12/06/2024
Unconscious movements muddy the waters.
Lately, I have found myself teaching something consistently, across levels, across countries, in lessons with my clients. I have been assisting my community in finding a base line in their body that they can rely on. And their horse too.
Imagine talking to somebody, and as you talk to them, they don't look you in the eye properly, they fidget, shift from foot to foot, scratch themselves, fling their sweater haphazardly, and change weight rapidly without meaning, and posture themselves in 13 micropositions, all without meaning.
Well, the meaning is there. The meaning is= meaningless movement.
This is nothing to feel ashamed about around horses. We all do it. We all find ourselves stuck in patterns that became unconscious and out of our control. We all do it. I remember where I was when I learned that the movement of a lead rope laid up in my hands, and its pendulum swing as I walked quietly was enough to perturb a very sensitive horse. All I had to do, was keep the rope well in hand and well controlled and I could make my communication through to the horse, more clean.
Because that's what I am talking about. Clean communication.
The same way I strive to say my mind plainly nowadays, even to a fault I'll admit, is the same skill I bring to horses and teach to my community.
Be aware. Then, be aware of your awareness. Then be aware of your awareness and its own awareness.
It is amazing really how congruent a horse is. Present to me a fidgeting horse, that "gets bored" easily, or struggles to stand still or dislikes quiet, and I will show you their handler/owner nearby who is exactly the same.
If we present ourselves with background noise, you won't have a quiet horse.
And the quiet horse is the keystone, the backbone, of really beautiful and sucessfull training and riding.
A horse who is base line quiet now has the mental and emotional capacity to put energy into discerningly exciting activities with people- if they want to.
And that starts with us, cleaning up our movement.
If you struggle with this, I do have a whole online course designed for human movement for equestrians. But if you don't have time for that, I challenge you to find your quiet, still position, one that cannot and won't be moved. Start there, and end there. Find your position and start and end all techniques you train with there.
Just like my Vaganova Classical Ballet training taught me to start in fifth position, and end in fifth position- even if nobody is watching. It is a discipline that brings organisation and clarity to what can sometimes be very muddy waters.
And I am determined to be here, cleaning this industry up. One loving horse person at a time.