when it goes in the direction of "a day too soon" than months too late. This is just what we think, not necessarily the one true answer, and it's all debatable obviously because it tends to be a hot button issue -- but we need to normalize the discussion because that helps people make better and more humane choices for their animals.

Lameness: A horse can live quite happily, unridden, with a bit of chronic lameness even on a straight line - if that level of lameness is not inhibiting him from normal behavior. What's normal behavior? When the herd runs, he runs - he isn't gimping along far behind the others at a creaky trot. He still has a buck & fart in him on a cold morning. He can get down for a good roll and get up again without falling or needing assistance. He doesn't look worse than stiff like an old person would be at the walk - he isn't head-bobbing lame. He doesn't have a leg so arthritic that it looks like the letter C. He gets some pain management drugs if needed and he gets a quality joint supplement. Ideally he lives on turnout or if that's absolutely not available, someone gets him out of the stall every day for a long walk that will help him not to feel so stiff.

I saw a video from another "rescue" of a horse that was three legged lame trying to get back to the barn (on a downhill, ffs) at the most painful walk I have ever seen, and they thought it was great that he was such a "fighter." Ugh, no, he's only "fighting" because he has no way to put himself down.

Colic: Look, call it early. Either you have the money to go to the hospital, or you need to put them down if there's no improvement in a few hours. If they're really painful, that window of time is shorter. Horses have varying pain tolerances and there is absolutely the drama llama that will look like they are going to die for sure when the vet arrives and after an oiling and a walk, are perfectly fine and screaming for food six hours later. (Don't feed them. As a vet I know says, nothing ever died from not eating for 24 hours, but a lot of horses die from colic.)

Either way, you cannot screw around - get the vet out, make a decision. I do not think anybody is a bad person for not racing horses to the hospital for thousands of dollars they simply may not have any access to. We don't do it. If there's an infinite amount of money somewhere, we surely have not identified its location and we understand that many horse owners are in the same boat. A swift veterinary euthanasia is never a morally wrong choice, full stop - our duty to our horses is to prevent suffering, not make sure they live to see the next election. They don't care.

Accidents: These are hard. Your vet is going to explain to you all of the rehab options available to you -- that's their job. If a horse is 30 years old and steps in a gopher hole, do you really think a year of stall rest is how he wants to spend the last part of his life? Would you? We always have to think about the fact that a horse is designed to run with friends. If the odds are they'll never have that ability back - call it. It's going to be the right thing for both the horse and your financial situation. It absolutely pains me to see someone, often someone who doesn't have much of an income to begin with, bankrupting themselves trying to keep an animal alive. I know they are your best friend. I know death sucks. But you're not giving them a quality of life they even want, and you're annihilating your own life. It is absolutely fine to make the call.

Neurological conditions: This is a hot button for me. I cannot comprehend people keeping a horse alive who walks sideways, falls down, loses control of his hind end, etc. Please stop. A horse isn't you - he can't lie in bed comfortably, scrolling Instagram reels and watching reality television when he's unable to move around safely due to an injury or illness. It's incredibly scary for a horse to be out of balance and at risk of falling. He is a prey animal in nature - one of his intrinsic needs is being able to run away from a threat. If the neurological issues are from a disease like EPM, you can certainly try treatment but you should see improvement within a month or so if it's going to happen. If the neurological issues are from an injury and not getting any better - please, please do the right thing and put them down before they get stuck in a fence with a broken leg or neck from falling the wrong way. You do not want that to be your last memory of them.

Foals with serious problems: I could write pages on this but I already addressed some of it in my recent post about things you should know about if you're going to breed. A foal that will be permanently crippled has a very poor chance of any quality of life or of being fed and cared for and not coming to a bad end. If the vet can correct the issue with surgery, and you can afford the surgery, and it has a good chance of success, by all means go for it. But sometimes all you're doing is creating a $10,000 pasture pet that someone will have to care for forever, and the number of people who want to take care of any pasture pet (even their OWN that they used to show and compete with!) is a tiny percentage of the horse owning population and getting smaller by the day. No one enjoys putting down a foal but it's always a possible outcome when you breed your mare.

While I'm on this topic, please stop keeping mares alive long enough to give birth if something has gone horribly wrong for them. If they can't walk, put them down. I saw some moron once that had a pregnant DSLD mare in a sling after her tendons ruptured because they just had to get that baby. This is animal cruelty.

General quality of life: Sometimes there is not one specific bad thing, but a collection of things. Your elderly horse is arthritic and needs a lot to keep them comfortable day to day. They've also got Cushing's and need daily meds. Now they have a chronic eye issue. They won't take meds in food. Every day, you have a struggle trying to syringe meds into their mouth and treat their eye, while they bang you against the fence. You do all this just for them to continually rub the eye, making it worse, no matter what kind of hooded contraption you put on their head. The vet is at your house constantly, trying to patch this horse back together. You can't afford it and, worse yet, the horse isn't getting any better. At a certain point, some of them just sort of melt down - it's very common with the Cushing's horses, because that disease tends to make them prone to other infections. If there is a lot wrong, every day is a struggle to treat the issues, and there's no improvement, it may be time to make the call.

They just quit: Sometimes, without a clear diagnosis even after you spend the money for bloodwork and have carefully examined the mouth and the vitals, horses just quit. They go off food. They start staring into the middle distance. They don't interact with other horses anymore. They are borderline cranky or just dull to everything. I've seen them where they'll only eat cookies, and are even unenthusiastic about that. The life has left their eyes. We all want a diagnosis, but sometimes you are not going to get one, and you will have to call it. It's just part of being a senior horse owner. You can certainly necropsy, if you can afford it, and that may give you a clear answer, but when we see horses in this state who are not in this state due to long term starvation and neglect - if they are normal weight and well cared for but acting like this? Our experience is they are not coming back, and it is time.

What things have you seen and experienced that let you know it was time to make the call? Pictured is Orca, who is 38 and has Cushing's and looks old, but runs toward her breakfast mush like this every morning. She is making it clear she isn't done yet, and the day that changes, we'll help her out of this world into the next.

Kara Stark McGrew
12/05/2023

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10/07/2023

Numbers show that more and more horses of this breed are flocking to dressage.

09/08/2023
09/02/2023

The Elmira Fall Finale Horse Show is now an approved AQHA Speciality Event Horse Show for Classical Dressage and Western Dressage. October 6-8th. Horseheads, New York

Come pickup some performance points on your AQHA registered horses!

P.S. AQHA Western Dressage Horses can get triple points for AQHA/WDAA/USEF registered horses!

PRIZE LIST:
http://rgbriding.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Elmira-Arabian-FALL-2023-FINAL-2-1.pdf

Not surprising at all. Kara Stark McGrew
08/31/2023

Not surprising at all.

Kara Stark McGrew

Equine Science Update: Horses know when you are happy or sad.

In the latest study presented by Equine Science Update, researchers used more subtle emotions than the typical anger and joy used in many studies to determine equine recognition of emotions.

The research shows that horses can distinguish between human expressions of happiness and sadness conveyed through facial movements or vocal tones. See the summary of the study: http://www.equinechronicle.com/equine-science-update-horses-know-when-you-are-happy-or-sad/

Interesting and not at all surprising !!!
08/31/2023

Interesting and not at all surprising !!!

Equine Science Update: Horses know when you are happy or sad.

In the latest study presented by Equine Science Update, researchers used more subtle emotions than the typical anger and joy used in many studies to determine equine recognition of emotions.

The research shows that horses can distinguish between human expressions of happiness and sadness conveyed through facial movements or vocal tones. See the summary of the study: http://www.equinechronicle.com/equine-science-update-horses-know-when-you-are-happy-or-sad/

This was a great event to host !!Thank you Laura Quirke for making it happen !!!Thanks to everyone who made it such a su...
08/18/2023

This was a great event to host !!
Thank you Laura Quirke for making it happen !!!
Thanks to everyone who made it such a success. πŸ₯°

08/18/2023

Most people know the basic whorls we find on a horses forehead.
🐴 A center whorl doesn't tell us much except that we don't see any extremes of temperament based on the whorl. That could mean a quiet, steady easy going horse, but it depends on what the rest of the head looks like.
🐴 A high whorl shows an extrovert. A horse who very invested in the external world, everything going on around them. They want to go, to be moving all the time. Emotional and sensitive they will be as brave as they can be and eager to please with a sensitive supportive rider or a nervous wreck with a harsh rider who doesn't give the support they need.
🐴 A low whorl shows an introvert, a horse who is content within themselves. They are busy thinking and processing the information around them. They can be overwhelmed by too much excitement around them. Instead of trying to make an introvert do anything, they need to be given a reason to listen. When there is feathering coming up from the whorl that makes them left brain, calm, easy going, confident, friendly.
What about the less common whorls though?
🐴 Who has seen a horse with three whorls? Triple whorls generally mean a horse who is a left brain extrovert. The born broke type, calm, curious, friendly, quick learners. They invariably come with quirks, some of them pretty interesting, but the owners that I've talked to have loved them.
🐴 What about a horse who has one whorl in the center of the forehead and another set up high and off to the side? The center whorl will give you a basic normal horse, most of the time. When the other whorl is placed high and to our right it will cause occasional bursts of extreme right brain extrovert behavior. A right brain extrovert is emotional, sensitive, and reactive. They want desperately to please and will try their hearts out for you if you offer them the support they need. If handled roughly they can be a nervous wreck and scared of everything. When they trust someone they will be as brave as they are capable and offer you all the love their big hearts can hold.
🐴 Sometimes horses will have two whorls. One clearly visible and maybe another? Something going on off to the side a bit higher or lower. There will be some feathering between the two. Mostly it’s just hard to tell what is going on.
That confusion causing combination of whorls is the hallmark of a diagonal double whorl. Two whorls set at an angle connected by feathering is not only confusing to look at but also causes a horse that is difficult to figure out.
🐴 A diagonal double whorl shows a horse who is a right brain introvert. It is the only high whorl that shows an introverted temperament. Horses with this whorl are said to sometimes blow up completely out of the blue. Actually they are quiet inwardly drawn horses who don't show outward sign of being upset. We miss the subtle signs they give us then think it came out of nowhere when they get upset.
🐴 Horse whorls are fascinating to look at. There are so many different whorl types, from the common to the one of a kind. They all have their own meanings.
🐴 For more information on horse whorls find THE guide to horse whorls, Understanding Horse Whorls by Noche Miller on Amazon

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08/14/2023

Have to share
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08/12/2023
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05/11/2023

America’s dressage sensation gives advice on developing the perfect partnership.

05/10/2023

Janet Foy explains the function of dressage movements in this excerpt from her book, Dressage Q&A with Janet Foy.

04/17/2023

Jose Mendez explains with special focus on baroque breeds.

04/07/2023

Contact is the third training scale and is not something that happens solely between the rider’s hands and the bit.

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