11/26/2023
As we get into the holiday season, let's remember that consent is a huge issue for dogs. For example, while you may know and trust your human framily and want to be close to them, your dog's boundaries may be different and they need your help. Your dog may need space and time to get acquainted or may not want to be there at all.
Dogs and people can learn to navigate consent in both directions:
- Entering a dog’s space bubble (including touch, sound, with body or devices.)
- Dog entering someone else’s space bubble (including touch, sound, etc.)
Dogs often enjoy touch and invite us to enter their space bubble for play or affection. Different dogs have a different bubble, ranging from -1 meter (“I want to crawl inside your belly and be your baby”) to hundreds of meters away (“All humans terrify me, please go away!”). The size of the space bubble is contextual, meaning that it changes based on the situation.
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You can learn more about consent in my webinar, "Don't Just Grab the Pussycat" - school.grishastewart.com/courses/consent
As always, this webinar is included with a Diamond membership.
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Image: cat rubbing top of head into the face of a Golden Retriever, who is lying down.
Text: "Consent is not a one-and-done. It’s an active flow of permission back and forth." - Grisha Stewart