01/11/2024
Let’s talk play…
Dog have all different play styles - some like to chase, some like to be chased, some like to play ‘bitey face’ games, while others like to play tug with toys.
What kind of play does your dog enjoy the most?
With my own pack (71lb GSD, 70lb Husky mix, 26lb Whippet), Marlee likes to chase, Duke enjoys variety (on the ground, wrestling & with a bit of chase mixed in), and Baja likes to outrun everyone 🤣
No matter your dog’s preference, it IS important to make sure there are some rules & boundaries around play, as it can quickly escalate.
As youngsters, Duke & Marlee’s play was ALWAYS supervised - they were strong, energetic, & enthusiastic - I put boundaries on their play so it wouldn’t get out of hand. Inside there was no play together - they were large & we were living in a small apartment on the third floor. Outside, they were given a bit more freedom, but play was still kept in check. I monitored & made sure the play was reciprocal and they were taking breaks. I also ended their play sessions after just a couple of minutes.
I didn’t get a second dog (or a third dog) to tire out my other dog. They were not left to play ‘all day’ - instead we hiked (a lot), I played with each dog separately- with tug toys, flirt poles, frisbees, etc. and we trained (& did other activities for higher energy young dogs).
As they grew, their play continued to be a short, healthy outlet. They can play with toys, without toys, in small spaces and in large open spaces. Because I did so much supervision of their play as young pups, they actually won’t play with each other unless I am in the same space (& they choose to play pretty close to me - almost too close… as I have gotten slammed into a few times 😅)
So, what does healthy play look like?
…Switching roles, bouncy body movements, dogs choosing to ‘handicap’ themselves in different ways, and the dogs taking breaks…
Periodically while playing together one dog will stop - they may sniff the ground, look at something, etc. The other dog should also stop and wait for play to resume.
Duke ‘allows’ himself to be caught by Marlee, Marlee throws her body around in goofy ways & sometimes pounces. Marlee is loud while playing - play growling, teeth clashing together, but it is all in good fun.
When Baja was integrated into the pack as a tiny, little nugget, the big dogs didn’t quite know what to do with her at first - she was fast & bouncing around them like Muhammad Ali ☺️. It took a few months for them to all adapt - Baja gained confidence boxing with the big dogs, despite Marlee’s noise, and the big dogs got used to her speed.
Duke & Marlee don’t play the way they do together with Baja - with B, there’s more chasing and running.
Just like with all dogs, big dog & little dog play should be closely monitored. If Marlee is getting too intense (prey drive takes over as she is chasing), I call her away. Play sessions are short (3-5 minutes) and they don’t choose to play every time they go outside - they sometimes critter, sniff around or watch for squirrels in the backyard.
I would not expect my three to play the way they do together with other dogs , as play is a VERY intimate thing (which is why dog parks are not a good option). When we are with other dogs, they socialize & mostly ‘work’ around each other on field trips, hikes, or inside.
If you’re having issues with managing multiple dogs or with play - it’s time to assess how your dogs are interacting with each other.
Is it non-stop playtime, all day, every day?
Is one dog too rough?
Is one dog constantly nagging the others to play?
Are your dogs able to disengage and take breaks in play?
Does your dog have a brain around their friends?
If you are struggling, this week, let’s try and manage play sessions a bit better - shorten the duration to 3-5 minutes, step in if play is seeming too rough, engage in play one-on-one with your dog instead of allowing constant play with other dogs, if you have multiple dogs do more ‘work’ time (structured walks, place, other obedience) instead of all the unstructured out of control play and see if it helps.
A long (2 minutes) video is posted below which includes unedited clips of my dogs playing with each other in different environments.
What do you notice? Do you see the breaks one dog initiates? What communication signals do you see between each dog?
The first clip is Duke & Marlee. Notice the breaks & bouncy body language. Duke also seems to think he deserves a cookie so he comes to me a few times during the clip 😅. Anything else?
The second clip is Duke & Baja. Notice Marlee playing off to the side. She is choosing not to engage with the other two & that is OKAY!
The third clip is at the beach - open space & much more running around. (This was also the first time my parents saw the Whippet’s speed, so ignore the commentary 🤣)
The fourth clip is all three again, but in the training studio. While there’s not much play happening, there’s loads of communication happening. What do you see here?
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