11/29/2025
When it is time to say goodbye-
Euthanasia is as much a part of veterinary medicine as saving a life. I would guess that it is the number one reason people tell me that they decided they didn’t want to become a veterinarian. I often think to myself that it is not the thing to be feared in veterinary medicine because it gives so much peace to the animals that we love and is healing to them in so many ways.
The kindest and most loving thing you can do for your beloved animal is let them go without having to suffer unto death. We have all watched loved ones suffer for days, weeks, months and even years with horrible conditions and diseases and just age but we do not have to let our animals go through that. We can love them enough to give them peace in death and it is a great gift and an honor to be able to do that for them.
I am asked all the time if it is “the time”. I know that in veterinary medicine they train you, they instruct you to never tell a client that it is time but I think that is completely wrong. We are supposedly the professional and it should absolutely be our job to help someone navigate through the paths of life to the foot of the rainbow bridge if you will. No single person wakes up one days and thinks, “hmmm, today is the day I am going to have my pet killed.” No one does that! Everyone agonizes over it and worries about it and they don’t bring them in unless they know that their life is not good and they are just seeking someone to agree with them. As the vet, it is my job to do that for them. It is a gift that I can give to them that might just make a horrible thing just a little bit less bad.
The winter time is hard on our animals just like it is hard on us. The holidays increase our stress which inadvertently increases the stress on our animals. Our animals trust us to make the right decision for them when it comes time for the end of their life. It is never easy, it isn’t supposed to be but it always lifts a load off when we finally make that decision to let them be free. Free from the pain of a life well lived. Free from the pain of disease. Free from the agony of the inflammation and the arthritis and sickness that comes at the end of life.
Euthanasia is one of the greatest gifts we give the animals that give so much to us. It should not be seen as something to dread but rather a blessing that we can bestow upon them for all the love and joy that they gave us during their life with us. Euthanasia is hard because it is supposed to be but it is only hard because of all that our animals give to us during their life and that is what makes it the right thing to do for them.