26/10/2021
Our society loves labels. We love to put people and animals in boxes to easily identify and define them in ways we understand. Instead of doing that, ask yourself why? When I started diving deeper into behavior and working with dogs and their people, I started critically thinking about why I was using these labels and accepting them as truths.
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Instead of thinking my dog is stubborn bad, or not listening, ask yourself why your dog performing behaviors you’re expecting of them.
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And really ask yourself, do they need to be listening or engaging with you? I suggest watching your dog’s body language when you want to use these labels and see what they’re telling you. There might be stimulation, being pushed past their learning threshold, mental or physical fatigue, or just enjoying the environment.
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In my career working with animals, I’ve started to look at myself instead of blaming the animal. I observe the environment, my body language and behavior, and what antecedents are influencing the dog’s behavior.
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Acknowledging dog’s behavior and interaction with us requires us to be introspective. We’re quick to use these labels because they push the blame off to someone else. But, when we start allowing our dogs to be our partner and teammate, that blame can be placed on us. And that’s intimidating! So instead of placing blame or labeling your dog as stubborn, annoying, bad, etc work with them! Set realistic goals and ask yourself these questions to understand their behavior.
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ID a half white on the left, half golden yellow on the right background with light pink text. The top bold text says instead and try this. The bottom texts says my dog isn’t listening with the arrow pointing to text that says why aren’t they listening? My dog is stubborn! With the arrow pointing to text that says what would set them up for success? The last row says my dog is bad! With an arrow pointing to text that says how can I help my dog thrive in my life?
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