
01/16/2025
Would you let someone else ride your horse?
I see a lot in the horse industry people discussing other people letting someone ride their horses and there is a lot of people out there that are protective of their horses only allowing a select few ride their own horses. I can understand the mindset behind this as a lot can go wrong, but for me unless there is a safety issue with it I have no problem letting anyone ride my horses. Lots of people seem to think that a single person can ruin your horses progress or training, but the reality of the situation is if you’ve done a good job training your horse it’s going to take a lot more than a single ride to undo that training.
It can take years to undo a horses training if it’s done correctly and consistently. For example, my little red dun mustang Fillinic, I got her as a two year old and had her for a year. I started her under saddle and got all the fundamentals she needed and had a truly concrete solid foundation. I ended up selling Fillinic and she was ridden by a lot of beginners and inexperienced people over four years. I ended up buying her back after she had developed some dangerous behaviors like bolting, bucking and rearing. There was a little bit of time where Fillinic had tried to do some of these antics with me, but quickly remembered that I don’t scare so easily. The first ride even Fillinic was still showing the original training I had given her. It took a couple of weeks to get the softness back, but it was all still there and I was essentially able to pick up right where I left off in her training despite being ridden improperly for 4 years and only having a single year of solid training.
Another horse I had was Rusty a Hancock mare I had purchased from a family friend. Rusty hadn’t been touched let alone ridden in 15 years since she was 4 when we had gotten her. I put a few days groundwork on this mare before throwing a leg over and as soon as I stepped in that saddle I knew that she was started right and remembered all that training. She had a fantastic handle on her and seemed like she had been ridden routinely within the last 15 years despite not even being touched.
Both these mares have been go to horses for me to throw beginners and inexperienced riders on to ride because I knew that their training had been done right. Fillinic is now in the bridle and I give beginner lessons on her all of the time as well as let people who never ridden ride her before. She knows when I step in the saddle what I’m asking and she’ll do it without hesitation because I’ve been consistent and thorough with her training. Like I said the only reason I wouldn’t allow someone to ride my horses is due to safety issues. My mare Reba is one I let a select few ride because she’s sensitive and hot. If a rider is unbalanced on her she has a tendency to get stressed, but over the last few years I’m letting more and more people ride her so that she can be accustomed to other riders and learn to relax and go with the flow because it’s beneficial for her to have other riders and learn those things.
So if you’ve done right by your horse and been consistent and thorough with your training letting another person ride them won’t ruin them, in fact it can be very beneficial for your horse to be ridden by numerous people of all levels. The biggest mistake I’ve made with Reba is by being the only person to ride her for so long. I am a firm believer that the best thing you can do for your horses is train them well enough so that if anything happens to you, you’ll know they’ll end up in good hands. Which part of training your horses is then being able to be ridden