11/20/2025
You Cannot Compete With Me.
I Want You To Win Too.**
Most people hear a sentence like that and think itâs arrogance.
Itâs not.
Itâs freedom.
See, you cannot compete with me because Iâm not competing with you.
Iâm competing with the man I was yesterday â the man God is shaping me out of.
My race is mine. Your race is yours. And there is more than enough room in the Kingdom, in business, and in life for both of us to rise.
Iâm Not Threatened by Your Success â Iâm Inspired by It.
Some people spend their days keeping score.
Counting followers.
Comparing bank accounts.
Watching whoâs training the most dogs, closing the most sales, or posting the most content.
But comparison makes you bitter.
Contribution makes you better.
When I see someone else winning â another dog trainer, another father, another business owner â I donât feel the need to tear them down or outrun them.
I feel the pull to lift them higher, because helping someone else win doesnât take anything away from my own purpose. If anything, it sharpens me.
Competition Is for Ego. Growth Is for Legacy.
Ego says, âI need to be the best.â
Legacy says, âI need to serve in the best way I can.â
Iâm building a legacy for my family, my team, and the people God puts in my path.
That mission doesnât shrink when someone else succeeds.
That mission grows.
My calling â to train dogs, transform families, raise my kids in faith, build businesses that honor God â isnât threatened by your calling.
Weâre running parallel missions with different assignments.
Iron Sharpens Iron â But Only When Itâs Close Enough to Contact.
I want you to win.
Not just because it feels good,
but because your success sharpens me too.
When you rise, you raise the standard.
When you level up, you challenge me to lead better.
When you push past your limits, it reminds me to break mine.
This is how strong men are forged.
This is how strong communities are built.
This is how you build a life where competition becomes irrelevant and collaboration becomes unstoppable.
I Truly Want You to Win.
Not with fake positivity.
Not with âsupportâ thatâs really just a performance.
But with real belief, real prayer, real encouragement.
Because if God has a plan for your life â and He does â nothing I accomplish will take away from it. And nothing you accomplish will take away from mine.
So noâŚ
You cannot compete with me.
Iâm too busy cheering for you.
And I hope youâre too busy becoming who God made you to be to worry about competing with anyone else.