11/28/2024
Please, for the love of the horse, if they get to the point where they are constantly uncomfortable, and you cannot manage the discomfort, let them go. They need to be free of pain and it's the least we can do for them
If there was one thing I would want to impart this winter season, as I get requests for ancient, decrepit surrenders who really don't deserve to be moved to a rescue, but do deserve end of life peacefully at home where they feel safe:
If you are starting to ask yourself if it's time, it likely is.
It's way better a day too early than a day too late.
While uncomfortable, it is unfair to put our emotional needs onto our animals, allowing suffering when we extend their life for just our benefit, not theirs.
Most folks, even knowledgeable and caring ones, wait far too long.
No, your old rescue likely won't find the perfect little kid. Many old equines don't get a kind ending. Please take responsibility and do it for them instead of burdening someone else.
This I have found out while I've been training, working with, and rescuing equines. While ancient donkeys often find good homes (they are adoptable since most people see them as pets) old full sized horses and mules generally don't.
I'm about to start laying this out to folks in initial calls. No, your 30 year old toothless horse "who gets around just fine and has plenty of life left" shouldn't need to move to a rescue. Let them go at home in kindness and peace.
It's not meant to be easy on us. It's hard. Death is a part of life. It's our responsibility. It's a kindness we can gift our animals. Do so.
- Rachel