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02/07/2025

How the heck do you change a dogs emotions ?
I know this looks complicated but it can change EVERYTHING โœ…
Reactive dog โ“
Anxious dog โ“
This is one very important graphic and the information it contains really CAN help.
If you are banging your head against a wall or don't know where to start, understanding this is a great first step.
I will put some videos in the comments which can help and one talks about this process some more too.
This is available as a handout through https://www.abcdogsnz.com/product-page/abc-dogs-nz-under-5-to-desensitise?srsltid=AfmBOoqJYXiQNkPqIIUige_L1l3nMXLlsMBULzSvbV89VpVUccoHdEeQ

02/04/2025

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02/04/2025

What is reward placement and why is it important? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿง€

One of the ways we can help tweak training to be more effective is to think about reward placement or position. So when training for a certain behaviour where is it we are looking to build value, as that is where we will want the reward to be. If our placement is off, we may not actually be rewarding what we wanted to!

For example, if you are working on heelwork but your dog is a jumper, and has a tendency to jump upwards to get the treat in your hand rather than walking nicely next to you, you can change the reward placement from being given directly from your hand to instead to being dropped on the floor by the dog. This means the value is now lower down on the floor, so instead of jumping up to get the reward we will be focused downwards to get the next one.

Similarly, if you have a dog that is very downwards focused on walks you may want to encourage more upwards focus. So teaching them to catch treats and associating looking up with where the value will be may be better choice!

Another tip for heelwork positioning specifically is to try and reward from the hand that is on the same side as your dog so they stay in that position. If we lean across our body to reward them, our dog will start to walk further and further across us in order to get closer to where the value of the reward is (the other hand).

Some other examples of reward placement would beโ€ฆ

๐Ÿพ Putting food on the mat rather than giving it directly to the dog for boundary or place training. So the value is in the mat not you.

๐Ÿพ Throwing food away from yourself or visitors if your dog has a tendency to jump up at people on arrival home. So they learn to stay further away in order to get the rewards.

๐Ÿพ If a dog gets excited when visitors come over, have the owners reward the dog for being calm when someone new comes over, rather than the new person themselves, so there is less value in the visitor making them less exciting.

๐Ÿพ If teaching your dog to drop an item in a specific place, such as over a basket, reward above the basket in the position they need to be when they drop the item. This means they will make sure their head is in that position when they drop the item, rather than turning towards you to drop and missing the basket.

What are some ways you have used reward positioning to improve your training?

02/04/2025
02/04/2025

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02/04/2025

โ“How reflexes play a role in reactivityโ“

Reactivity in dogs is a common behaviour concern that many pet guardians face. Whether itโ€™s barking and lunging at other dogs, startling at sudden noises, or freezing in fear, these reactions can feel overwhelming to deal with. But did you know that many of these responses are similar to reflexes?

A reflex is an automatic, unconscious reaction to a stimulus. For example, when you accidentally touch something hot, you immediately pull your hand away without even thinking about it. This happens because of a quick communication loop in your nervous system called a reflex arc.

In reactive dogs, something very similar occurs. Their responses are not "bad behaviour" or conscious choicesโ€”theyโ€™re automatic reactions driven by their nervous system, often as a result of fear, stress, or past experiences.

So let's break it down in a Dogโ€™s Brain During Reactivity...

๐“๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐ž๐ซ (๐’๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฌ)

Imagine a dog who reacts to other dogs on walks. The trigger is the sight or sound of another dog approaching. This stimulates the dogโ€™s sensory system (like their vision or hearing), similar to how touching a sharp object activates pain receptors in a reflex.

๐’๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ 

The sensory information travels to the dogโ€™s brain, where it reaches the emotional processing centre called the amygdala. The amygdala acts like an alarm system, deciding if the situation is safe or dangerous. For reactive dogs, this alarm system is often overactive due to previous negative experiences or a heightened sensitivity to certain stimuli.

Unlike humans, dogs canโ€™t pause and consider their options when this alarm is triggered. Their brain prioritises immediate survival, bypassing the rational decision-making areas.

๐€๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง (๐Œ๐จ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ ๐‘๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ž)

The brain sends signals to the dogโ€™s muscles, resulting in an immediate reaction like barking, lunging, freezing, or even running away. Just like pulling your hand away from something hot, the dogโ€™s response happens automatically.

Understanding how reflexes contribute to reactivity can help you approach some common behaviour challenges with more empathy and clarity.

๐Ÿ. ๐๐š๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‹๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ญ ๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ ๐ฌ
A reactive dog may view another dog as a potential threat, even if no danger exists. For example, a dog who had a negative encounter in the past might perceive every dog they see as a risk. The trigger (seeing the other dog) sets off the amygdala, which bypasses the thinking brain and leads to immediate barking or lunging.
This reaction is often rooted in fear, frustration, or overexcitement. The dog isnโ€™t โ€œchoosingโ€ to misbehave; theyโ€™re trying to protect themselves or create distance from what they perceive as a threat.

๐Ÿ. ๐…๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‹๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ
Dogs startled by fireworks, thunder, or sudden bangs are experiencing a reflexive startle response. The loud noise acts as a trigger, and their nervous system instantly reacts with behaviours like shaking, hiding, or running away.

This response is instinctive, and designed to help the dog avoid danger. Unfortunately, in the modern world, these triggers are often inescapable, leaving the dog stuck in a cycle of fear.

๐Ÿ‘. ๐Ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐“๐จ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก
Some dogs are sensitive to certain types of touchโ€”like being patted on the head or having their paws handled. If a dog associates these actions with discomfort or pain, their reflexive response might be to pull away, growl, or snap.

Understanding this matters because recognising that reactive behaviours are often automatic - meaning the dog has no control over their response, so it's up to us to change how we approach them. These behaviours arenโ€™t signs of defiance or disobedience but rather a lack of coping skills and their way of dealing with overwhelming stimuli.

As guardians, itโ€™s important to help our dogs feel safe and reduce their need to rely on these reflexive responses.

Iโ€™ve tackled the involuntary responses, which is a great start, but youโ€™re probably wondering, โ€˜Thatโ€™s all well and good, but how do I actually help my dog now?

Gradually exposing your dog to their triggers in a controlled, positive way helps to change their emotional response over time. For example, pairing the sight of another dog with treats from a very far distance to start with can teach your dog that other dogs predict good things, not uncertainty or danger.

Avoiding overwhelming situations for a long time while youโ€™re working on gradual exposure gives your dog space to feel calm. For instance, choosing quiet walking routes or using cars for barriers, bushes, or fences can prevent unwanted encounters.

Teaching new alternative behavioural skills, such as looking at you instead of barking, helps shift your dogโ€™s focus away from the trigger temporarily if you are not actively working on systematic desensitisation (gradual exposure).

Reactivity can feel challenging, but itโ€™s important to remember that your dog isnโ€™t being stubborn or โ€œnaughty.โ€ Theyโ€™re responding instinctively, much like you would if you touched something hot or saw something that you were scared of (like a tarantula or cockroach). But, if you understand the reflexive nature of your dogโ€™s behaviours, you can approach reactivity with patience, empathy, and the right training strategies to help your dog feel safer in their world.๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿพ

02/04/2025

๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽAlright everyone! Its timeee!!! We are officially open and taking clients in the Konawa Area๐Ÿ˜

Please keep in mind that the inside AND outside of our home/shop is still under full renovation. We aren't pretty nor are we a big fancy home shop, but we are here, open, safe, and kind to all of our fur family so please excuse our mess and bring us those crazy critters! We are so excited to start this journey with you all and to serve as a part of our wonderful konawa communityโค๏ธ

For questions or concerns please TEXT or EMAIL:
405-862-0663/[email protected]. If you prefer a phone call, please message ahead and we will schedule accordingly. Remember we are by appointment ONLY. Absolutely NO walk-ins๐Ÿ™‚

02/04/2025

REACTIVE DOGS NEED SPACE!

As the guardian of a reactive dog, "distance is your friend" is something you will hear a LOT, and it is so true. Giving our dogs the space they need to feel safe will help them to cope better with the things that worry them, and it will reduce their day to day stress levels, positively impacting both ends of the lead.

If your dog is barking and lunging at other dogs, this is vital information that he needs more space to help him cope in that situation. We need to listen, respect their feelings, and take action. This means that we might have to risk appearing rude to other people sometimes, but it is okay to say, โ€œno, we are in training and need space, pleaseโ€, or, โ€œno, my dog is nervous, heโ€™d rather not say hello, thank you.โ€ Find quieter areas to walk, choose low-traffic times, or hire a secure field for some stress-free quality time with your best boy or girl.

Don't feel pressured into walking your dog everyday - it is absolutely okay to have a break. For some dogs, the outside world is just too much, so entertaining them at home with some play, fun training, scentwork etc to keep them stimulated is a great alternative. Management is a major component of helping our dogs feel safe; don't allow others to make you feel guilty if walks are too much for you both!

Behaviour modification is founded on changing emotional responses to the things which worry our dogs. In order to create positive associations, we need to work at a neutral level of exposure, so providing our dogs with the space they need to stay within their coping threshold is vital. Yes, reactive outbursts can be embarrassing, but using punishment, scolding and intimidation to stop them only serves to suppress the behaviour, and will add further negativity to the dogโ€™s struggles. Suppression is not the same as behaviour modification!

There are many reasons besides reactivity why a dog might need more space - here are just a few:

*In training
*Struggling with anxiety
*Recovering from a bad experience
*Recuperating from an illness or surgery
*Nervous of other dogs
*Nervous of people
*Age-related aches and pains
*Deaf and/or blind
*Their human prefers to avoid other people or dogs
*Their human has mobility issues

Whatever the reason for needing some space, having a well-practised exit strategy is something that we can all benefit from, so that we can create distance quickly and keep our dogs feeling safe; teaching a "let's go!" cue is a huge help.

Remember: if in doubt, donโ€™t hang about!

Life with a sensitive dog is stressful for both ends of the lead. Make time for some TLC: a (very large) glass of wine and a massive sharing (whatโ€™s that??!) sized box of chocolates for you, while your dog has something enjoyable to help him also wind down.

Reactive dogs need our understanding, our empathy, and our help with changing the underlying emotions which drive these behaviours. They aren't behaving badly, they are just struggling with some big feelings.

Remember: they are not deliberately being difficult and giving us a hard time; they are having a hard time!

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02/04/2025

I know having a reactive dog is overwhelming at times.
You are both on an emotional rollercoaster. "Loading" isn't a technical term, however, it can help some people to recognise their dog is just about to react ๐Ÿ’ฅ
Learning about body language with a reactive dog really IS half the battle of helping a reactive dog.
There can be a lot to learn....and it can seem overwhelming at times.
Deep breath, you can make a difference.
Lots of videos in the comment section to help.
Hang in there !
It is well worth it !
This dog training poster available through https://www.abcdogsnz.com/product-page/abc-dogs-reactive-dog-loading?srsltid=AfmBOop-qO34MXLsvZ6ehpsj18Dr9CYPD8lladLLe-UwyfV8MVJjbuUr

02/04/2025

Recall just not working....BUT it used to work greatโ“
This is such an easy trap to fall into and is a DESTROYER of a good reliable recall....it permeates into other areas and "suddenly" your dogs recall just stops working.
Was it sudden โ“or have we inadvertently been eroding it over weeks, months or years.
So many ways we can contribute to a poisoned cue and not even realise it!
There is a video in the comments about this and a few good suggestions to help.
This dog training handout is available through https://www.abcdogsnz.com/product-page/abc-dogs-nz-ways-you-can-poison-a-recall?srsltid=AfmBOooMFUESzHwW8q1dhKacUDyIo7CRhuWuPaqIDdlZtUTI3hyxlJzh

01/26/2025

Our most recent AHS Heartworm Incidence Survey revealed some sobering stats. Heartworms are on the rise--in areas where they've always been and also in NEW areas.

01/25/2025

We believe diversity is a source of strength, equity is worth pursuing, inclusive practices foster humanity and progress, women's and LGBTQ+ rights are human rights, retaining control over our outcomes is fundamental, and kindness reflects true character. We reaffirm our commitment to foster inclusivity in training and behavior. In 2025, we will expand our scholarship opportunities for those who represent and/or support underserved and underrepresented communities. We will continue to evaluate and explore ways to further support this through our various platforms and brands in the weeks, months, and years ahead. More: https://bit.ly/4jKjlCD

01/25/2025

OKLAHOMA - Call to action. Monday, January 27th. Tell Bartlesville City Council drag is not a crime. City council meeting at Bartlesville City Hall at 5:30PM. 401 S Johnstone Ave, Bartlesville, OK. If you live in Washington County, OK, arrive early to sign up to speak at city council meeting. Visibility protest. 11AM to 4PM on sidewalks & steps of Washington County Courthouse. 420 S Johnstone Ave. Bartlesville, OK.

01/24/2025

"It was out of the blue" ๐Ÿ’ฅ
"He just snapped" โ—
"It happened in an instant".
If we look back, there are often many signals given.
Even if it was just a second before.
For many dogs they can escalate to a bite because every other signal and sign they have desperately given either us or another dog to stop or back off has been ignored or dismissed.
Reading dogs is tricky, but there are things we can do that can help us read our dogs.
โœ…Read their body language when they are relaxed.
What are their bodies doing?
Is their mouth relaxed?
What are their ears and tail doing?
Are their eyes "soft" and is there facial tension?
All of this can help you decipher when they are escalating and can help you with those "out of the blue moments".

Number one priority for everyone's safety is muzzle training.
While that isn't something many people want to do, a well conditioned and properly introduced muzzle is protection for everyone while you can truly understand what happened and put steps in place so this doesn't happen again.

Learn how dogs display they are uncomfortable and recognise this in your own dogs.
There will be a video in the comments that can help with this.

This dog training handout is available through https://www.abcdogsnz.com/product-page/abc-dogs-nz-bite?srsltid=AfmBOooXHFzjLYcmQziE4--eOrRd269G2tVU4-VP7Pf69uPBnQe8P-EZ

01/21/2025

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