12/21/2025
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The first time I noticed the change, it wasnโt dramatic.
It was small. Almost easy to miss.
A pause before standing up.
A slower turn.
The way the walk that used to be a sprint became a careful series of steps.
I remember stopping without thinking, turning back, and waiting.
Not because I had to.
But because something in me knew this moment mattered.
There was a time when my dog ran toward me with everything he had. No hesitation. No doubt. Just pure belief that I was his place of safety. I didnโt have to call. I didnโt have to wait. He was already there, heart leading the way.
And now, the roles feel different.
Now itโs me who slows down.
Me who adjusts pace.
Me who notices how much effort it takes to keep going.
Thereโs a quiet ache in that realization. Not sadness exactly. More like reverence. Because love doesnโt disappear when bodies change. It transforms. It becomes patience. Presence. Memory.
I think about all the times he waited for me.
At the door.
By the window.
Through storms and long days and silent hours.
And I understand something I didnโt fully grasp back then.
Loyalty isnโt loud.
It isnโt dramatic.
Itโs steady.
Itโs staying, even when running isnโt possible anymore.
Thereโs a sacredness in this stage of life that doesnโt get talked about enough. The slowing down. The remembering. The way love asks us to give back what was once freely given to us without effort.
Not because we owe it.
But because we remember.
When I walk beside him now, I donโt think about how things used to be. I think about how lucky I am that weโre still here together. That I get to be the steady one now. That I get to carry the pace when his steps grow heavy.
Some loves arrive fast and burn bright.
Others stay long enough to teach you how to slow down.
And those are the ones that stay with you forever.