04/28/2024
Scruffy to Fluffy is closed. We are no longer residing at the Ocean Park address.
I have endured relentless bullying at the hands of adults who should know better. Often times, bullies have more than one victim, though it may sometimes feel like you are alone at times. Adult bullies will utilize their employees, coworkers, friends, and strangers in their attacks.
I would like to take a moment to talk about what Adult Bullying looks like, and how you can help defuse them.
Adult bullying is often more subtle, and therefore more insidious. It can be cushioned in niceties that make it harder to address and have it be acknowledged. There is often a passive aggressive, sophisticated and covert edge to adult bullying. But it definitely happens.
It happens in the workplace, in schools, when there is a power dynamic. It happens on social media, and here on Facebook.
With bullying- there is often an individual at the helm and then “secondary bullying” which is when bystanders either see what’s happening and participate or are complicit by not saying anything.