04/20/2022
*long, descriptive, post ahead*
We have a new addition! Everyone meet Gypsy! She brings a very friendly, playful energy to every person and dog she meets. She has been a great experience for me as a trainer. She came from a friend's farm, who uses border collies for working their cattle. However, she was extremely fearful, unlike her parents and siblings. She needed help.
Now, genetics are HUGE in dogs. And I knew that it was probable that she would never be confident and comfortable around people.
However, after a few months of a LOT of very careful work, she is now a VERY friendly and happy little dog.
I have worked a lot of client dogs with these issues, but I've never had a personal dog like this. All of my personal dogs have been the exact opposite. So it has been a great learning experience for me, and to now have first-hand experience from the "other side", of actually raising and living with a fearful dog.
It has been such a rewarding experience, seeing her blossom into the dog she is now.
Now, this is also not how it works for MOST fearful dogs. And I knew to keep a realistic mindset on what my expectations were.
As professional trainers, our greatest assets are our own dogs. Our dogs help us in so many ways, from demonstrating our skills, to helping client dogs realize what a stable, calm dog looks like. They help fearful dogs gain confidence, they help reactive dogs see other dogs around them NOT mirror their behavior, they help dogs practice their obedience cues by being real-life distractions during training.
Each dog has their own personality. And while Nyx, my malinois, is very friendly, does all the flashy tricks and obedience, and does very well ignoring other dogs, she also has traits that don't work well for situations I have. She is very pushy, and she wants to "police" any behavior that she deems unacceptable. While she will ignore a dog that is under my control, she does not do well with ignoring frantic behavior from other dogs NOT handled by me. And she does not play well with other dogs that are also pushy. This leads to her not being a great help during evaluations of potential clients, and not able to play with some client dogs. Which is fine! Thats her personality, not a flaw.
Now, where does this come into play on Gypsy's post? Gypsy is the exact opposite, and is a great addition to be able to use in the situations that Nyx isn't able to! Keep an eye out for her in pictures, and soon as my helper in lessons!