07/31/2026
This is A Hill I Will Die On:
Any person who has ever intentionally chosen to bring a dog into their home and then allowed that dog to become their lowest priority, the very last thing on their list and the first thing they stop making time for, that is the person I'm talking about.
Remember quarantine during the pandemic? Remember that feeling of becoming stir crazy?
That is their dog's entire life.
No walks, no activity, no mental stimulation, no real engagement with anything in the world, just the same home and yard within the prison property lines, everything they've already memorized, living in boredom, their own version of the movie Groundhog Day, all while having physical and mental energy that needs to be burned off. But they are just expected to sit down, lay down, be calm, be quiet, and not be a problem, and then the second a behavior shows up, somehow the dog is the problem.
The reactivity, the aggression, the anxiety, the destruction, none of that came out of nowhere, and anyone who says it did isn't being honest with themselves, because dogs are wired to move, to work, to use their bodies and their minds, and that's not a personality type or a preference, it's biology, and when someone spends years ignoring that, the dog pays for it in ways those people would rather not look at too closely.
I can't tell you how many of the dogs you see here were blamed for behaviors that were solely because of people, behaviors directly caused by a lack of exercise and a lack of mental stimulation and all well within the ability of their prior people to address, and those people chose to ignore what their dog needed because they "didn't want to," they "didn't have time," they "were going to dinner with friends," and what it comes down to is they just didn't want to and they didn't care.
Because ultimately they didn't get their dog thinking, how am I going to make my dog's life the best it can be, or how am I going to improve their life?
They got their dog for their own selfish reasons, and when their dog needed what dogs need it was easier to get rid of the dog than to hold themselves accountable, step up, and do what they should've done from day one and do it every single day, not because they're obligated to, but because it's what their dogs need and it's what they should want to do.
Instead, on the rare occasion they feel like it or the guilt piles up, they pull their dog out of the yard like a backpack for a weekend activity, put a leash on them expecting them to act perfectly for the once a month adventure walk they decided counted as being a “good dog owner.”
Meanwhile the dog is taking in as much freedom as they can because who knows when they will get a taste of it again, acting like they have never been anywhere before, and their person acts genuinely shocked and is frustrated when the dog couldn’t be perfect, and those people should not have a dog.
That is a hill I will die on, every day and twice on Sundays.
Dogs Deserve Better!