28/10/2025
Be honest.
Honesty Is Responsible
As a guardian, caregiver, and professional, I’m not here to tell you my dogs are perfect, quite the opposite, they all have various likes and dislikes.
Some cope better in certain sitiatuions than others.
I’m here to say that if your dog struggles, being honest is the best thing you can be.
When something hurts, a thorn in a paw etc my dog Denzel will growl at me if I try to look.
He does the same with the vet. I don’t hide that, I tell them and discuss stratagies that minimise his worries.
I’m working on it, but I don’t make excuses. Honesty keeps people and dogs safe, and it also advocates for my dog.
If a dog might snap, i say so. " Sorry but they prefer space and might snap, can we get some space please.
I’ve told vets to take a break when I see my dog getting stressed. I’ve told class instructors we wouldn’t participate because my dog would panic. That’s not failure, that’s responsibility.
If I know my dog, I will speak up. Your judgment means nothing compared to my duty to protect and advocate for my dog.
Being honest about your dog isn’t shameful, it’s being responsible and can be a game changer for all involved 💛