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Gentle Touch Dog Training "Changing the Way we Train our Dogs" involves changing ourselves and our perspective as well.

I offer Group Obedience Classes, Private Lessons, and Behavior Modification using Operant Conditioning, the Science based method that is used to train Orcas (Killer Whales), and other Exotic Animals. Learn how to be the Leader for your dog without having to use force or intimidation.

11/08/2025

He was 15 years old. Fifteen long years watching the seasons, the people, and the hopes pass him by. This old tomcat, with his hesitant gait and greying fur, had spent most of his life in the shadow of a shelter's cages, watching kittens find homes, younger cats being chosen, and adopters turning away from him — from his age, his appearance, his fatigue.

But still, he waited. Every morning, he would pull himself up with effort onto the bench near the entrance, a worn-out bag his only throne, and stare at the door with deep eyes. As if he were hoping that someone would finally walk through and say: “He’s the one I was looking for. He’s the one I’ve been waiting for.” The volunteers had nicknamed him “the wise old man,” part fond teasing, part admiration for his infinite patience.

His story was blurry. No one knew exactly where he came from. One day, he had been found in a backyard — skinny, his skin damaged, his voice hoarse, as if he hadn’t meowed in years. No one came to claim him. No collar, no microchip. Just eyes full of memories only he knew.

He never asked for much. He didn’t seek attention. He watched, slept, sometimes nestled against another cat for warmth, but would quickly retreat to his corner. Yet, every time a family entered the shelter, he would sit up. He waited. Every day. And each evening, he returned alone to his little nook.

Then one day, she walked in.

A quiet woman, accompanied by her husband. She didn’t rush toward the playful kittens. She didn’t look for the prettiest or the youngest. She simply scanned the room… until she saw him. The old tabby with the solemn gaze. And without a word, she stepped forward. He didn’t move. He looked at her for a long time, as if he recognized her. And when she reached out her hand, he stood, placed both front paws on her knees, and purred — for the first time in a long while.

The silence in the room was almost sacred. The volunteers, deeply moved, understood. Something extraordinary had just happened. This wasn’t a simple adoption — it was a reunion.

The old cat that no one wanted — too old, too worn — had finally found his human. Someone who didn’t see a burden, but a soul deserving to finish his days surrounded by love, warmth, and dignity.

He left the shelter in the arms of the woman who, without saying a word, had understood. At home, he discovered a soft cushion, a warm blanket, and arms always open for him. He now sleeps more peacefully, purrs more often, and shines with a new light.

Because sometimes, all it takes is one person to change everything — even for a 15-year-old cat the world had forgotten.

And he… never stopped waiting for that miracle.

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10/19/2025

WHAT ARE BALANCED TRAINERS? WHAT ARE POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT TRAINERS?

I just ran across a YouTube video made by a "balanced" trainer who did not know the definition of the terms he was using - which is the inspiration for this post.

You need to know these terms so you know what to look for and what to ask when speaking to any dog trainer you are considering hiring.

The term, "balanced" is misleading. While we generally associate the term with something positive, that is not the case with dog training.

The 4 Quadrants of Operant Conditioning

Some of you will recall previous posts of mine about the "4 quadrants" of operant conditioning:

1. Positive reinforcement
2. Negative reinforcement
3. Positive punishment
4. Negative punishment

"Operant" means one or more of these 4 options are used to train a dog (or another animal or human) to do something. The dog's behavior is shaped through one or more of the above options - consequences applied by the trainer.

"Conditioning" means learning through association or consequence.

"Operant conditioning" uses reinforcement or punishment to increase or decrease behaviors.

"Positive" means something is added, e.g., food, praise - but it could also be something aversive, like shock.

"Negative" means something is taken away, e.g., attention - or shock or something else aversive.

"Reinforcement" means whatever was added or taken away serves to increase the likelihood a behavior will be repeated.

"Punishment" means whatever was added or taken away causes the behavior to stop (Note: it is not an intention, it is an effect, so if something aversive is added or taken away that does not stop behavior, it is just aversive and at worst, abusive.)

Positive reinforcement, aka force-free trainers use:

1. Positive reinforcement

2. Negative punishment, e.g., dog jumps up on them and attention (which is what motivates dogs to jump) is removed, thus removing (negative) the reinforcement (of attention). What is not reinforced (consistently) will stop occurring.

"Balanced" trainers use all 4 options ("quadrants," as depicted in the chart below).

In addition to positive reinforcement (e.g., praise, treats, play) and negative punishment (removing something the dog wants/likes), they use positive punishment (adding a punisher, e.g., shock or a leash "correction") and negative reinforcement (taking the punisher away), once they get the behavior they want. The dog, of course, is motivated to comply to avoid pain.

This is why they refer to themselves as "balanced" trainers. Do not be deceived.

Note: using positive reinforcement does NOT make someone a positive reinforcement trainer. Most, if not all trainers use some form of positive reinforcement. Many use it in addition to physical and verbal punishment, aka "correction."

Also, you will hear balanced trainers criticize force-free positive reinforcement trainers as being "positive only." There is no such thing.

Positive is not permissive. It just isn't painful or fear-provoking. I tell new clients the type of training I do is evidence-based best practices, and that I do not do anything that hurts or frightens the dog.

© 2025 Cindy Ludwig, MA, BS, RN, KPA-CTP, CPDT-KA
Owner, Canine Connection LLC
Willard, MIssouri

10/18/2025

If your dog barks or lunges at strangers, it can be tempting to want to stop it quickly. Some people reach for extreme measures like shock collars, prong collars, or yelling. While those methods may stop the behavior in the moment, aversive training often has fallout that increases fear and can make aggression worse.

Punishing a dog for communicating does not teach safety. It creates anxiety and confirms to the dog that the thing that scared them also predicts pain.

Training should never rely on fear or pain, even for aggression. There are humane, effective approaches that help dogs feel safe and learn alternative behaviors. Need help with your dog’s behavior? Schedule a session today.

10/18/2025

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