11/28/2023
How much contact should one have?
This is such a variable thing with variable answers.
One thing I’m often criticized on as a teacher is not always having my students take contact-
It isn’t that the horse shouldn’t have contact in these instances but - I’m very aware of HOW we take contact and what the effect on the horses balance is.
For example, if the rider picks up the contact in a sloppy and backwards way, it will brace the neck of the horse and reduce the swing of the hind leg. So why bother “making” the contact when I could instead be teaching the rider necessary ingrained habits with their hands? It does absolutley no good to teach people to pick up a dead contact and hold it .
So for me; before a rider should be taking connection with the delicate structures of the face and mouth, a rider should have good control of some things, and self discipline to not just go to the hand first.
Here are some important skills a rider should learn before even thinking of contact, in my book:
-following the movement of the horse with the seat, and learning to feel (if you teach reins first, the rider often doesn’t learn to feel. The more hand we use the less we feel)
-learning to make changes with the seat , such as changing gait, lengthening or shortening stride without hand as the primary tool
-learning to pick up the rein witbout stopping the swing of the seat or the movement of the horse
-learning to pick up the rein without pulling it backward
-learning to balance the wrists and arms with suppleness when picking up the reins
-emotional regulation : learning not to go to the hand to solve problems of fear anger or punishment for the horse
In my book, many riders need their reins taken away for a good while to learn to really ride, before they can be reintegrated and paired back in fluidly. This goes especially for higher level riders or trainers who have learned to “get stuff done” without feel and flow in their bodies.
My teacher took my reins away for a very long time and it’s one of the best things she ever did for me. It was miserably uncomfortable and humbling, but that is often what good riding requires -
The hands cannot be the first action of the humans body - and as long as they are, contact will always be abrasive and unfriendly to the horse.
Body- leg- then hand last. Slow the hands down- waaaaaaaay down, and make them feeling and following, without restricting the movement of yourself or your horse.