05/20/2023
They don’t get it. And you know what? Maybe they never will.
When you have a highly sensitive or traumatized horse, you hear so much about how she needs to be pushed, exposed, forced, and never coddled.
You hear about how you’re being too meek, too soft, not enough of a leader to her.
But… you’ve seen the terror in her eyes. You know she needs compassion and thoughtful, methodical training in order to heal while she tries to survive the human world.
Not more pressure, more constriction, more force, more projection.
It’s not that you’re too soft. It’s that you have soul-deep empathy for your equine partner you cannot ignore, no matter how intense outside pressure becomes.
People misinterpret your kind heart for weakness.
In reality, the strongest thing you can possibly do is hold true to your values, not conform to the harsh norms around you, and therefore face potential rejection from community.
The pain of both you and your horse being so fundamentally misunderstood by those around you can be indescribable.
But… over time, you will be able to see yourself as you are, regardless of what the people around you say. You will come to know yourself so deeply that when someone tells you you’re being weak, it feels laughable.
When people say your horse is being stubborn, sassy, disrespectful, etc… you can know, without a shadow of a doubt, that she’s just a pure animal soul trying to make it through in the only way she knows how.
When you stand so firmly in your own values, you will begin to draw in people who understand you. Who understand your sensitive horse. Who value compassion in the same way you do.
You are strong.
We commend you. We respect you. We see you.
Keep going. The world needs so much more of you ♥️
— by the MM team 💫