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02/19/2025

I know what makes you cheer. Your boos mean nothing to me.

Fallon Taylor, a prominent barrel racer, recently took to social media to defend her use of harsh riding tactics: whips, spurs, and “starfishing” over her horse’s back. In these posts, she dismisses her critics, saying they are “playing games” and telling her followers to “ignore the haters.” She even goes as far as to complain that horses who calmly walk through the timers are praised, while those who "actually ride" by using whips and spurs are unfairly judged.

Her argument is simple: if you’re not using a whip, spurs, and flailing wildly on your horse’s back, then you’re not really riding. And when she received pushback for this, she accused those who disagreed of being jealous of her success.

First, let’s address the facts: studies have shown that whipping a horse does not make them faster. In fact, “Our comparison of whipping-free and whipping-permitted races found no statistically significant differences in movement on course, interference on course, incidents related to jockey behavior or race finishing times.” Let’s stop pretending that excessive use of force is a legitimate tactic for success.

Here’s some more truth, Fallon: this isn’t about jealousy. It’s about the welfare of the horses. It’s about the fact that you’re justifying inflicting pain on an animal for the sake of your own gain. It’s not about you winning; it’s about how you’re winning. Using whips and spurs as exaggerated, forceful riding techniques is not "real riding"; it's exploitation. When you defend it as such, you’re setting a dangerous precedent that normalizes unnecessary harm for personal glory.

Let me be crystal clear: I am not anti-whip or anti-spur. These tools, when used responsibly and with consideration, may help refine communication with a horse, especially as they progress in their training. Think of it this way: could you operate a TV remote while wearing thick mittens? Tools like whips and spurs can provide nuanced cues, but only once the horse has the foundation to understand them.

When we stand up for the welfare of horses, we aren't attacking competition, we’re attacking the toxic culture that has come to define it. We’re speaking out for the horses who can’t voice their suffering, who endure in silence because their pain is ignored in the name of winning. If we don’t speak out, who will?

It’s not just about trophies, Fallon. It’s about protecting the animals who give everything for us. That’s where true success lies: in the integrity with which we treat our horses, not how many buckles we can collect while ignoring their nonverbal pain signals.

So no, Fallon, we’re not jealous of you. We want nothing to do with the kind of “success” you’re defending. We’d rather stand for integrity than for hollow validation. And we’ll keep speaking out, no matter how many of us you block. Because the horses deserve better, and they’re the ones we should be protecting.

Whip use study: https://www.mdpi.com/2076-2615/10/11/1985

02/19/2025
02/19/2025

Having ridden a certain way in the past, or even present, doesn’t mean you have to be doomed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again.

Horse people need to get more comfortable with admitting when they’ve gone wrong with horses before and realizing that growth is a good thing. Admitting when you’re wrong is okay.

This is an old photo of Milo back in 2016.

He was incredibly nervous at shows. I rode in a flash and a running martingale, which stressed him more.

I also carried a crop because he wouldn’t want to go forward consistently without one. I never beat him with it but I would use it to tap him lightly and it was still a form of pressure to force a response.

Instead of listening to what his behaviour told me, I tried to mask it with equipment and continuing to push him.

I loved him, I still do, but it was the wrong decision and it wasn’t fair to him.

I’ve made a lot of wrong decisions, despite loving horses. Most of us have.

The biggest mistake is to continue doubling down and justifying our actions when we aren’t being considerate to our horses.

It is not healthy that so many riders are so nonchalant about hitting horses repeatedly, using harsh equipment and otherwise relying on pain and fear to make horses comply.

The horse world can shift. We all can make waves through growth. But we can’t grow without serious reflection.

The shame is so strong in the horse world. It’s freeing to own up to where you’ve hurt horses. You’ll realize you aren’t alone and you can release that guilt and make a difference.

Share a “bad moment” you’ve had and let’s talk about some of the things we have done to horses that we may hold shame and guilt about.

Let’s normalize growth.



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02/19/2025
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Allowing a horse to become unconfident outside in nature is an absolute tragedy. There is nothing more natural to a horse than to be outside amongst other living things.

02/15/2025
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02/11/2025

Recently, a video from the World Equestrian Center in Ocala surfaced, showing a distressed horse on course, while the rider continues to strike them with a crop. It makes you wonder.. If this is how some riders treat horses in public, what’s happening behind closed doors?

How can we stand up for horses in these situations and why it can be so uncomfortable to ‘stir the pot’?

Many of us board at facilities where we encounter riders with different levels of skill, knowledge, and willingness to learn and improve. It’s always been controversial to speak out about the less obvious forms of abuse, but it’s something that needs to be addressed. I say "more accepted" because, for some reason, the equestrian community often turns a blind eye to or re-labels signs of pain as "bad behavior."

We see horses subjected to extreme measures like excessive spurring, cranking their heads into their chest, tying mouths shut, see-sawing reins, draw reins, harsh bits, "teaching lessons" through whips, kicks, and yelling, running horses into walls, and lunging them to the brink of exhaustion. These practices—while damaging physically and psychologically—are shockingly common and, disturbingly, widely accepted.

Standing up and saying, "This isn’t right" or "You’re hurting your horse" often leads to shaming, rather than support. Sadly, it’s more acceptable to let the abuse continue than to speak out against it. The fear of backlash keeps many from protecting the very animals these riders claim to love. But we can't ignore the issue and allow the horses to suffer in silence.

There are ways to challenge these practices, though they vary from situation to situation. Each one must be approached carefully and thoughtfully. The saying "you catch more flies with honey" holds true: If your goal is the well-being of the horse, it's important to understand there’s no quick fix. Sometimes, people are willing to listen to hard truths. Other times, it’s about sharing insight in a way that invites questions and encourages thoughtful conversation, rather than conflict.

What do you think?

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