12/22/2025
I’ve gotten a lot of personal messages about Nicholas and I’m not responding to anymore messages explaining this🥰
A Loving Boundary for Everyone Who Follows This Page
Let me be very clear, very calm, and very honest, because I don’t want confusion, entitlement, or hurt feelings later.
If you privately message me saying:
“I want Nick.”
“I deserve Nick.”
“I’m the best fit for Nick.”
“I’ve fallen in love with Nick.”
or any version of “Give me the brand-new baby that just arrived”…
You will be blocked. No conversation. No back-and-forth. No explanation.
Here’s why.
We have SO many beautiful babies—especially little boys—that we nurture, heal, stabilize, train, and prepare for MONTHS before they are ever adoptable. We pour time, sleep, money, energy, medical care, emotional healing, crate training, leash training, trust building, and love into these babies so they’ll be healthy and ready for forever homes.
We post them.
We share them.
We celebrate them.
We open applications for them.
Yet people skip right past those fully ready babies and message me about a baby who hasn’t even been here a week.
Please understand this:
We do NOT adopt out babies under six months.
We do NOT adopt out dogs who are not spayed/neutered.
We do NOT adopt out dogs who are not physically and emotionally ready.
And we will NOT rush a dog’s healing for anyone.
If you want to adopt, you APPLY through the website for a dog who is listed as available. Not the new intake. Not the medically fragile baby. Not the puppy whose story just tugged your emotions yesterday.
And please don’t mix “I want to donate” with “Can I have that baby?” in the same message. That doesn’t feel kind, respectful, or aligned. Donations are welcome, appreciated, and needed — but they will never be an exchange for access, privilege, or priority. We have a website, donation links, PO Box, EIN, and a team who handles all that properly.
Messaging me privately does not influence adoption decisions anyway. It only drains my emotional energy and honestly… it hurts. Because when I say “not available,” it means “not negotiable.”
So here is the boundary:
If a dog is not on the website as adoptable,
They are not available.
They are healing.
They are stabilizing.
They are growing.
They are safe.
Respect the process.
Respect the dogs.
Respect the rescue.
Respect the boundary.
If you love what we do, support it.
If you want to adopt, apply.
If you want to donate, donate the right way.
But please don’t try to bypass the system, the safety plan, or the sacred responsibility we have to these babies.
That’s it. That’s the whole message.
With love, boundaries, and absolute protection for our babies 💛🐾
Tzusandmewsrescue.org