08/05/2024
Is all of your quality time with your dog like eating prawns? What a great perspective on how we may be frustrating our dogs by challenging them too much!
Prawns made me think about frustration in dogs today. Here's why it's important for you to think about.
For context, I went out with some friends for a meal tonight focused around prawns. I had never eaten prawns 'properly' before, and so it was a new experience. For those of you who are uninitiated, to eat a prawns you have to remove it's head, pull off the front legs, then pull off the rest of the shell to get to the edible bit inside (please accept my apologies if I got anything wrong, prawn purists).
This was fine, and the food was good, but it could be thinking about the amount of effort it took to actually obtain a single morsel of food. If I had to work this hard for every meal to get just a little bit to eat, I'd get annoyed by day two.
So, what's this got to do with dogs?
Three points.
Firstly, consider what enrichment should be - enriching. Very often I'll hear caregivers deliver all their dogs meals via training and/or enrichment toys. In moderation this is fine, but imagine having to work for every single bit of food to eat, for every single meal? That can actually build frustration.
Secondly, enrichment should be challenging, but not difficult. If your dog is having to work really hard to access it, I'd argue it's a training challenge, not an enrichment tool. Reading a book, watching a movie or playing a game needs to be more accessible than tricky if we actually want it to be beneficial. It's the same for our dogs.
Thirdly, think of how much our dogs have to do to access rewards in their day to day life. How much do you push your dog before you give them food, or toys, or sniffs, or fuss? If you're always pushing them to the next level, frustration can build. Focus is built by consistency, not by raising the stakes. Feed well, play often!
Not everything needs to be a challenge, and not everything needs something in order to access it. Not every meal has to be prawns.