The name Loss Of Loved Animals is an acronym for Lola and another way I chose to honor her. Please feel free to use this page to memorialize your own beloved pet!! Lola graduated to a higher existence on 7.19.2011 at the young age of 5 1/2 after a short, but courageous, battle with a brain tumor. I watched her young body and mind degenerate. I was shocked and devastated by her death, even though I
thought I had prepared myself for it. Three months prior, on 4.12.2011, I lost my sister's beloved Rocco to a cancerous tumor on his spleen that ruptured. Something we were completely unaware of. He was only 6 1/2 and died within hours of showing any signs of distress, while a team of emergency veterinarians tried to save him. My sister had entrusted me with his care, as she is a corporate flight attendant, and it happened on my watch. He was my baby, too. I grieved hard and heavily for both Rocco and Lola. I have never felt such loss. I felt alone in my grief. One, because grief is lonely, and two, I don't believe there is adequate support for those grieving the loss of their pets. Most of society believes that somehow pet loss grief is less than that of losing a human loved one. This is simply not so, and for some of us, the loss of a pet can be felt much deeper than that of our human counterparts. For some of us, it is only in our beloved pet's presence, can we truly be ourselves and experience unconditional love. In the the throes of grief and my search to somehow pacify it, I found Dr. Wallace Sife and his Pet Bereavement website, The Association of Pet Loss and Bereavement. He is the pioneer on Pet Bereavement and wrote one of the first books on the subject, "The Loss of a Pet". I received my Pet Loss Counselor Certificate of Training directly through him in hopes of helping others with the struggle and grief of losing their beloved companion animal and as a way to honor Lola with this living memorial to her. She deserved no less. Here's to you, Lola and Rocco!! I love you both and think about you every day.