02/22/2023
PET GRIEF, BY MY OWN ADMISSION
The loss of a beloved pet is often overlooked by the human world; people who have never been touched by the incredible graces of a magnificent creature; a being who's primary duty in life is to love with the utmost genuinity; to absorb the love it receives, and give it back to it's owner, ten-fold.
The emptiness that proceeds a loss can be immense; the darkness that one lives in seems endless, an abyss so large it consumes the soul, every second of every day. Sometimes that very darkness creates an emotional cyclone; a storm of grief that never seems to end; the anger, the shock, the sadness, slamming into us like a rolling freight train. And walking on that road, the road of pet grief, can be as treacherous as climbing a snow covered mountain; taking two steps forward, sliding ten steps back. And the visions, the visions of our dearly departed everywhere, always on our minds, always in our hearts.
Immense grief is likely to appear at any time, at any place, it can be a short burst, or an immense onslaught of emotions. It sucks the wind from the body, as oxygen seems as scarce as on top of the tallest mountain. It is that love that we had for our magnificent gifts that fuels the grief, the more love we have, the more grief we live with. Some suffer so horribly, the will to live is compromised, and to those that fall into that ocean, my advice to you is to find that angel, that person who's primary duty is to pull you up, to help you sail those rough, dark seas of grief, and help you find those calm, peaceful waters that are part of a sun-filled life. And the best medicine for a broken heart is to honor your beloved pet by putting smiles on the faces of others, those same smiles your magnificent pet put on yours, and their legacy lives on!
By Ken Suter, Founder of Samaritan For Pets, and Dad of a magnificent dog named Sam.
Written for all who suffer a loss of a pet, and special thanks to that wonderful angel Sam led me to, pet grief specialist Brenda Brown, owner of Grief About Pets ❤