11/14/2024
Consent is fluid. We know this and experience it in our daily lives. you may appreciate a brief hug from a coworker or relative, but don’t wish to remain in their embrace indefinitely. You may deeply love your partner and family members and still not want them to touch you sometimes. You may change your mind quickly about when you do and don’t want to touch or affection. In these three videos, we watch Adonis happily accepting pets, then being unsure and giving a weak indicator that he does want pets, and then being very clear about being done with pets. When we set up a consent -based practice with our dogs, it’s our job to make sure that we are not letting it slip when WE are enjoying the contact. I push Adonis in this video and ask many more times than I regularly would if he does want pets after he says “no” only because I know he can tolerate it and it is a good way to, have a visual on what “maybes” and “nos” also look like. What body language cues do you see that indicate appreciating the affection,being unsure about the affection, and then being clearly uninterested? Hot tip: sometimes sudden grooming is a displacement behavior.