Loving Presence with Horses

Loving Presence with Horses I teach and support people and horses, in person and virtually, to use Clicker training and positive reinforcement in Clicker Training Dressage.
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As a Certified Training Partner of Karen Pryor Academy, clicker training is a major part of my work. It gets amazing results in training and also gives horses a way to communicate with them and they with us as well. It all makes the world a better place.

“My horse should know how to do this.”If this thought has ever crossed your mind, you’re not alone.The most interesting ...
08/17/2021

“My horse should know how to do this.”
If this thought has ever crossed your mind, you’re not alone.
The most interesting thing when it comes to a relationship between horse and rider is that you are mirrors to one another.
I help riders improve their confidence in understanding and communicating with their horse so they can move forward in a spirit of cooperation and balance.
If you’re interested in deepening your presence with your horse, a good place to start is my free gift! Learn 3 key ways you can pay attention to your horse’s cues and behaviour: https://lovingpresencewithhorses.lpages.co/3-ways-to-not-mess-up-your-horse-sign-up/

Sometimes it only takes a glance for me to see what the problem is. I have always been this way.I’m the lady who gives h...
08/15/2021

Sometimes it only takes a glance for me to see what the problem is.
I have always been this way.
I’m the lady who gives her horse loose reins after a halfpass or flying lead change, allowing my horse to drop his head to the earth to stretch his back, no matter if people stare at us.
I see stiffness and resistance in a horse and interpret the root of what’s happening, rather than trying to fix it with more equipment.
What if I told you this path is easier and natural? That you already have everything inside of you to create the relationship with your horse that you dream about?
I would love to meet you and learn your story. Book a call with me today :)

https://talktomarykay.as.me/schedule.php

Why do we want to compete? 🐴Maybe it's a desire to have a deeper bond... to work as a team with your horse. Or to feel t...
08/12/2021

Why do we want to compete? 🐴
Maybe it's a desire to have a deeper bond... to work as a team with your horse. Or to feel the high you get when you're doing something extraordinary together. Maybe it’s to have fun and to ride with purpose! To keep improving and learning.
Often, competition can bring out the opposite feelings. The harder you train, the more distant the bond feels. The feeling of teamwork can begin to fade away. The anxiety and perfectionism you feel for yourself and your horse makes it harder to flow and to have fun.
This is why I work with presence. Horses speak the language of presence, and by being present, we can speak with them.
If you would like to improve your bond with your horse, I would love to speak with you 🙂 Book a free call with me!

https://talktomarykay.as.me/schedule.php

Have you experienced the “sweet spot” when you’re riding your horse? 🐴It’s that magical sensation of flow, easy movement...
08/11/2021

Have you experienced the “sweet spot” when you’re riding your horse? 🐴
It’s that magical sensation of flow, easy movement, and deep connection that feels intuitive. I’ve always described this experience as riding a cloud horse. ☁️
These precious sweet spots come and go (sometimes they feel like they’re happening by accident)… but what if you could feel this level of flow and presence all the time with your horse?
What would change for you?

I’m here. Not “here for you,” but just here. I see my horse as complete and whole. I don’t need to be here for him. I am...
04/05/2021

I’m here. Not “here for you,” but just here. I see my horse as complete and whole. I don’t need to be here for him. I am just here and available for connection.

You know the saying, “put yourself in the other’s shoes?” I put myself in my horse’s hooves as much as a person can do that for a horse.

I don’t need anything from my horse. I would enjoy connecting with him, but I don’t need to. It’s okay if he does not connect.

Do you have inner critics chattering in your head when you’re working with your horse? If you’re anything like me, this ...
03/31/2021

Do you have inner critics chattering in your head when you’re working with your horse? If you’re anything like me, this has ruined more than one ride that might have been a good one.

Dressage or whatever discipline you love, negative criticism can tear your apart inside. It hurts.

03/29/2021
How does Clicker Training Work?- You identify something you want to teach your horse to do.- You watch him closely.- Whe...
03/27/2021

How does Clicker Training Work?

- You identify something you want to teach your horse to do.
- You watch him closely.
- When he does what you want, you click a mechanical clicker (or make a clicking sound with your tongue) the very exact moment he does it.
- He hears the click and expects a treat.
- You reach to get the treat in your pocket or treat pouch and give him the treat.

Please Note: You must learn and be able to practice specific rules and guidelines to make clicker training a success, especially for Clicker Training Dressage.

https://www.facebook.com/events/782652099355115     This is a link to a Facebook Live talk I'm giving on Attention in An...
03/23/2021

https://www.facebook.com/events/782652099355115 This is a link to a Facebook Live talk I'm giving on Attention in Animal Training - It's 9 am Central Time, Saturday, March 27, 2021. Join me with my talk, "Doggone It, Pay Attention!"

Have you ever felt frustrated and bummed when your dog or horse didn't pay attention? It hurts even more when it happens when somebody is watching! This talk is for you if you've ever felt this way. To learn 3 crucial concepts that change everything about how you and your dog or horse pay attention, join MaryKay Hasseman, KPA CTP, equestrian dressage professional who trains dogs. Facebook Live Saturday, March 27, 2021, 9 am Central time in Texas, USA/ 2 pm London Time.

Squared up to shed some hair!  It’s 81 degrees in Tomball, Tx!
03/13/2021

Squared up to shed some hair! It’s 81 degrees in Tomball, Tx!

Horses notice little things that people don’t.The other day, my horse’s eyeballs kept shifting to check on me when I led...
02/15/2021

Horses notice little things that people don’t.

The other day, my horse’s eyeballs kept shifting to check on me when I led him to the pasture. I hardly ever noticed it before but it hit me that I was one of the many things he was observing within just a few minutes walk.

Click below to get my new FREE guide: 3 Ways To Not Mess Up Your Horse.

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Pay attention when something doesn’t feel right.The last time something didn’t feel right with my horse, I thought maybe...
02/09/2021

Pay attention when something doesn’t feel right.

The last time something didn’t feel right with my horse, I thought maybe I wasn’t riding him the right way or that I was doing something wrong. The next day, I found out that he had a sore back.

Click below to get my new FREE guide: 3 Ways To Not Mess Up Your Horse.

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If we don’t stop to rest, we may not get there.When I have a lot to do, I don’t want to rest til it’s done.When I’m ridi...
02/04/2021

If we don’t stop to rest, we may not get there.

When I have a lot to do, I don’t want to rest til it’s done.

When I’m riding, if I don’t watch out, I think I have to get something right before I can take a rest break. Sometimes I forget that my horse does a lot better when we stop here and there to take a break.

Click below to get my new FREE guide: 3 Ways To Not Mess Up Your Horse.

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Slow down and we may get more done.Last time I cleaned my tack room, I rushed through it and it took forever. I was exha...
02/02/2021

Slow down and we may get more done.

Last time I cleaned my tack room, I rushed through it and it took forever. I was exhausted and it still wasn’t neat enough when I finished. Once, though, I actually slowed down and didn’t think so fast. Guess what? I was quite pleased with my spiffy looking tack room and even felt like I had new energy. Has this ever happened to you?

Click below to get my new FREE guide: 3 Ways To Not Mess Up Your Horse.

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Trying gets our attention on trying, not doing.How many times have you tried to keep your hands in the right position ri...
01/28/2021

Trying gets our attention on trying, not doing.

How many times have you tried to keep your hands in the right position riding your horse? I’ve lost count! When I focus my full attention on doing something - instead of trying to do it - I don’t struggle so long to actually do it. Hope you can make some sense of this the next time you “try” to do something with your horse!

Click below to get my new FREE guide: 3 Ways To Not Mess Up Your Horse.

https://lovingpresencewithhorses.lpages.co/3-ways-to-not-mess-up-your-horse-sign-up

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An open mind helps achieve a goal.Looking for that one thing that will get you that lovely connection with your horse?Th...
01/26/2021

An open mind helps achieve a goal.
Looking for that one thing that will get you that lovely connection with your horse?

The other day, my goal was simply to canter between two target markers I’d set in the arena. I didn’t know what to expect - this was my way of keeping an open mind - and suddenly it felt so light and easy as if my horse and I were cantering on a cloud!

What’s your next goal?

Click below to get my new FREE guide: 3 Ways To Not Mess Up Your Horse.

https://lovingpresencewithhorses.lpages.co/3-ways-to-not-mess-up-your-horse-sign-up

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01/02/2021

Getting the carrots out to eat - that's what Tai wants! Be sure to turn on the sound to hear him munch!

Sundance’s hoof prints with an over step, a good sign of what to look for in a good free walk for dressage.     In a sub...
11/18/2020

Sundance’s hoof prints with an over step, a good sign of what to look for in a good free walk for dressage. In a subtle sort of way, noticing this keeps my thinking on our little successes and makes for a good ride!

Looking forward to riding this trot with Tai next year!    Patience and mindfulness, he still needs time to mature!     ...
11/10/2020

Looking forward to riding this trot with Tai next year! Patience and mindfulness, he still needs time to mature! https://vimeo.com/476862817

This is ""Let's Play" (Tai and Sundance)" by MaryKay Hasseman on Vimeo, the home for high quality videos and the people who love them.

Look for the details we miss in our day to day. We may find beauty in those details.This free e-guide, “3 Ways a Horse C...
10/19/2020

Look for the details we miss in our day to day. We may find beauty in those details.

This free e-guide, “3 Ways a Horse Can Help Accomplish Any Goal”
could change everything. Click the link and take a peek. http://ow.ly/Vqae50BLisr

Those who listen more than speak may surprise you on their insight.This free e-guide, “3 Ways a Horse Can Help Accomplis...
10/15/2020

Those who listen more than speak may surprise you on their insight.

This free e-guide, “3 Ways a Horse Can Help Accomplish Any Goal”
could change everything. Click the link and take a peek. http://ow.ly/JQjJ50BLip8

What are you thinking right this minute? My thought is a secret I don’t want to tell, but I may not even remember it tom...
10/12/2020

What are you thinking right this minute? My thought is a secret I don’t want to tell, but I may not even remember it tomorrow!

This free e-guide, “3 Ways a Horse Can Help Accomplish Any Goal”
could change everything. Click the link and take a peek. http://ow.ly/Kso350BLimV

What do you appreciate in this very moment? I appreciate my horse, Sundance, and suddenly I feel warmth and love.This fr...
10/08/2020

What do you appreciate in this very moment? I appreciate my horse, Sundance, and suddenly I feel warmth and love.

This free e-guide, “3 Ways a Horse Can Help Accomplish Any Goal”
could change everything. Click the link and take a peek. http://ow.ly/hiVz50BLiju

You know about the tortoise and the hare, right? When we rush through things it’s easier to make mistakes and miss impor...
10/05/2020

You know about the tortoise and the hare, right? When we rush through things it’s easier to make mistakes and miss important details and then it takes longer!

Want to get more done? Truly accomplish each and every goal? Take a look at my free e-guide, "3 Things a Horse Can Teach You to Accomplish Any Goal." https://lovingpresencewithhorses.lpages.co/gut-feelings-and-trinket-enroll

Have you ever said, “What was I thinking?” Do you remember the last time you did something that you wished you hadn’t?As...
10/01/2020

Have you ever said, “What was I thinking?” Do you remember the last time you did something that you wished you hadn’t?
Asking questions within ourselves helps us do the things we wish we could.

Want to get more done? Truly accomplish each and every goal? Take a look at my free e-guide, "3 Things a Horse Can Teach You to Accomplish Any Goal." http://ow.ly/7V7c50BGV82

Often logic disappears when emotions are in play. When we find ourselves in emotional situations we may overlook the fac...
09/21/2020

Often logic disappears when emotions are in play. When we find ourselves in emotional situations we may overlook the facts. If we take time to reflect on the situation and focus on what happened, and not how we felt, we may see something we first missed.
Meditation and Mindfulness may help Loving Presence show up more often.

Want a FREE Meditating with Horses Video? Click the link below! http://ow.ly/eQs250BdPk0

In a world as loud as the one we live in silence, even when it intimidating, is important. Take time to be with your sel...
09/17/2020

In a world as loud as the one we live in silence, even when it intimidating, is important. Take time to be with your self each day, it may greatly improve your well being.

Meditation and Mindfulness may help Loving Presence show up more often. Want a FREE Meditating with Horses Video? Click the link below! http://ow.ly/937s50BdPdE

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I support people in training horses, dogs, and other animals in training with a loving presence that is deeply meaningful.

As a Certified Training Partner of Karen Pryor Academy, clicker training is a major part of my work. It gives animals a way to join us in better communicating with them. It all makes the world a better place.