Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

Psych Saturday: Softness and LightnessMy work as a therapist involves holding space for people to experience their emoti...
07/12/2025

Psych Saturday: Softness and Lightness

My work as a therapist involves holding space for people to experience their emotions in a rich, textured way. Often, these feelings stem from profound life challenges; loss, traumatic injury, or life-threatening illness, to name a few.

Some clients resist giving themselves permission to fully feel their natural emotional responses. They minimize their struggles or compare them to others’ hardships, saying things like, “These are first-world problems,” or “Others have it worse than I do.”

Others experience their pain differently, where it overshadows everything else. They become consumed by grief, worry, sadness, or anger. For a time, in their world, nothing else seems to matter.

Last week, I had the privilege of riding with Pippa Callanan. If you haven’t heard of her, I enthusiastically recommend looking her up and seeking an opportunity to audit a clinic or ride with her. She is remarkable in countless ways. During this clinic, she guided me to explore dynamic balance in movement in a way that felt fresh and enlightening. I learned to maintain awareness, offer support or correction when my horse, Nubble, and I lost balance, and then soften and allow without micromanaging once we found it.

Today, I will visit my youngest sister, who is battling end-stage cancer and has recently transitioned to comfort care. I am deeply aware of the contrast between her experience and my own struggle with a host of strong, complex emotions. I want to honor her and be present in a way that is connected and authentic. Yet, I also recognize the dangers of ignoring or minimizing my own feelings, as well as the risk of losing balance and letting my emotions consume me entirely.

I will strive to apply the lessons of balance and lightness from my ride to my time with my sister today. I aim to honor her and all that she faces while maintaining awareness of my own experience. Hopefully, I can find that balance and then soften, allowing us to be together in a space of compassion, empathy, softness, and lightness.

Life is challenging for all of us. Love and honor both yourself and others. Here’s to finding softness and lightness as you seek and hold your own balance in life and relationships. ~ Paul

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And that’s Pippa Callanan’s 2nd clinic complete already.  Only a few clinics left for 2025 - we’d love to welcome you he...
07/09/2025

And that’s Pippa Callanan’s 2nd clinic complete already. Only a few clinics left for 2025 - we’d love to welcome you here at the farm.

Although we didn't have a Casually Chaotic Conversation, we still want to know your intentions for this week.           ...
07/08/2025

Although we didn't have a Casually Chaotic Conversation, we still want to know your intentions for this week.

I had an incredible time learning from Rebecca L Algar last weekend! She put us to work… Square turns, square halts, sho...
07/07/2025

I had an incredible time learning from Rebecca L Algar last weekend! She put us to work… Square turns, square halts, shoulder in, travers, half past, leg yield, beginning medium canter, and a handful of obstacles.

Everything fit really well for where Kola and I are in our progression together. What stood out to me most was her respect for the horse and her deeply rooted principles.

I left feeling equally challenged and encouraged, fueled by enthusiasm for the art of dressage and the sport of Working Equitation.

I’m grateful for Rebecca‘s guidance and Peace Of Mind Dressage for hosting. The beautiful saddle I’m riding in is the first of its kind and I’m lucky enough to sit in it thanks to Hastilow & Sons. Thank you to Triple Crown Feed for fueling Kola through our weekend of hard work and to Another Turn Tack & Apparel or making sure I’m dressed my best and we have all the supplies we need!

~Justin

07/06/2025

We’re hosting Pippa Callanan’s clinic this Monday so we won’t be available to do our usual Facebook Live.
But set your alarms for 8am on Monday 14 as we’ll have a ton of things to share.

This is a Psych Saturday from last year around the 4th of July. It feels just as relevant today. Hope everyone had a saf...
07/05/2025

This is a Psych Saturday from last year around the 4th of July. It feels just as relevant today. Hope everyone had a safe and enjoyable 4th...

Psych Saturday: Are We Well?

I have been in a reflective mood recently. Not really brooding reflection as I am sometimes prone to do but simply curious. I am like the little kid who repeatedly asks the question, “But why?,” over and over again.

One thing that has puzzled me is why we think about health and wellness in such fractured way. We will all have our own examples. We look for answers in different corners of our worlds when the “answer” is likely to be multifaceted.

The other thing that has made my puzzler sore is why we so often invest our energies in fixing problems that arise rather than focusing on creating overall wellness; wellness in our world, industry, communities, relationships, and in ourselves and our endeavors. How is it that wellness gets so easily lost?

One of the things I love about being a horseman in today’s world is the focus on equine wellness. Whether it is in shifting our training to more relational methods, implementing new understanding from the study equine neurology and biomechanics, or shifting our approaches to how we care for our equine partners outside of the time we are riding, competing or training.

More and more I am convinced that this is a crucial shift. Shifting our mindset towards prioritizing overall wellness. Not just wellness in our horses but wellness in ourselves… an EQUAL investment. Our sport naturally involves a deep connection between us and our horses, highlighting the importance of mutual well-being. By focusing on wellness, we can boost our performance, strengthen our bonds with our horses, bolster our joy, and set an example for the broader community.

What if we committed to caring for ourselves and our horses in equal measure? What would it take to make sure we and our horses get proper nutrition, regular exercise, and adequate rest?. Could we invest equally in injury prevention and management—whether it’s booking that physio appointment or ensuring you and your horse gets regular check-ups and treatments. By making physical wellness a priority, we can stay at the top of our game.

I don’t think I will ever really understand why our mental and emotional wellness gets so easily overlook. So much attention is paid to how our emotional state affects our horses. And, an enormous amount of time, energy and money is spent trying to help our horses find peace. We talk a lot about the pressures of competition and training, but I know that life by its nature is difficult. It is full of stressors. Investment in a healthy mind and heart helps with focus, decision-making, and overall enjoyment of the sport and life (for you and your horse). Investing in mental and emotional wellbeing and nurturing a positive mindset can enhance our performance and make the journey more enjoyable for both us and our horses.

Finally, we can’t forget our relationships. Our equestrian community is a vital part of our wellness. Building strong, supportive relationships with fellow riders, trainers, as well with our family and friends fosters a sense of belonging and mutual support. Participating in community activities, sharing knowledge, and helping each other through challenges can create a nurturing environment that benefits everyone.

I know some might find this funny to hear this but the same is true for our equine partners. Our horses are social creatures as well. They benefit from many of the same community supports. While they have little say in how we manage their care, yet our approach to caring for them can have a huge impact. It only makes sense to invest in fostering strong, consistent, positive relationships with and between our horses.

So before I stop puzzling I have one more question for you. What would it take for you to make investment in overall wellness your default setting? I really want to know. ~ Paul

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07/04/2025
Kola and I had a great first licensed show (and second)! Huge thank you to Working Equitation East for putting on a grea...
07/02/2025

Kola and I had a great first licensed show (and second)! Huge thank you to Working Equitation East for putting on a great show and Polly Limond Dressage and Working Equitation for judging fairly and providing incredibly helpful feedback through her marks as well as the clinic I was able to participate in on Sunday.

Kola earned a 70% in dressage in show #1, which was awarded as the high dressage score of the day! Later in speed, unfortunately we disqualified. While it was certainly frustrating to DQ, I’m grateful to get my first one out of the way right off the bat.

Kola was quite worried about the obstacles during the ease of handling, but remained very obedient. On the second day, he felt like a different horse and I was thrilled with all three phases, coming in as reserve champion. He was accepting of the aids, confident, and truly a joy to ride!

I have a ton to learn as far as showing goes, and have come home with a lot of homework for both me and Kola.

Everyone I met this weekend was kind, encouraging, and incredibly helpful!

Thank you Triple Crown Feed for providing Kola with the best nutrition, Another Turn Tack & Apparel for making sure we were dressed our best, Hastilow & Sons for the gorgeous, one of a kind, working equitation saddle we were lucky enough to ride in!
~ Justin

Don’t miss out on this opportunity.  To book and for details DM us or contact Justin on (703) 872-9878 or Paul (703) 727...
07/01/2025

Don’t miss out on this opportunity.

To book and for details DM us or contact Justin on (703) 872-9878 or Paul (703) 727-3205.

Auditors welcome - we’d love to see you at Sycamore Seed Farm, Charles Town, WV.

What are your intentions this week??
07/01/2025

What are your intentions this week??

Don’t miss out on these two amazing events!! Click on the link below or visit the events page on the website! 👉 https://...
07/01/2025

Don’t miss out on these two amazing events!!

Click on the link below or visit the events page on the website!

👉 https://ridingfar.com/events

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