09/22/2025
The other day we asked what you thought might help Othello handle stress better (if you missed his story, just scroll back)…
And your answers were awesome. 🙌
You said things like predictability, a sense of control, and even agency.
All spot on. Let’s talk about it.
The truth is, Othello is going to feel stress. He’s in a brand-new place, surrounded by dogs he doesn’t know, and his past experiences with people, leashes, and collars haven’t been great. Stress is part of his reality right now.
But here’s the good news: we can make it a lot more manageable for him.
👉Control first.
If Othello feels like he has some control, scary things become less scary.
Think of it like this: if you could tell a spider to back off—and it actually listened—you probably wouldn’t mind spiders as much, right? 😉
How Othello gets control:
- On walks, he picks the path whenever possible and sets the pace - we follow his lead.
- There is absolutely no “obedience.”
- He’s learned safe ways to ask for space, and his handler always listens.
- No pulling on the leash or using it to guide him on walks.
👉 Then comes predictability.
Knowing what’s about to happen helps him relax. Same handler, same walk routine, and stressful things are always announced first (“Leash time!”) and then paired with something good, like going outside.
But here’s the catch: predictability can actually backfire. If something really awful is predictable, it just makes anxiety worse. That’s why control has to come first. Once Othello feels like he can handle things, predictability turns into a tool that helps, not hurts.
👉And agency?
That’s just giving him choices. Othello can choose to move away if he needs to. But agency only matters if it leads to real control.
For example, if he walked away and his handler followed—he’d have choice, but no control. If he walks away and actually gets the space he wants—that’s both choice and control. Add predictability (knowing his handler won’t push him past his limits), and now he’s learning the world isn’t so overwhelming after all.
👉 Control.
👉 Predictability.
👉 Agency.
Those three things together are helping Othello feel safer, braver, and a little more confident every day. 💙
(Photo from our walk the other day. It's not the best because it's a screenshot from a video - he's not quite ready to pose for the camera just yet - but we still love it because he looks so much lighter than he did before).