Here’s an example of what I call a tiny Training Session. It’s morning, I’m making coffee and feeding the dogs breakfast. While I wait for water to boil or coffee to drip, I have a few free seconds, so I do a few reps of whatever behaviors we’re working on. (It helps to keep some kibbles stashed in your pocket, or little jars of treats stashed strategically around the house.) This video is actually much longer than most of my Tiny Training Sessions last!
I also do this on walks, throwing in a few reps of tricks, dog parkour, or manners behaviors every so often, especially when one of my dogs is sniffing something and another isn’t.
You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can make progress on learning behaviors when you practice for 15-30 seconds at a time.
Need inspiration for behaviors to practice? Take a class! Winter is a great time to sign up for a fun indoor activity with your dog, and it’ll give you lots of fun behaviors to work on for the rest of the week. Or grab a book like 101 Dog Tricks or Dog University from the library, or watch Kikopup on YouTube. There are lots of great ways to learn new behaviors to teach your dog!
Trigger is extremely sensitive about paw handling and nail trims after some bad forced pedicures as a young dog. We’ve done lots of Cooperative Care work around all kinds of medical procedures, tooth brushing, and paw handling. He is still nervous about nail trimming, but I am so, so proud of how far he’s come! Today I actually clipped off three teeny slivers of nail, which is absolutely amazing progress for this guy!
Trigger opts in by putting his chin down on my leg and by offering me his paw. I am gently holding his paw, but not restraining it or squeezing it.
The part that really warms my heart is that after we finished, he fell asleep on my lap. He’s snoring there as I write this. This is the kind of trusting relationship I want with my dogs. 🥰
Feeling so grateful for these goofy beasts who bring light and joy and comfort to my life. (Look at Rye’s tiny front teeth! 🥰)
How do you handle mistakes during training? This is a great question to ask yourself *before* mistakes happen. It’s also a great question to ask the dog professionals in your life (trainers, walkers, sitters, day care staff, etc); it will tell you a lot about their methodology and how they’ll react in stressful, frustrating, or unexpected situations.
Here’s a video of a little Rally-O foundation skills training session I did with Tiny Toni. On the second rep, she gets up from her sit-stay and turns to meet me. We have a little “Oops, how silly!” moment, then reset and try it again.
What’s important to me here is Tiny’s and my relationship with each other. I very much want her to continue choosing to play these weird (from the dog’s perspective) training games with me. I value her as a beloved companion and as a training partner.
There’s a dog trainer saying: “It’s never the dog’s fault.” If Tiny didn’t stay sitting, it is my job to figure out if I didn’t communicate clearly enough what I was asking for, or if she didn’t have a solid enough understanding of the behavior, or if she’s getting tired or distracted, and then figure out how to meet that need. I’m the one who cares about her ability to sit while I walk around her, so it’s my job to show her that doing that is worth her while, and to do so in a way that builds up our relationship, not breaks it down.
Training should be fun for both creatures involved. If it’s not, think about how you could change that. We all learn better and faster when we’re having a good time doing it. (This includes you! Set yourself up for success as well.)
Keep on having fun with your dogs!
It’s nail trim day here! We use Cooperative Care and focus on building calm, positive feelings around the process. It means there might not be much nail trimming happening yet, but since dogs will need their nails (especially the dew claws) trimmed regularly for their whole lives, it’s worthwhile to put in the time, effort, and string cheese to make the process relaxing for all of us.
After our nail trimming session, Tiny Toni took a nap on my lap, which tells me my efforts to help her feel relaxed and comfortable are working. :)
If you and your dog need help making nail trims or other grooming and husbandry procedures (injections, blood draws, eye drops, ear cleaning) into a cooperative process, I highly recommend Dr. Deb Jones’ book “Cooperative Care.” The Animal Alliances trainers are also happy to help you work on this through private training sessions if you’d like 1 on 1 coaching. We also occasionally offer a group Cooperative Care class - email us to request this!