08/26/2025
Great post from The Timeless Dog. I couldnāt have said this better myself. When speaking with prospective clients, I explain that my goal isnāt to create a robotic dog in just a few sessions (or at all!) My training approach is gentle and methodical, helping dogs learn to meet our expectations while still respecting their natural canine behaviors. Our dogs deserve some amount of autonomy.
Feeling stuck in your dog training journey?
You might need to shift your mindset.
When we focus on all the things that are "wrong" with our dog, those become the only things we can see when we look at our dog or try to work with them.
A popular saying in the dog training community is "you dog isn't giving you a hard time, they are having a hard time."
We are expecting dogs to live in a world where they are not allowed to do any normal dog behaviors. We want them to wait patiently for us to come home, but then cuddle up on the sofa with us when they have been laying around all day. Then we get mad when they want to play. We want our dogs to never bark, except when it might benefit us. We buy dog toys, but then don't let our dogs play with them how they want because "we spent good money on that for them to not destroy it."
We ask SO much of our dogs, but when they get it "wrong" we label them the problem.
If we want to change our dog's behavior, we have to change ours first.
This week, when your dog does something you don't like try looking at it from their prospective. Did they pull you down the street on your walk and you didn't like that? Think about what you did before you left the house... was that the first time they have been outside all day after you being at work for 8 hours and they are well rested and excited? They were not trying to make the walk unpleasant for you. They were most likely just excited to be out and about with their favorite person. Did you try to set them up for success or did you just head out without thinking about bringing the treats?
Your dog is NOT trying to be difficult, but if you view them in that lens, you will only see them as difficult. Shift your mindset and shift your relationship with your dog.