Ritual Equus

06/22/2025

A solstice message from Story.

TRUTH

Today as we embrace the energy of Solstice, the quote from Leonard Cohen came flooding in after pulling this card with Story:

“There's a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in."

Horses are truth tellers. They show up for us daily as their most authentic and honest selves ready to communicate. I have devoted myself to receiving the messages from my mustangs openly and honestly without putting my human-ness on it, but even as aware as I am, I struggle with this. Pulling this card inspired a few questions to ponder along side this card and during this solstice season-
Are we ( am I ) fully ready to see or hear our (my) horses truth?
What does it mean to accept our (my) horse’s truth as our (my) own?
How does that change how we (I) engage with them?
How can we (I ) be more honest when engaging with our (my) horses?

I offer these up as the cracks that can let the light in. Under the powerful solstice sun and through out the season, feel free to revisit each question individually this week or if you’d like to join me - write down answers now, in 45 days, and then again at 90 days( right around the equinox) keeping track of your answers over the next three periods in order to see how you evolve, grow and change. I would love to check in around the equinox to see what folks answered and how things are going. If there’s enough of us id be happy to put together a group zoom where we can discuss and support each others growth. Drop a comment below or dm me to let me know your thoughts and if you’re interested in joining in! 🌞

And yes my nails are absolutely filthy after spending an hour scratching this girls belly 😂

06/18/2025

Sacred space holder.

Physical touch is not all horses love language, but in the distance shared there is something greater.

I want to draw attention to the fact that not all horses enjoy being touched. Some are neutral about it, and some find it aversive- which in certain instances can be a sign of physical pain or discomfort. For some, engaging physically can be a trigger that brings up things they hold emotionally, mentally and spiritually from the past. There are others that just don’t find physical touch from humans preferable, whatever the reason- we need to learn to honor them where they are. I have seen some trainers that insist that your horse MUST learn to accept touch. While i understand that for safety sake in this domesticated world we must engage with our horses physically for certain things, i wholeheartedly believe that the need to touch our horses outside of these situations is purely driven by ego. I believe this need, easily tips over into demands leading to horses that perhaps at one point felt neutral about things, to a horse that now finds physical touch horribly uncomfortable and aversive. Thinking of my life Phantom, I wish I had known him before he was exposed to humans that took away his feelings of security, autotomy and safety. I will never know the Mustang that came straight from the range. Although every day I show up and hold space for him to find his way back. What I have come to realize, and be okay with- is that he is happy and feels most loved when I don’t feel the need to reach for him, even though my intentions are pure. I see it in his eyes. The knowing that in this space between us, there is space for both of us to heal. In honoring his space I have become a student of observation, of quiet reflection, of appreciating the moments that so many take for granted. There is nothing quite like a formally wild horse walking straight up to you, curving around behind you to doze in your company. (Continued in comments)

06/14/2025

I have been away for sometime from this page, but it has been because I have some exciting things brewing. This year I enrolled in the Horse Medicine Leadership Facilitator program as well as working towards expanding my reiki training. Extremely excited to slowly begin offering distance and in-person experiences towards the end of the year. Anyone interested or curious, please reach out!

Advanced Facilitator Training Program.

Get certified through horse medicine leadership in our new advanced facilitator training program.

This program was created in connection to the community of equine facilitators that have come to us over the years looking to enhance and add to their training.

We wanted to create an online option for people to come and train with us and receive a certification through horse medicine leadership.

The advanced facilitator program is a 6 months online training program for equine facilitators.

What we cover in this program:

How to cultivate a safe and sacred space for client and horse.

Developing your facilitation and leadership skills and mastery.

Building your toolbox of equine lead exercises and activities, where the horses have consent and are leading the exercises.

Creating confidence in how you lead yourself as a facilitator and developing a deep practice of self leadership.

This program combines live teaching calls with an extensive library of modules and training videos.

Once you enrol in the program you get lifetime access to the program and all it's content, that includes any updated content we decide to add.

Enrolment is open until January 13th. Once everyone is enrolled we will then be scheduling the calls around who is enrolled in the program.

To register or read more visit the link in bio or link below. You are also welcome to send us a dm to ask questions.

https://www.horsemedicineleadership.com/hml-advanced-facilitator-online-training

If you are wanting to build more confidence in how you facilitate and feel about your equine practice this is a wonderful training to step into.

Upon completion you will receive a certificate of completion through horse medicine leadership.

02/05/2025

I am constantly amazed how many people keep finding my feed and following along, it makes me hopeful that more and more people are coming to horses with patience, understanding and acknowledging that they are sentient beings. However, I just need to make sure people understand my compassion extends far beyond horses. My page is for all people that value the lives of the marginalized and oppressed. My work in and out of the horse world involves tearing down the propped up patriarchal society we live within. I dream of an equitable world where EVERYONE thrives. This page supports LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities, and will forever fight towards a planet that is healthy, sustainable and prosperous. I hope if you have found yourself here you are aligned in the same values, or are open minded and willing to listen. I am not here to force my ethicals or ideals on you, I am just here to be a beacon for empathy, something the world so desperately needs right now.

02/02/2025

02/02/2025

Imbolc stands at the threshold—a time of quickening, of stirring beneath the surface, when the land holds the promise of renewal deep in its bones. It is the season of Brigid, keeper of the sacred flame and the healing well, a goddess of fire and water, of poetry and transformation.

And it is the horse who knows this threshold intimately. The liminality of shifting seasons, the alchemy of movement between stillness and motion, between knowing and unknowing. Horses have carried our ancestors across unseen landscapes, not just of earth but of spirit. They are the bridge, the fire, the water. The vessel and the offering.

Imbolc calls us to re-devotion—to step into the fire of transformation and surrender our resistance to the waters of deep intuition. To allow the flame to burn away what no longer serves, and then to soften, to listen, to drink from the well of ancient knowing. This is the rhythm of the horse. The pause before the breath. The inhale before the leap. The exhale that carries the weight of memory and magic.

Let this be a time of returning. Of sinking into the wisdom that lives in our bones, the same wisdom that horses reflect back to us when we meet them in their truth. Let us lay our hands upon the earth, upon their warmth, and ask—what is ready to be transmuted? What dreams are shifting in the waters? What parts of ourselves are we ready to reclaim?

Under the Imbolc moon, let us stand at the threshold together—horse, human, flame, and well—ready to remember. Ready to cross over into what comes next.

01/30/2025

Behaviors are communication, and every action a horse takes tells a story. Some stories are soft and clear, easy to understand, while others are signals of distress, tangled and often misinterpreted. When we approach these behaviors with curiosity rather than judgment, we begin to see them for what they truly are—expressions of need, emotion, and experience.

Through thoughtful, trauma-informed enrichment, we create a space where these stories can unfold without fear or misunderstanding. Enrichment allows horses to express themselves freely, make choices, and explore their world in a way that feels safe and meaningful to them. Whether it’s scent work, puzzle-solving, or mimicking natural foraging, these activities provide a space where there is no “wrong” answer—only opportunities for curiosity, connection, and growth.

For horses carrying past trauma or being misunderstood, enrichment can be transformative. It gives them a chance to express themselves and meet their needs. Scent work, for example, invites them to lead the interaction, grounding them in the present and building their confidence. This practice honors their autonomy, allowing them to express themselves in ways that feel natural and fulfilling.

As we meet them where they are, enrichment becomes a tool for expanding their comfort zone. Starting in familiar spaces and gradually introducing new environments, we create opportunities for growth at their own pace. This process empowers the horse and strengthens the bond between horse and human.

When we listen to the stories our horses tell through their behavior and respond with enrichment, we shift from trying to “fix” behaviors to understanding them. The misunderstood signals often fade—not because they’ve been suppressed, but because their underlying needs have been met.

Every behavior is an invitation to listen. Through enrichment, we create a dialogue that honors the individuality of each horse, respects their boundaries, and nurtures a relationship built on trust, understanding, and shared growth.

If you are in the Saint Louis area I am teaming up with my trainer to offer clinics on foundational R+ training, groundwork, riding and cooperative care. I will also be creating a course on enrichment as empowerment, training with a trauma-informed approach and how to begin sharing scent work with your horses as well! Please comment below to pm me and I will send you details once we have dates together and additional information.

01/19/2025

Today was hard. The temperatures plummeted with the windchill in the negatives. I went out to blanket my three, relying on the fact that Phantom had been blanketed before. But when you’re providing guardianship to a traumatized horse, you can never take things for granted. The horse in front of you one day is not always the horse in front of you the next.

After getting the girls blanketed, I prepared for Phantom, thinking the cooperative skills we’ve built would help us. And knowing he wore one last January—I thought we’d be okay. I was so wrong. For some horses, new things are spooky but manageable. For a traumatized horse, even things they’ve seen 1,000 times can still conjure powerful fear. Trauma changes how they perceive and process, making regulation so much harder.

Today, Phantom shook with fear as I approached with the blanket. I didn’t need to touch him or get close. It lying on the ground was all he could handle. That’s when it hit me—he was never okay with being blanketed to begin with.

I cried. For him. For all the horses misunderstood. For every behavior “fixed” without asking why. I cried for my 1,000-lb magical being, once wild in the high desert, so scared he shook. I whispered, “What did they do to you?”

When I stopped crying, I put the blanket away and brought him a pile of alfalfa. As he ate, I stood nearby and promised him: I will never give up on you. I will always lead with choice, free of force and fear. I will never send you away. I will continue to learn and be better for you.

He returned to his herd to doze in the sun. Before I left, I checked the girls’ blankets and waved goodbye. But Phantom had other plans. He came to me for scratches and playful nibbles, a quiet offering of trust.

Had I forced the blanket, this wouldn’t have been how the day ended- he does after all have 20+ acres to escape to. I know this was possible because we use R+, fear-free methods. I honor his “no,” his signals, and his autonomy.

I’m forever grateful to this boy who changed my world—and to those lighting the way for a better way to be with our horses. Thank you.

✌️This page is a safe and welcoming space for all people—regardless of race, age, gender identity, religious affiliation (or lack thereof), or physical and mental abilities. It is rooted in the belief that true connection begins with compassion, empathy, and respect for all beings, including the Earth herself. I stand firmly against the patriarchal and colonial mindsets and actions that have long harmed our shared world, and I believe healing begins by honoring Indigenous peoples, their wisdom, and their rightful role as stewards of the land. Through the lens of Ritual Equus, I approach life with reverence for the interconnectedness of all things, recognizing that horses—like all creatures—are sentient beings, deserving care and love simply for existing. Nothing is owed to us; instead, we are invited to hold space for their autonomy, beauty, and wisdom. Here, I hope to inspire those ready to open their hearts and minds to a deeper way of being, one that moves beyond equality to true equity for all.✨

01/16/2025

I’m not interested in how you “break” horses, because the very idea assumes they are something that needs to be conquered or tamed. I’m not interested in how “bombproof” they are, because a horse is not a tool to be stripped of its agency or instinct. I’m not interested in how much they “respect” you, because respect is a human concept—a construct of dominance and hierarchy that horses don’t recognize. They don’t see us as horses, and we aren’t above them, deserving of some imagined reverence.

What I’m interested in is how you notice their calming and stress signals, how you honor their way of being, and how you create a life that centers their needs—physical, emotional, and spiritual. I want to know how you build a relationship on empathy and trust, not on fear or force. I care about how you approach them with curiosity and humility, combining science-based, force-free methods with deep respect for their autonomy.

I might be new to horse guardianship, but I am not new to empathy or understanding that all beings are interconnected. The wisdom we need to build these relationships is already within us—it’s about peeling back ego, unlearning harmful traditions, and listening.

It’s heartbreaking how often people defend their methods, not because they are kind or effective, but because they don’t see the harm they’re perpetuating. They don’t question how normalized dominance has become or how it shapes their interactions. Instead, they double down, calling those who seek another way naive or weak. But this path isn’t naive—it’s courageous and so very important.

To honor a horse is not to demand anything from them but to meet them in their sovereignty. It’s about seeing them as a partner, a sentient being with wisdom to share. This way of being requires us to question everything we’ve been taught about control and obedience and instead embrace trust, connection, and collaboration.

So no, I’m not interested in how things have always been done. I’m interested in how we can do better—how we can create relationships that honor the horse for who they truly are. Growth isn’t about staying comfortable; it’s about building something real.

✌️This page is a safe and welcoming space for all people—regardless of race, age, gender identity, religious affiliation (or lack thereof), or physical and mental abilities. It is rooted in the belief that true connection begins with compassion, empathy, and respect for all beings, including the Earth herself. I stand firmly against the patriarchal and colonial mindsets and actions that have long harmed our shared world, and I believe healing begins by honoring Indigenous peoples, their wisdom, and their rightful role as stewards of the land. Through the lens of Ritual Equus, I approach life with reverence for the interconnectedness of all things, recognizing that horses—like all creatures—are sentient beings, deserving care and love simply for existing. Nothing is owed to us; instead, we are invited to hold space for their autonomy, beauty, and wisdom. Here, I hope to inspire those ready to open their hearts and minds to a deeper way of being, one that moves beyond equality to true equity for all.✨

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01/15/2025

With so many new followers daily, I felt the need to post an introduction…☺️

Welcome to this space, where advocacy, magic, and equine empowerment meet. I’m grateful you’re here, and I’d like to share more about who I am and the work I do.

I am an artist, mother and horse guardian deeply rooted in earth-honoring traditions and guided by a commitment to reciprocity with the natural world. My journey is one of weaving ritual, spirituality, and embodied practices to create transformative, healing connections between horses and humans.

At the heart of my work is Equine Mystical Advocacy—a practice that centers horses as sentient, spiritual beings with their own autonomy, wisdom, and inherent worth. This advocacy goes beyond physical care to honor their emotional, energetic, and soulful needs. My mission is to create safe, enriching, and empowering experiences that help horses overcome past trauma, expand their confidence, and thrive in a human-centered world.

I draw on the principles of LIMA (Least Intrusive, Minimally Aversive) and the humane hierarchy, shaping every interaction to meet each horse where they are. I focus on creating activities that support their individuality and healing, such as cooperative play, exploration, and trust-building exercises. Scent tracking has become an exciting part of my practice, helping horses overcome behavioral blocks and develop grounded confidence by engaging their natural instincts.

I am committed to continued education, attending clinics and workshops to deepen my understanding and refine my skills. With each session, I grow alongside my horses, learning from their wisdom and adapting my practices to support their needs. My work is an evolving journey, informed by my relationships with my own equine companions and the diverse tools I bring to their care.

This space is inclusive of BIPOC, LGBTQIA+ individuals, and those with physical, emotional, or mental disabilities. Together, we challenge dominant narratives that frame horses as tools or commodities, instead fostering partnerships rooted in mutual respect and understanding. I actively work to dismantle patriarchal and white supremacist structures within equestrian spaces, creating a community where everyone can feel seen, supported, and celebrated.

Through force-free and fear-free training, rituals, enrichment, Reiki, and intuitive connection, I seek to advocate for a more compassionate, respectful approach to equine care. Horses are not here to serve or save us—they are sovereign beings with gifts to share, but only when we honor their boundaries and meet them on their terms.

Whether you’re drawn here by the call of mystical advocacy, the magic of scent work, or a desire to connect with horses on a deeper level, I invite you to join me in this reimagining of what it means to live in relationship with equines.

Thank you for being here—I look forward to sharing this transformative path with you

01/13/2025

Happiest gotcha day my love Phantom Wolf Moon.

I remember seeing your adoption ad, feeling crazy and driving the family four hours away in negative degree weather to meet you.

The woman who ran the rescue offered to let us ride him, but I said, no…. Can we just bring him into the arena and turn him lose?

So we did and he immediately took off running to the fence line where the other horses were kept.

He would look back at me and indigo freezing and standing quietly in the middle of the arena.

He then took off, bucking and cantering, flagging his tail and just flying around us.

Then he turned and ever so confidently trotted up to us.

At first I thought he wouldn’t stop, but then he dropped his head and walked up to us letting out a huge sigh and blowing air through his nose.

I remember Amber saying in disbelief- “did he just come up to you?! I would never have thought he would do that on his own!”

He touched our hands and took cookies and let us pet his nose, and then he was gone. Back to exploring the space around him keeping an eye on us.

When we left I felt conflicted, I loved him, but what did I know about horses!? Especially a horse that needed someone much more knowledgeable than I.

We returned home, and believe me, in Missouri there is no shortage of horses in need of homes, but my mind kept returning to him.

So we decided to move forward, get a PPE, make arrangements. I had a thousand questions.

The final being - are we the right family for him?

I remember Amber answering via message- I think you are the perfect family for him.

It was decided,although the night before committing i awoke in a panic, and woke my husband up, sobbing I asked, “what am I doing?! I can’t do this, I know nothing!! This is insane! How can I take care of a horse by myself?!”

And Enoch rolled over- still in shock from being woken up at 2am said, “you’re not alone.”

And that was that. I sent his adoption fee and waited for him to arrive.

He showed up 1/13 with temps below zero same as the day we met him.

I hugged Amber and cried. I promised her- I will ALWAYS love and take care of him. Always.

✌️This page is a safe and welcoming space for all people—regardless of race, age, gender identity, religious affiliation (or lack thereof), or physical and mental abilities. It is rooted in the belief that true connection begins with compassion, empathy, and respect for all beings, including the Earth herself. I stand firmly against the patriarchal and colonial mindsets and actions that have long harmed our shared world, and I believe healing begins by honoring Indigenous peoples, their wisdom, and their rightful role as stewards of the land. Through the lens of Ritual Equus, I approach life with reverence for the interconnectedness of all things, recognizing that horses—like all creatures—are sentient beings, deserving care and love simply for existing. Nothing is owed to us; instead, we are invited to hold space for their autonomy, beauty, and wisdom. Here, I hope to inspire those ready to open their hearts and minds to a deeper way of being, one that moves beyond equality to true equity for all.✨

01/12/2025

Divination readings for the year between you and your horse(s) please comment below or message for details ✨